"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Prodoge

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ok...

I will talk about what I do/like and a technique that I wish you guys to try.

I talk alot before and during sex... not dirty, but naughty..
tell her she is a naughty girl, how your actions are creating new feelings and sensations that are very very naughty for such a small girl.
(all women are girls inside)

Foreplay kissing neck, shoulders, lots of breast play and hand on the pubic mound, ass grab and massage so a finger touches the side puss
intro to sting/slaps on ass/thighs/nipples (this is not about power/control)

Oral to her... technique hint: I call it the cradle...
her laying on back
you sit facing her feet on her right, about mid body, slightly turned to her
put your whole torso over her, like you are going down on her from the top... but
throw her left leg over your shoulder and tuck it under your left armpit, repeat with right leg
now with your right arm and hand, grab her under the ass with your full arm and pull her up to you
you should be literally bringing her puss up to your mouth (imagine holding a watermelon in your arm with the top of the melon cut off so you can eat it)
eat at will, feed off of that... everything is exposed and she is fully submitted to your oral/fingers

The following may be counter to your preferences but...

Oral to you... tell her to go slowwww, tell her you want her to feel every inch so she knows she is sucking c0ck
Sex: slow, fvck her slowly... in and out (tell her how naughty it is that she likes to feel every inch)
Sex: again... slow.. in and out slow (if she is on top this will drive her nuts)
(you want to achieve the exact opposite of typical porno sex) until...
slowly build up your strokes to fnally become a blur, smashing and jackhammer at climax


These techniques have led me to great success and many top scores...
(as these styles and techniques she has likely never experienced as most dudes simply only know porno-sex for 5min)

enjoy my fellow DJ's

My current girl has only climaxed with me by me going down on her, but that veing said she climaxes every time I go down on her.

I would like to climax more or less at the same time any tips for achieving that ? Usually I vary speed and depth but in no particular order (i could start slow, go fast and back to slow). But no success for now
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Prodoge

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Definitely yes, different positions change the sensation for both individuals. Its worth exploring what works! Lots to be had in doing so. If you are long enough and in a position that allows deep penetration you can feel the head of your penis inside her cervix and that's the best feeling in the world.

I'd say the female benefits the most from different positions, especially those that focus on her klit as well as inside.

If you want to take it to a entirely new level, have sex in a sex swing sometime.

I've bent my penis with a girl on top, nothing serious, but we did have to take a time out.

That is the best feeling, makes me *** super fast. But I don't always find a position where I reach the cervix, what are the best ones for it ?
 

Prodoge

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Missionary only, minimal foreplay, minimal duration, minimal noise.

;)

To be fair though missionary is the standard boring position some may say, but if the girl is holding on for dear life, legs around you while breathing heavily and sometimes even scratching your back without realizing you know
 

flowtheory

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My current girl has only climaxed with me by me going down on her, but that veing said she climaxes every time I go down on her.

I would like to climax more or less at the same time any tips for achieving that ? Usually I vary speed and depth but in no particular order (i could start slow, go fast and back to slow). But no success for now
Has she ever been able to orgasm from penetrative sex or only oral?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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missionary, try grinding her cl1t with your pubic bone (just above your c0ck)
 

highSpeed

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There is a difference between relationship good sex and plate good sex. Remember, desire diminishes after a certain period of time, so the woman keeping it up is tough. Sure, she was the free spirited, let's do it anytime, anywhere anyway type of woman but that is like a car salesman telling you this isn't the car for you, isn't going to happen. She's going to show whatever sexuality that she needs to show to get whatever guy it is in the relationship. You like x? She's going to do x while you're dating. After you're dating and you're in a serious relationship/marriage, x probably isn't going to be on the menu and if it is, it's going to be rare. So good sex is different in those 2 situations. She keeps doing x after you're in the serious relationship? You've probably got a keeper.

So with the preamble aside, good sex in a relationship is probably a woman who keeps the sexual desire alive. If the sexual desire is alive, she's probably going to be down for doing pretty much whatever. And for the vast majority of guys, that's a good bit of keeping them happy in a relationship. Yes, there are other things outside the bedroom but honestly, without the sex, those things don't matter all that much. She could be a great cook, awesome attitude, all of the other intangibles but if there's little to no sex, I'm still not going to be satisfied. Put it this way, she could be a b*tch on wheels and if the sex is great, you're going to go a lot further with her than with a great woman who never puts out.
 
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