“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hard work and dedication. I started to think about my lifestyle change on women in 2013, I was a big AFC with a oneitis hb9 that liked me until I showed neediness. I was lean and fit those days though, so I received attention from women but missed on all the IoI's.

After those depressing months after her going ghost I started to write threads on SS and the members helped me out. Bradd80's miniguide, the rough way Thepoonking and some other guys approached and dealt with women opened my eyes. My nephew in Morocco is a real Don Juan too, he f8cked almost all the women in the entire city lmao. When he enters a random place in his city the girls gossip and give him eyes. He learned me to have a black heart with women, once you f8cked her, you won, move on. What else do you need from her?

I went on vacation to Morocco every year and I experienced great stuff with girls, f8cking, going out, having fun, laughing, cuddling for hours. One day I was hanging out with my nephew at a club with a bottle of vodka, the girl I was with all week joined us and she was so in love with me. It was the last day of my vacation and my nephew knew I was hooked too. He told me ''Ok now your going to show me how of a man you are, the moment she goes to the toilet were leaving and you are never going to look back to her'' Gambino: ''Why?'' DJnephew: ''Your going back to your country and she is history now''

I left, she called me 52 times that night and the days after, I missed her so hard and she cried on the phone... I never saw her again..

Back home, I started to work out, focus on study, work and approach women and follow up. Text, date, hook up.

So many rejections, some oneitis', so many loses because of neediness, so many threads here, so many ups and downs in my life. Some major wins, hook ups with 9s and months of nothing because of my own lack of motivation and mood.

Some of you followed my life true threads the last couple of years and I am thankful.

Now I can call myself on the top of my game. I'm still studying so I have a cheap car, not much money, normal clothes nothing special. But I work out, take care of my skin and mind and drink alcohol every weekend when I go out. The last 3-4 months I pick up one or two woman every day I go out. I end up in the bedroom with ONS every weekend. I grab a couple of numbers every weekend. Girls don't reject me anymore, I am on the top of the foodchain ladder as a player in my region.

Girls know me, girls gossip about me, my homeboys call me a top notch player, they talk about me. Girls even say, I heard about you, girls I date say stuff like: I think you f8cked 100s of women, I'm afraid your going to break my heart.

My game is rock solid and fits my style. I'm no dancer, but I move pretty slick, I'm tanned and short but a big big from working out, not lean, a belly and fat on my chest but I still close almost every girl I talk too. I call it the cexual approach. Make eye contact, smile, approach with a flirty comment and have a small flirty convo. Then I bail and talk to other women, she will notice and do her best to get your attention back. When I feel like she is playing games I play back like a pro. I'm almost working at the club to pick up a girl instead of having fun with friends, but hell I enjoy it.

So today I look back and think, I'm known as the big player now in my region, on the local parties. My friends tell me that I got the most self esteem they ever saw when it comes to approaching women. But the truth is, it cost me hard work and dedication. Endless rejections, endless empty feelings of losing a girl I liked, endless reading of threads and hours on So suave and ofcourse EXPERIENCE. Go out and talk to women, be fearless, go for what you want, be that alpha guy, just DO IT.

Girls I talk too feel like they are talking to a player, they know they are talking to a pro. They even know that if they reject me I wouldn't care at all. They don't play games, they don't test the waters with ignoring me, they know that if they do that they are losing me period. Oneitis girls from the past run into me and see a different guy, I f8cked their friends so they know whatsup.

I am on the top of my game and when I finish my internship and get my diplome, I will have a nice car and a top notch job. Then new games will start, I will focus myself on the top of the foodchain model girls, the carreer women, the women with 10000 followers on instagram.

The sidethings of this game and the life of Thegambino. I f8ck up relationships, I make women leave their husband or man for 1 quick lay. Yesterday I made a girl squirt with my fingers, she's 30 and didn't even knew she could do that. She is all over me ever since.

I got like 7 plates I could f8ck easily. I got several on the backburner and rejected a couple myself. I get rejected sometimes ofcourse but I just move on from them immediatley.

I don't know where this lifestyle is going to end, but I will keep this forum alive with field reports and I want to ask everyone to do the same. GO out, practice, and experience the game yourself instead of writing poets and long ass thread about investigating how women think. It's not relevant. Just be groomed and fit, be cexual, build attraction, push/pull a bit and go for what you want. That's all that matters.

