"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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plate randomly avoidong me?

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3 weeks ago to plate back banged her brains out. sent her on her way. she hit me up a few times afterwords. then I got ghosted. No big deal she wasnt all that good. Sex was decent though. saw her at local bar Monday. Completely and utterly avoided me like I was the devil. literally left as soon as I got there. not a big deal but anyone have insight to why she would do this? I wouldnt mind banging her again but its not a big deal just curious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah I'm on my phone at work. I know it looks like ****
 
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Maybe SHE thought she was going to be more than a fvck buddy to you
 
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I kind of made my intentions clear with her.... I wasnt a massive dvck at all just I kinda thought she knew the deal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ryan Adams said:
I kind of made my intentions clear with her.... I wasnt a massive dvck at all just I kinda thought she knew the deal.
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I "kind of" made my intentions clear with her.... Really?
 
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ehhh yeah your right. Curiosity I suppose. It's like ok we banged then you left and i didnt blow you up. sorry?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ryan Adams said:
3 weeks ago to plate back banged her brains out. sent her on her way. she hit me up a few times afterwords. then I got ghosted. No big deal she wasnt all that good. Sex was decent though. saw her at local bar Monday. Completely and utterly avoided me like I was the devil. literally left as soon as I got there. not a big deal but anyone have insight to why she would do this? I wouldnt mind banging her again but its not a big deal just curious.
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Next set.

 
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Maybe you were a bad lay and she doesn't want to take the chance she'll get cornered into that situation again?
 
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Could be she didn't enjoy the sex, could be she's ****ed, could be the god of Jupiter spoke to her and told her you're not gonna be her destiny.

Point being -> stop giving a **** why they go cold on you and let them go. You will never find out why she did it. She doesn't know, you don't need to know why.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Clearly damaged. Don’t sweat it. If you banged her you won. That’s how it works in 2018 with “women”.
 
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Plates break if you bang them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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