Designer Man
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I'm struggling. She hasn't spoke today and I feel like I'm having a meltdown
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
We broke up but I can't go NC just yet...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Von
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Go so a male psychologist.
You need to find there is more to life than woman, or 1 woman "who makes you think she loves you" .
Extend your horizon, 1 day at a time.
Best way to feel better is to keep busy and extend your horizon slowly 1 day at a time. Like: go for a swim than talk to 2 strangers, and reward yourself with a movie.
Start reading DJ Bible
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Find something you like to do. Take another 2 days just because your weak.
greatsnake
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someone report this troll and end this post..