Stay icey, word.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hard work and dedication. I started to think about my lifestyle change on women in 2013, I was a big AFC with a oneitis hb9 that liked me until I showed neediness. I was lean and fit those days though, so I received attention from women but missed on all the IoI's.

After those depressing months after her going ghost I started to write threads on SS and the members helped me out. Bradd80's miniguide, the rough way Thepoonking and some other guys approached and dealt with women opened my eyes. My nephew in Morocco is a real Don Juan too, he f8cked almost all the women in the entire city lmao. When he enters a random place in his city the girls gossip and give him eyes. He learned me to have a black heart with women, once you f8cked her, you won, move on. What else do you need from her?

I went on vacation to Morocco every year and I experienced great stuff with girls, f8cking, going out, having fun, laughing, cuddling for hours. One day I was hanging out with my nephew at a club with a bottle of vodka, the girl I was with all week joined us and she was so in love with me. It was the last day of my vacation and my nephew knew I was hooked too. He told me ''Ok now your going to show me how of a man you are, the moment she goes to the toilet were leaving and you are never going to look back to her'' Gambino: ''Why?'' DJnephew: ''Your going back to your country and she is history now''

I left, she called me 52 times that night and the days after, I missed her so hard and she cried on the phone... I never saw her again..

Back home, I started to work out, focus on study, work and approach women and follow up. Text, date, hook up.

So many rejections, some oneitis', so many loses because of neediness, so many threads here, so many ups and downs in my life. Some major wins, hook ups with 9s and months of nothing because of my own lack of motivation and mood.

Some of you followed my life true threads the last couple of years and I am thankful.

Now I can call myself on the top of my game. I'm still studying so I have a cheap car, not much money, normal clothes nothing special. But I work out, take care of my skin and mind and drink alcohol every weekend when I go out. The last 3-4 months I pick up one or two woman every day I go out. I end up in the bedroom with ONS every weekend. I grab a couple of numbers every weekend. Girls don't reject me anymore, I am on the top of the foodchain ladder as a player in my region.

Girls know me, girls gossip about me, my homeboys call me a top notch player, they talk about me. Girls even say, I heard about you, girls I date say stuff like: I think you f8cked 100s of women, I'm afraid your going to break my heart.

My game is rock solid and fits my style. I'm no dancer, but I move pretty slick, I'm tanned and short but a big big from working out, not lean, a belly and fat on my chest but I still close almost every girl I talk too. I call it the cexual approach. Make eye contact, smile, approach with a flirty comment and have a small flirty convo. Then I bail and talk to other women, she will notice and do her best to get your attention back. When I feel like she is playing games I play back like a pro. I'm almost working at the club to pick up a girl instead of having fun with friends, but hell I enjoy it.

So today I look back and think, I'm known as the big player now in my region, on the local parties. My friends tell me that I got the most self esteem they ever saw when it comes to approaching women. But the truth is, it cost me hard work and dedication. Endless rejections, endless empty feelings of losing a girl I liked, endless reading of threads and hours on So suave and ofcourse EXPERIENCE. Go out and talk to women, be fearless, go for what you want, be that alpha guy, just DO IT.

Girls I talk too feel like they are talking to a player, they know they are talking to a pro. They even know that if they reject me I wouldn't care at all. They don't play games, they don't test the waters with ignoring me, they know that if they do that they are losing me period. Oneitis girls from the past run into me and see a different guy, I f8cked their friends so they know whatsup.

I am on the top of my game and when I finish my internship and get my diplome, I will have a nice car and a top notch job. Then new games will start, I will focus myself on the top of the foodchain model girls, the carreer women, the women with 10000 followers on instagram.

The sidethings of this game and the life of Thegambino. I f8ck up relationships, I make women leave their husband or man for 1 quick lay. Yesterday I made a girl squirt with my fingers, she's 30 and didn't even knew she could do that. She is all over me ever since.

I got like 7 plates I could f8ck easily. I got several on the backburner and rejected a couple myself. I get rejected sometimes ofcourse but I just move on from them immediatley.

I don't know where this lifestyle is going to end, but I will keep this forum alive with field reports and I want to ask everyone to do the same. GO out, practice, and experience the game yourself instead of writing poets and long ass thread about investigating how women think. It's not relevant. Just be groomed and fit, be cexual, build attraction, push/pull a bit and go for what you want. That's all that matters.

Stay icey, word.
 

