Women who texts you after the first date only to reject you? Can women really be this mentally unstable?

[Mazer]

Met some woman off Bumble, asked her for her number on the app but she refused, so I just set up a date last Friday through the app. We met up, had a good time, heavy make out at the end of the night for about fifteen minutes in front of her apartment, tried getting up to her apartment but she said not tonight. I made three attempts. Anyway, she messages me through Bumble next day telling me she had a great/ fun time last night, asking me how my day was going. I was with plate of mine so didn't respond until this morning. I figured she would have given me her # on the night on our date but she didnt. I asked her through the bumble app for her number again today. She refused and asked me for my number instead. Most of the time when a woman asks me for my number, its usually a sign of low interest and they never contact me.

I wanted to try a different response this time around. I told her that I couldn't give her my phone number, I am too old fashioned to do that, we will just chat through the app. She messaged me back two seconds later with "OMG" "Hahahaha" "Would you prefer letters?" "Fax?" I never responded.

I did my best to maintain frame to her bs.

Im finding that some women will actually contact you the next day after the date so they can reject you before you can reject them. In her warped little mind she looks at it like if the man doesnt reach out to her after the date, she feels rejected so let me contact him to see if he asks me out so I can then reject him. Bishes be insane.

 

[R.U.G.]

First up, never meet a woman w/o getting her #. I do not care what others say, this is important. In the future just say, well I don't meet a woman without having a way to get in touch with her. If you change your mind, feel free to reach out.

You hit on the anti-slvt defense most women have. It is weird that she'd bring you back to her apt. building, but not invite you up or at least give you her #. There certainly was some interest there, however, it faded or someone else had a higher priority than you. Happens to us all. I know one thing that worked for me on a first date a few months ago is we were at the end of the date and everything was closed. I said you want to go back to your apt. and watch a movie? She said, you'll behave, right? I said, scouts honor. We got to her apt., and we were walking towards her side door, she said, remember, you said you'll behave. I said, most definitely. Kick me out whenever you like. We started making out as soon as we hit the couch.

Another thing is always have a bottle of wine with you. This works better in the colder months, but with a date, first or whenever, I always keep a bottle of wine in the back of the car. In colder months, it stays cold and always ready to go. You then can say, hey, I just remembered, a buddy of mine gave me sweet bottle of wine this afternoon. Let's crack it open and toast to us. Nine times out of ten, if the interest is high enough, she'll agree. You can use any wording you like, but it has to be believable.

 

[IKO69]

First and only mistake was meeting women off bumble

 

[R.U.G.]

First and only mistake was meeting women off bumble

Nothing wrong with bumble. Though, some of the woman are iffy at times. I blame it on the chems in the water and the food. ;'p

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Met some woman off Bumble, asked her for her number on the app but she refused, so I just set up a date last Friday through the app. We met up, had a good time, heavy make out at the end of the night for about fifteen minutes in front of her apartment, tried getting up to her apartment but she said not tonight. I made three attempts. Anyway, she messages me through Bumble next day telling me she had a great/ fun time last night, asking me how my day was going. I was with plate of mine so didn't respond until this morning. I figured she would have given me her # on the night on our date but she didnt. I asked her through the bumble app for her number again today. She refused and asked me for my number instead. Most of the time when a woman asks me for my number, its usually a sign of low interest and they never contact me.

I wanted to try a different response this time around. I told her that I couldn't give her my phone number, I am too old fashioned to do that, we will just chat through the app. She messaged me back two seconds later with "OMG" "Hahahaha" "Would you prefer letters?" "Fax?" I never responded.

I did my best to maintain frame to her bs.

Im finding that some women will actually contact you the next day after the date so they can reject you before you can reject them. In her warped little mind she looks at it like if the man doesnt reach out to her after the date, she feels rejected so let me contact him to see if he asks me out so I can then reject him. Bishes be insane.

And how's that working out?

Women have an array of thunder **** Chad's and Tyrone's to crater their SMV. Social media and girl power will cheer her off the cliff.

Its irrelevant -Jlaix

Next set.

Tighter game. Get more baeees. Acquire more resource's. Go to better venues, nicer restaurants, better vaca. Get deeded. Lift heavy. Pull quicker.

Women enter desperation as SMV plummets. Its the lack thereof in male attention. Its the drying up of Chad's and Tyrone's attention. Its the end of free meals from bad boys and Playboy. Its a feedback loop that sets off the epiphany phase Rollo speaks of. Wait for her Freudian slip. Its victimhood with tidbits of her booty call.

Its 2018. Its still incumbent regardless of feminism or gender neutrality pushes that you man up. Some other man will. Step up or step aside. Pick your poison.


I lead. She follows or next. No exceptions.

Set pace. Push. Pull. Leave her wanting more. Get creative. Take risks. Every set is practice. Its not the Superbowl or champions league final. Game 7 of 7 of the Stanley cup finals. Its not your last set or lay. Her day of reckoning is coming. Your goal isn't her or any one particular girl or set.

Game isn't about the one girl. Its not conquering s battle. Its winning the subset accumulation of games. Note pleural. Not singular. Its a subset to a much larger picture, cause, and way of being.

