Ryan Adams
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 31, 2016
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- Age
- 37
danced with a chick last night who I happen to be friends with on facebook. we dont know each other is it weird if I facebook messanger her?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.