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Hard work and dedication. I started to think about my lifestyle change on women in 2013, I was a big AFC with a oneitis hb9 that liked me until I showed neediness. I was lean and fit those days though, so I received attention from women but missed on all the IoI's.

After those depressing months after her going ghost I started to write threads on SS and the members helped me out. Bradd80's miniguide, the rough way Thepoonking and some other guys approached and dealt with women opened my eyes. My nephew in Morocco is a real Don Juan too, he f8cked almost all the women in the entire city lmao. When he enters a random place in his city the girls gossip and give him eyes. He learned me to have a black heart with women, once you f8cked her, you won, move on. What else do you need from her?

I went on vacation to Morocco every year and I experienced great stuff with girls, f8cking, going out, having fun, laughing, cuddling for hours. One day I was hanging out with my nephew at a club with a bottle of vodka, the girl I was with all week joined us and she was so in love with me. It was the last day of my vacation and my nephew knew I was hooked too. He told me ''Ok now your going to show me how of a man you are, the moment she goes to the toilet were leaving and you are never going to look back to her'' Gambino: ''Why?'' DJnephew: ''Your going back to your country and she is history now''

I left, she called me 52 times that night and the days after, I missed her so hard and she cried on the phone... I never saw her again..

Back home, I started to work out, focus on study, work and approach women and follow up. Text, date, hook up.

So many rejections, some oneitis', so many loses because of neediness, so many threads here, so many ups and downs in my life. Some major wins, hook ups with 9s and months of nothing because of my own lack of motivation and mood.

Some of you followed my life true threads the last couple of years and I am thankful.

Now I can call myself on the top of my game. I'm still studying so I have a cheap car, not much money, normal clothes nothing special. But I work out, take care of my skin and mind and drink alcohol every weekend when I go out. The last 3-4 months I pick up one or two woman every day I go out. I end up in the bedroom with ONS every weekend. I grab a couple of numbers every weekend. Girls don't reject me anymore, I am on the top of the foodchain ladder as a player in my region.

Girls know me, girls gossip about me, my homeboys call me a top notch player, they talk about me. Girls even say, I heard about you, girls I date say stuff like: I think you f8cked 100s of women, I'm afraid your going to break my heart.

My game is rock solid and fits my style. I'm no dancer, but I move pretty slick, I'm tanned and short but a big big from working out, not lean, a belly and fat on my chest but I still close almost every girl I talk too. I call it the cexual approach. Make eye contact, smile, approach with a flirty comment and have a small flirty convo. Then I bail and talk to other women, she will notice and do her best to get your attention back. When I feel like she is playing games I play back like a pro. I'm almost working at the club to pick up a girl instead of having fun with friends, but hell I enjoy it.

So today I look back and think, I'm known as the big player now in my region, on the local parties. My friends tell me that I got the most self esteem they ever saw when it comes to approaching women. But the truth is, it cost me hard work and dedication. Endless rejections, endless empty feelings of losing a girl I liked, endless reading of threads and hours on So suave and ofcourse EXPERIENCE. Go out and talk to women, be fearless, go for what you want, be that alpha guy, just DO IT.

Girls I talk too feel like they are talking to a player, they know they are talking to a pro. They even know that if they reject me I wouldn't care at all. They don't play games, they don't test the waters with ignoring me, they know that if they do that they are losing me period. Oneitis girls from the past run into me and see a different guy, I f8cked their friends so they know whatsup.

I am on the top of my game and when I finish my internship and get my diplome, I will have a nice car and a top notch job. Then new games will start, I will focus myself on the top of the foodchain model girls, the carreer women, the women with 10000 followers on instagram.

The sidethings of this game and the life of Thegambino. I f8ck up relationships, I make women leave their husband or man for 1 quick lay. Yesterday I made a girl squirt with my fingers, she's 30 and didn't even knew she could do that. She is all over me ever since.

I got like 7 plates I could f8ck easily. I got several on the backburner and rejected a couple myself. I get rejected sometimes ofcourse but I just move on from them immediatley.

I don't know where this lifestyle is going to end, but I will keep this forum alive with field reports and I want to ask everyone to do the same. GO out, practice, and experience the game yourself instead of writing poets and long ass thread about investigating how women think. It's not relevant. Just be groomed and fit, be cexual, build attraction, push/pull a bit and go for what you want. That's all that matters.

Stay icey, word.

Totally Impressed man!
 

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How many years did it take to get to the top of the game from 2013. What was the timeline with the high level bullet points?
 

