"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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I've been noticing my acquaintances getting married to dumpy Latinas

MatureDJ

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It seems that a lot of my acquaintances/friends I know who have been long-time single or divorced have been getting married to dumpy Latinas. It's almost as if these are the only American women who are not hypergamous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have a few friends who married Latinas. They seem to be the happiest of all the guys I know and the longest lasting marriages thur far. A lot of the Latina's in my area seem to have that old school relationship ethic "hypergamous". Except for one of my boys who dated one. She cheated on him, gave him hpv, lied about her age. Told him to stay away from her within weeks of him dating her cause I read thru her bs. Even after she cheated he still wouldn't listen. He hated me for being a truth teller as all he did his whole life was pay for sex, its all he knew. So after a 15 year friendship he decided that girl was more valuable. He abandoned all his friends to never hear from him again. That was almost 10 years ago. Found out he ended up marrying her along with having 2 kids.
 

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It seems that a lot of my acquaintances/friends I know who have been long-time single or divorced have been getting married to dumpy Latinas. It's almost as if these are the only American women who are not hypergamous.
Are those guys happy? Those same dumpy Latinas might be very submissive, helpful, loving, will cook clean etc.
 

Billtx49

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It seems that a lot of my acquaintances/friends I know who have been long-time single or divorced have been getting married to dumpy Latinas. It's almost as if these are the only American women who are not hypergamous.
Regarding Latino women, I have found that many of them are more grounded in their traditional culture as it pertains to the male/female dynamic. Respect, loyality, importance of the family unit, etc.
At a certain point a woman's personal qualities can overcome her looks. It All depends on what you want…
 
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mrgoodstuff

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Regarding Latino women, I have found that many of them are more grounded in their traditional culture as it pertains to the male/female dynamic. Respect, loyality, importance of the family unit, etc.
At a certain point a woman's personal qualities can overcome her looks. It All depends on what you want…
Some of those values are beautiful . Treat her good and her confidence and beauty will grow .
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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