In the words of blanc, get better. not bitter.

Next set young blood.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

First up, never meet a woman w/o getting her #. I do not care what others say, this is important. In the future just say, well I don't meet a woman without having a way to get in touch with her. If you change your mind, feel free to reach out.

+1

Spot on. Its about creating the yes ladder. Acquired buy-in.

Cold approach, acquire number, I tell her to give me #. the # is irrelevant but, her ability to comply converts well in the bedroom.

Its Even more important with online as no connection is present. Dude saying no # is already placing dissonance between you two.

I acquire digits. Its then pics/snaps, sexting and nudes etc although, each chick, I read. Sometimes, its counter productive and sets off ASD. Other chicks, usually top form SMV, its more affective IM exp since I am the man eliciting the following response. I am generating said feels for her to be engaged in.

You hit on the anti-slvt defense most women have. It is weird that she'd bring you back to her apt. building, but not invite you up or at least give you her #. There certainly was some interest there, however, it faded or someone else had a higher priority than you. Happens to us all. I know one thing that worked for me on a first date a few months ago is we were at the end of the date and everything was closed. I said you want to go back to your apt. and watch a movie? She said, you'll behave, right? I said, scouts honor. We got to her apt., and we were walking towards her side door, she said, remember, you said you'll behave. I said, most definitely. Kick me out whenever you like. We started making out as soon as we hit the couch.

+1

If I were to guess, beta, slow play, and she went from moist to dry as ****kkkk real fast.

School boy error.

Another thing is always have a bottle of wine with you. This works better in the colder months, but with a date, first or whenever, I always keep a bottle of wine in the back of the car. In colder months, it stays cold and always ready to go. You then can say, hey, I just remembered, a buddy of mine gave me sweet bottle of wine this afternoon. Let's crack it open and toast to us. Nine times out of ten, if the interest is high enough, she'll agree. You can use any wording you like, but it has to be believable.

I disagree respectfully.

In 2018, a woman can sniff a beer cap and claim rape. I don't play this game.

One drink, I am out. I will acquire digits. Go get more baeee.

I don't drink myself. Been clear for years so, its best to avoid in my interest. Its not smart given false accusations. Not getting the ring could elicit said results.

 

[The Diver]

First up, never meet a woman w/o getting her #. I do not care what others say, this is important. In the future just say, well I don't meet a woman without having a way to get in touch with her. If you change your mind, feel free to reach out.

Dude saying no # is already placing dissonance between you two.

Such a minor issue but so important.

I had a girl flaking on me a few months ago. After setting up the date, I asked her #, but she refused and said we could communicate online. I didn't make a big deal out of it, ( just thinking its overkill safe issue on her part). But reading what you two guys said, I understand now why she flaked.

Although I did have dates before that turn out ok without me asking the # ,

I now see that if I DO ask her # and she refuses, that a bad sign, and I shouldn't proceed with the date.

Asking her # and observe her reaction is a great tool to gauge her IL.

Such a minor nuance but so important.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Such a minor issue but so important.

Nice. Its the accumulation of this above that accounts for game.

Think of a woman consciously or unconsciously checking boxes. Will I smash him? Is he alpha? The hamster in her head is on the wheel spinning all of the above.

I had a girl flaking on me a few months ago. After setting up the date, I asked her #, but she refused and said we could communicate online. I didn't make a big deal out of it, ( just thinking its overkill safe issue on her part). But reading what you two guys said, I understand now why she flaked.

Diver mate, its just the tip of the iceberg.

I next women for female logic.

Although I did have dates before that turn out ok without me asking the # ,

I now see that if I DO ask her # and she refuses, that a bad sign, and I shouldn't proceed with the date.

My game is nonchalant, indifference, aloof. Its framed as not a big deal. No investment but investing enough to set things in motion. Bait her enough to chase. Flip the script.

And yet, I am as you Americans day, "a strike out king." Your legend babe Ruth comes to mind. Its a zero sum game. Winner takes all.

I am a man. I have a flirt. Its in my nature. I go get baeeee but, its of secondary importance; both women and world. I priorize samadhi, meditation, exploring consciousness, seeking self knowledge. I lift. Ibecpwnd my mind. The following takes precedence over women and world. Its all encompassing "the hero's journey." David Deida's way of the superior man. Its marching to the beat of your own drum. Pursuit your purpose in life (whatever that is for you, whatever beacons in the moment, Here and now) and never detouring ever for anything especially women or world.

Ironically enough, it will eventually dawn on a man, the destination is irrelevant as is the outcome. Its more about the pursuit then the outcome. Its the same as pursuing your dream or woman.

Alex worded it, "it doesn't matter the move you make. It matter's that you are a man and you make moves."

Asking her # and observe her reaction is a great tool to gauge her IL.

Such a minor nuance but so important.

Its not my first rodeo young blood.

Try this. Tell a woman what to do. Where to go. Your address followed by "pick me up." Tell her to give you her #.

Again, what you say is irrelevant. Its the "yes ladder" pickup 101 that matters.

