"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me anymore or something?

Kian_boem

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so the other day at work i was giving people there food at their table & when i went over i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school just sitting at the table with her boyfriend & i just stood there looking at her but then i looked away & went back to work. then the other day i saw her boyfriend buying food for the both of them but she didnt go with him.

but then the next day when i went out with my friends at the mall i guess she was there with her boyfriend & was talking about me because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then looked away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thatfeel21

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Disregard her. Youre 23 and wasting mental space on a "Girl you used to like and now has a bf? "
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Disregard her. Youre 23 and wasting mental space on a "Girl you used to like and now has a bf? "
+1

Doing the mental masturbation on some other man's girl reeks of low testosterone. Next set.
 
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