"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is funny because i went on 1 date with this girl and we stopped talking for like a month and half then I hit her up and she messaged me for a whole month and we went out like 3 times and she still messaged me when she went back home and now she stopped texting me.
I think is because of something I did but you never know. The first time she ignored me I didn’t care because i was talking to other broads. But now that i spent more time with her I feel like a simp. I was gonna wait like a couple weeks to text her but im sure it would be pointless this time. What do you guys think? This the same girl from my last post. I know I might be experiencing some one itits. Lol it seems we only post here when that happens.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MatureDJ

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I'd throw out one more text in a few days. Then after she doesn't respond ... NEXT!
 

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She is getting free food and free attention. What are you getting in return?

Frustrated. That's what you're getting.

Move on. Her interest is extremely low and you are not high on her list.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrJack

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Is funny because i went on 1 date with this girl and we stopped talking for like a month and half then I hit her up and she messaged me for a whole month and we went out like 3 times and she still messaged me when she went back home and now she stopped texting me.
I think is because of something I did but you never know. The first time she ignored me I didn’t care because i was talking to other broads. But now that i spent more time with her I feel like a simp. I was gonna wait like a couple weeks to text her but im sure it would be pointless this time. What do you guys think? This the same girl from my last post. I know I might be experiencing some one itits. Lol it seems we only post here when that happens.
After the month and a half layoff did you fvck her any of the 3 times you went out after reconnecting?

If not, then there’s your problem right there. If yes, it must’ve been bad sex.
 

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After the month and a half layoff did you fvck her any of the 3 times you went out after reconnecting?

If not, then there’s your problem right there. If yes, it must’ve been bad sex.
Nah I didn’t
 
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