As in, I lead. She follows or #next!


Fertility, SMV, girl power promos cheering women off the cliff.

So be it. There's a man with a purpose. A man who has the stones to live at his edge. This go out on his shield regardless of the feminine imperative and pathology of this world.


Think Mad Max, the Apocalypse, the four horse men. The world is ending. The sky is falling and yet, you are annihilating your purpose without excuse or exception.

 

[Mazer]

I messaged telling her this isnt going to workout, good luck and ghosted. She responded with her phone number. Stupid shyt test. Don’t plan on calling her. Next!

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I messaged telling her this isnt going to workout, good luck and ghosted. She responded with her phone number. Stupid shyt test. Don’t plan on calling her. Next!

Yes, next set but, don't excuse this opportunity to run game. Every set is practice. Run it into the ground.

"Movie night. My place. Wear something Sexy!"

Low libido, low sex drive is a deal breaker.

 

[RangerMIke]

@R.U.G. is right... you have to get her number. But she met you on a date, which is good. And your assumptions are correct, if she won't give it to you after a 1st date you should just move on... she really isn't interested.

If a chick won't give me her number and asks for mine I give it to her... I understand why it's not a good idea to do this, but I just don't care. Give her your number and tell her you might not answer if you don't know who is calling so just leave a message and you'll call her back. Sometimes they'll give up the number then... if she does go ahead and make another date later and see what happens. Otherwise you are onto the next one. If she reaches out fine, assume she is interested in you and make a date. But until that happens just forget about her.

 

[R.U.G.]

I disagree respectfully.

In 2018, a woman can sniff a beer cap and claim rape. I don't play this game.

One drink, I am out. I will acquire digits. Go get more baeee.

I don't drink myself. Been clear for years so, its best to avoid in my interest. Its not smart given false accusations. Not getting the ring could elicit said results.

Since you're already going out for drinks, I do not see this as an issue. If the bottle is sealed, it shouldn't be an issue either. Nonetheless, I hear your concerns. That is why I always have a voice activated recorder on me. Here's the one I have in my pocket. Here's the one I have in my bedroom. They both have internal memory as well as a miroSD card slot. I download that to my computer, then upload it to my secure cloud and file it under the woman's name and keep forever. It's bulletproof.

Some may think this is too much, I just consider it another level of insurance; especially if you are a man on your purpose and have built a net worth for yourself. Men like this are always a moving target.

 

[R.U.G.]

Such a minor issue but so important.

I had a girl flaking on me a few months ago. After setting up the date, I asked her #, but she refused and said we could communicate online. I didn't make a big deal out of it, ( just thinking its overkill safe issue on her part). But reading what you two guys said, I understand now why she flaked.

Although I did have dates before that turn out ok without me asking the # ,

I now see that if I DO ask her # and she refuses, that a bad sign, and I shouldn't proceed with the date.

Asking her # and observe her reaction is a great tool to gauge her IL.

Such a minor nuance but so important.

If there is no interest in giving you her #, then something is out of whack. Skip and Next her. Not worth your time. It basically means she already has other men on the hook, and you are backup. # 390138012. LOL.

 

[R.U.G.]

I messaged telling her this isnt going to workout, good luck and ghosted. She responded with her phone number. Stupid shyt test. Don’t plan on calling her. Next!

Delete the message just in case you get weak. It was a **** test, which you passed. However, you can expect many many more in the future from this one.

 

[R.U.G.]

Yes, next set but, don't excuse this opportunity to run game. Every set is practice. Run it into the ground.

"Movie night. My place. Wear something Sexy!"

Low libido, low sex drive is a deal breaker.

Not worth the effort. She was just shocked that he came back at her with they thanks, but no thanks line. She'll not fvck him, so why waste his time? She thinks her sh!t doesn't stink. It's almost never worth keeping those women around. They are just drainers of time and energy.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Since you're already going out for drinks, I do not see this as an issue. If the bottle is sealed, it shouldn't be an issue either. Nonetheless, I hear your concerns. That is why I always have a voice activated recorder on me. Here's the one I have in my pocket. Here's the one I have in my bedroom. They both have internal memory as well as a miroSD card slot. I download that to my computer, then upload it to my secure cloud and file it under the woman's name and keep forever. It's bulletproof.

Some may think this is too much, I just consider it another level of insurance; especially if you are a man on your purpose and have built a net worth for yourself. Men like this are always a moving target.

Rug mate, don't play the game. Its dimply not worth it.

Your logic is correct but, two drunken college kids led to a man being kicked out if school and tried as a rapist.

There's no risk worth pulling. Its just not ideal and I've turned down drunk dials. Its not OK when feminism and society will cut off your balls.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Not worth the effort. She was just shocked that he came back at her with they thanks, but no thanks line. She'll not fvck him, so why waste his time? She thinks her sh!t doesn't stink. It's almost never worth keeping those women around. They are just drainers of time and energy.

You work in sales.

You run every lead through your sales funnel no matter how ****ty the lead. Its not even about the lead. Its just about that practice. Obv, #nextset!

Its just fun to burn each set to the ****ing ground.