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He learned me to have a black heart with women, once you f8cked her, you won, move on.
This is why I would never be 100% successful as a player. I don't have the black heart that's needed.
 

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This is why I would never be 100% successful as a player. I don't have the black heart that's needed.
Being a player doesn’t really mean anything. I just ****ed and ghosted an 8 (by my friends standards). I was not interested in her or attracted to her after I banged her. My friends said I should be proud of the conquest.

On the other hand I just got played by a girl around the same level of hotness because I liked her more. And I feel pissed right now because I actually like her.

All that matters at the end of the day is do you have the girl that you want. It doesn’t matter if you have banged 10 10/10’s...what matters is do you have the chick you want right now.
 

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Your black heart could be that you just have fun but won't be attaching.
You can certainly have fun without attaching, but I don't think that's a "black heart" thing really. I think having a black heart would mean that you would never take a girl's feelings into consideration, and I don't think I could ever totally do that - not totally. I don't mean I would feel obligated to commit to some girl I didn't really like - but I do think that to be truly "top of the game" like the OP is talking about you really do have to have a certain level of ruthlessness.

For instance, Gambino's statement "I f8ck up relationships, I make women leave their husband or man for 1 quick lay ". I'm not saying I would never do such a thing, but to make it a regular habit and be proud of it, I don't think so. However, I believe most of those girls are just slvts who would screw around on their husband or boyfriend with someone else anyway, and probably do it on a regular basis.

Also bear in mind I would probably be more about this sort of thing if I was still in my 20s. But now? Nah. I'm happy for Gambino that he is having the success that he wants though.
 

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How many years did it take to get to the top of the game from 2013. What was the timeline with the high level bullet points?
It took me 6 years like you read.

2013 - Second big oneitis, started to google my problems and ended here
2014 - recovering, talking to new girls, falling down a lot - working out
2015 - talking to more girls, getting some lays, and loads of rejections, started to really like a girl on vacation though and she was all over me - totally impressed by myself dating a popular 9 with 5000 followers on social media
2016 - loads of rejections and bettering myself, more lays and loads of encounters with girls
2017 - loads of lays, no rejections anymore only when I text her after the number close, loads of kiss closes in clubs and encounters like kiss closes and lays
2018 - top of my game: every weekend two new girls that I can bang, a big list of SO MANY women that I laid and had encounters with. Big list of backburners that I could've wifed
 

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It took me 6 years like you read.

2013 - Second big oneitis, started to google my problems and ended here
2014 - recovering, talking to new girls, falling down a lot - working out
2015 - talking to more girls, getting some lays, and loads of rejections, started to really like a girl on vacation though and she was all over me - totally impressed by myself dating a popular 9 with 5000 followers on social media
2016 - loads of rejections and bettering myself, more lays and loads of encounters with girls
2017 - loads of lays, no rejections anymore only when I text her after the number close, loads of kiss closes in clubs and encounters like kiss closes and lays
2018 - top of my game: every weekend two new girls that I can bang, a big list of SO MANY women that I laid and had encounters with. Big list of backburners that I could've wifed
So about 18 months from oneitis till your getting decent lays. Inproving year by year after that till you can get laid at will by multiple ladies in a multiple of environments. What were some of the more important changes that had to occur to get you there? Would you ever consider an LTR again basd on your current understanding?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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So about 18 months from oneitis till your getting decent lays. Inproving year by year after that till you can get laid at will by multiple ladies in a multiple of environments. What were some of the more important changes that had to occur to get you there? Would you ever consider an LTR again basd on your current understanding?
Uhm, there were a LOT of inner game and behavior changes towards women. To be honest, I feel super comfortable how I act towards women nowadays. The biggest change that made most difference in getting lays is being CEXUAL and FLIRTY with women.

I'll try to write down the most important ones for you Mrgoodstuff, these are my personal changes.

