"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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asking for a friend seriously

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he is in alot of the same situation I was in he got ghosted but he might be able to save his. he talked to homegirls friend and all she said was john you were a bit much. what does this mean and what can he do? they dated for about 2 months or so she wanted something casual
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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he is in alot of the same situation I was in he got ghosted but he might be able to save his. he talked to homegirls friend and all she said was john you were a bit much. what does this mean and what can he do? they dated for about 2 months or so she wanted something casual
He can ignore her and fvck other girls . She'll get at him if she wants him.
 

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I told him to get on this site I guess me and my friends have alot to learn. what does a bit much mean?
 

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What is this high school?
Tell your friend John to sign up and share his story.
Going through a middle man to extract or gain information is a feminine trait.
Whenever people do this, I always get the impression that I'm only getting 30% of the story.
A man needs to be direct, because this is a straight up tease!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You've been here 18 months and you cant provide this basic advice to your buddy?
 

Ryan Adams

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I told him to make an acct. dude were out here in the middle of nowhere in Mississippi we dont have much access to fancy things like computers like you city folk do lol
 
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