Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So much truth
Very true, but what will the end result be when those differentiating lines become blurred?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That entire tribe is a bunch of back stabbing, lying acting like a victim drama queens.
Because he does. You are not him.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
But at least these "liberated" women don't charge Chad for it.
I think the reason for that is because more and more men are simping, tricking, and chasing after low quality women. Nowadays if a woman has a nice body and knows how to get nasty, men will give her a pass on all of her character flaws. The sluts are the ones getting all the likes and attention now. Men are putting the worst of women on a pedestal, just because of their willingness to put themselves on display. So now all the other women are like, ok well let me act and dress like a slut too, because that's what men want now
Lol, you should become the poster with most likes on SoSuave, based on this statement alone. Drop the mic.
Wish I had a single like more, right now they are 17...not the luckiest number in europe
Oddly enough, that status goes to a married man who's not in the game and spends his time giving advice to single guys who are in the game.......(or he's married and finds the time between bodybuilding and playing happy families to somehow meet random women....)
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.