How many women are actually decent with finances?

[bigdave17]

I'm curious about this because I have no meaningful long term dating experience


How many women are any good with finances? As in they're able to live within their means, actually save some money, have no debt, etc....? I'm phenomenal with finances... I should be a millionaire by the time I'm 37-40 and it honestly terrifies me to date some chick who is a compulsive spender or super high maintenance. Don't get me wrong, I'm not cheap by any means - I have a very nice car, very nice clothes but I try to look for a bargain, don't waste money on stupid bullsh*t, keep my cars for 5-8 years, etc... I feel like I do a great job of balancing frugal with still have a great quality of life. I vacation 8 times a year, etc...

Should I care a lot about how much money they make themselves if I don't want to be taken advantage of?

 

[The Duke]

Your first step is to lose your virginity. I told you that needs to happen by Sunday. Got any girls lined up?

All of your questions follow the same pattern:

1. GayDave asks a question based in fear.
2. GayDave uses the question as a platform to tell SS how rich or good looking he is or how he is better than the majority of people out there so he can feel better about himself.
3. GayDave is full of reasons not to do something.

 

[Murk]

Why does every thread have to involve how great you are? Serious question. Are you like this in real life or do you just save all this homo speech for us online?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Your first step is to lose your virginity. I told you that needs to happen by Sunday. Got any girls lined up?

All of your questions follow the same pattern:

1. GayDave asks a question based in fear.
2. GayDave uses the question as a platform to tell SS how rich or good looking he is or how he is better than the majority of people out there so he can feel better about himself.
3. GayDave is full of reasons not to do something.

Well you know his PLAN to get the woman he wants HAS to be successful. There's no way in the world there would've been a better way to do things. Right?

 

[bigdave17]

Your first step is to lose your virginity. I told you that needs to happen by Sunday. Got any girls lined up?

All of your questions follow the same pattern:

1. GayDave asks a question based in fear.
2. GayDave uses the question as a platform to tell SS how rich or good looking he is or how he is better than the majority of people out there so he can feel better about himself.
3. GayDave is full of reasons not to do something.

ive had sex with 12 to 15 women, all way below my league

im not a virgin though

 

[Murk]

ive had sex with 12 to 15 women, all way below my league

im not a virgin though

But the girls "in your league" want nothing to do with you... because you're actually below their league.

Don't you see this?

 

[bigdave17]

But the girls "in your league" want nothing to do with you... because you're actually below their league.

Don't you see this?

hhmmm I've had some 6 to 7/10 women approach me recently. They're good looking enough but not my type

1 was blonde and too tall (I like dark mediteranean features and normal height like 5'2 to 5'8)

1 was too dumb/trashy

I stopped having sex with women unless they're good enough to date. I feel it is immoral because women can't do casual sex. They always want a relationship

 

[IKO69]

There are many that have their own apartments/homes, cars etc. so some aren't too bad with finances. A lot have a propensity for spending their money on a lot of bull**** though, ridiculously expensive designer bags and shoes for example.

 

[bigdave17]

There are many that have their own apartments/homes, cars etc. so some aren't too bad with finances. A lot have a propensity for spending their money on a lot of bull**** though, ridiculously expensive designer bags and shoes for example.

I like shoes and fancy stuff too but everything within reason

 

[IKO69]

I like shoes and fancy stuff too but everything within reason

It's important. You should dress well, good shoes are something worth the money. I have a coule of nice designer leather shoes I bought but I don't think I ever spent more than $300 or so. Can't fathom how some women think spending $700+ on pumps is a smart.

 

[bigdave17]

It's important. You should dress well, good shoes are something worth the money. I have a coule of nice designer leather shoes I bought but I don't think I ever spent more than $300 or so. Can't fathom how some women think spending $700+ on pumps is a smart.

there are women who spend 700 dollars on shoes?

 

[zekko]

Here is my experience:

Some women are very responsible with their finances. I've known some who saved and invested huge percentages of their income, and others who didn't invest much but could run their household budget efficiently. Generally speaking though, they are in the minority. Most women are very impulsive, and that is why they have a tendency to run up their credit cards. That is why there are channels on TV dedicated to selling things to women. Some guys are also impulsive like this, and can't handle money.

I know one woman who was very responsible with her money, but went through a phase where she started spending money like water. Then she later got it back in control again. I'd say if you find a woman who can control her spending, she is a catch (of sorts, depending on her other attributes).