-Being cexual as soon as possible
-Making cexual and dominant eye contact, look her straight in the skull while talking and smile. They will feel the cexual tension in your stare.
-Smile, be positive, be quick, short and direct.
-Be a masculine guy, grab her hand when you feel like it, grab her ass if she's a bit comfortable with you.
-Being bold
-Always let them know that your not desperate, if they act out or chicken out a bit you do two steps away too, the more aloof and cold they act the more distant you become yourself.
-REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR PUNISH BAD BEHAVIOR BY GIVING AND PULLING BACK YOUR ATTENTION TOWARDS HER
-Demand respect, when she texts another guy in front of you (ofc if shes your plate, or if you made out with her) tell her straight up: "Respect me, don't talk to other guys in front of me or flirt with other guys, either you respect me or you **** off'' I told women this and they pulled away their phone or turned down a guy in a club quicker then vinDiesel in his Mustang
-Be cexual again
-Tell her sweet and naughty things in her ears, while no one can hear it
-Play with her, call her dork, call her idiot, call her noob, just play around
-When you got her isolated in the club or in a corner or on a date, and her ASD kicks in PUSH PUSH PUSH PUSH, tell her you like her, tell her you won't tell anyone, tell her your discrete, tell her your going to make her feel super good etc etc They need that little push to go all the way


At least after years I always have a full rotation of at least 3 active plates for a couple of years and I can always walk away from a chick when she pulls out without becoming desperate and needy, but still I act needy sometimes and that's still my weak spot. Because the cex was so good or the head she gave me was so good...

It's hard for me to get in a ltr, I will only do it when I run into a super interested girl, that has a great body, that really cares about me, that can kiss like a godess, suck like a godess, f8ck like a godess, can cook and is nice and good enough to raise my future child.

Didn't find a girl like that yet or I did and she went ghost or something happened that we couldn't go further............

I hope this some sort of helps.

OFcourse, going to the gym, (still bodyfat of 20% but its alright for me, I guess it fits me) looking groomed and sharp works.

Next to that im tanned, kind of bad guy looking, I kickbox, I know A LOT OF PEOPLE in my region, so big social proof and active on snapchat, and im known as a player by now so girls find that intruiging and interesting.....
 

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Uhm, there were a LOT of inner game and behavior changes towards women. To be honest, I feel super comfortable how I act towards women nowadays. The biggest change that made most difference in getting lays is being CEXUAL and FLIRTY with women.

I'll try to write down the most important ones for you Mrgoodstuff, these are my personal changes.

-Being cexual as soon as possible
-Making cexual and dominant eye contact, look her straight in the skull while talking and smile. They will feel the cexual tension in your stare.
-Smile, be positive, be quick, short and direct.
-Be a masculine guy, grab her hand when you feel like it, grab her ass if she's a bit comfortable with you.
-Being bold
-Always let them know that your not desperate, if they act out or chicken out a bit you do two steps away too, the more aloof and cold they act the more distant you become yourself.
-REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR PUNISH BAD BEHAVIOR BY GIVING AND PULLING BACK YOUR ATTENTION TOWARDS HER
-Demand respect, when she texts another guy in front of you (ofc if shes your plate, or if you made out with her) tell her straight up: "Respect me, don't talk to other guys in front of me or flirt with other guys, either you respect me or you **** off'' I told women this and they pulled away their phone or turned down a guy in a club quicker then vinDiesel in his Mustang
-Be cexual again
-Tell her sweet and naughty things in her ears, while no one can hear it
-Play with her, call her dork, call her idiot, call her noob, just play around
-When you got her isolated in the club or in a corner or on a date, and her ASD kicks in PUSH PUSH PUSH PUSH, tell her you like her, tell her you won't tell anyone, tell her your discrete, tell her your going to make her feel super good etc etc They need that little push to go all the way


At least after years I always have a full rotation of at least 3 active plates for a couple of years and I can always walk away from a chick when she pulls out without becoming desperate and needy, but still I act needy sometimes and that's still my weak spot. Because the cex was so good or the head she gave me was so good...

It's hard for me to get in a ltr, I will only do it when I run into a super interested girl, that has a great body, that really cares about me, that can kiss like a godess, suck like a godess, f8ck like a godess, can cook and is nice and good enough to raise my future child.

Didn't find a girl like that yet or I did and she went ghost or something happened that we couldn't go further............

I hope this some sort of helps.

OFcourse, going to the gym, (still bodyfat of 20% but its alright for me, I guess it fits me) looking groomed and sharp works.

Next to that im tanned, kind of bad guy looking, I kickbox, I know A LOT OF PEOPLE in my region, so big social proof and active on snapchat, and im known as a player by now so girls find that intruiging and interesting.....
Great write-up. I know how women talk... Your reputation has it to where there are women who you don't know or barely know that want you to fvck them due to girl talk.

I like how you handle the text or talk in front of you scenario.
 
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