"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is widespread availabily of sp3rm donors making women just rid themselves totally of men?

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/05/sperm-donation-anonymous/560588

The series of events that led McKinney to Alexandra Sanchez—who is now 28 as well, and was raised in Colorado and later Arizona by a mother whose live-in partner was ambiguously referred to as an “aunt”—began decades ago, before either woman was born. Both McKinney and Sanchez learned in their teenage years that they had been conceived through sperm donation, but neither knew who their father was. Sanchez’s mother is Hispanic, McKinney’s mother is black, and they’d both always thought they looked like their moms. That day in January, they were meeting to take a DNA test that would later confirm what they intuited upon seeing each other.
"Aunt" ...

my opinion: With widespread sp3rm donation that pays good genetic specimen college students a few bucks for what virtually all men do for free :rolleyes:, women now can "have it all": good genes, government support & the freedom to not have to properly service a man to have a family. :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you think women need men, you’re kidding yourself. It’s the other way around.
 

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Yeah, but where's the fun?
 

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If you think women need men, you’re kidding yourself. It’s the other way around.
Women and men both need each other. That’s the saddest thing about society today - one big giant p!ssing match between the sexes to avoid any type of real intimacy or connection.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No. normal women want a family.
And where are these "normal" women you speak of? All I see is women jumping to the next best deal. Nothing wrong with that, however, it's the opposite in terms of forming the cohesive family unit.
 

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The family unit is history. Even those families who seem like a solid unit now really aren't. Because all it takes is these three words from HER and the unit is nuked: "I'M..... NOT..... HAPPY..... ". That's it. Family terminated.
 

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The family unit is history. Even those families who seem like a solid unit now really aren't. Because all it takes is these three words from HER and the unit is nuked: "I'M..... NOT..... HAPPY..... ". That's it. Family terminated.
Funny thing is, when you do the things that you think and she says will make her happy, no luck. I fell for that trick years ago. I then woke up and stopped playing that game. It's a catch-22. You do nothing, it's done. You do something, it's done. Thus, it's just better to enjoy women with the time you have with them and then when your time is up, just move on. Trying to reason with a woman in terms of rationalization and emotions is like trying to broker a peace between the Israeli's and Palestinian's. It's just not going to work out to the way you want it to. Again, best not to play and just walk away.
 

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And where are these "normal" women you speak of? All I see is women jumping to the next best deal. Nothing wrong with that, however, it's the opposite in terms of forming the cohesive family unit.
Ok. to keep with the sosuave narrative ...."there are no normal women. they all have bpd. they are all unfaithful *****s..........and sosuave is full of hardcore redpill chest thumping alpha males"

Happy?
 

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Ok. to keep with the sosuave narrative ...."there are no normal women. they all have bpd. they are all unfaithful *****s..........and sosuave is full of hardcore redpill chest thumping alpha males"

Happy?
Define normal. What's normal to and what's normal to me are probably very different. Men and women can have BPD. However, you should know, if a woman (or man) is on any anti-depressant drugs, that's a red flag right there. I dated two of them. It was a ride and a half. Ever hear that song from Bodycount? Relationships. Nothing is all, but many are (unfaithful). It's not your woman, it's just your turn. Famous last words. Not thumping my chest, just giving my opinion. This is still America... Right?

 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No. This sort of "I don't need a man!" battle cry is typically reserved as a plausible excuse for women who have been driving suitable men away from them for years, only to realize that one day they wake up and suddenly they're 40+ years old, shiver at the idea of becoming "crazy cat lady" and suddenly decide that they DO want kids after all, but find it's too late to pick from the pool of single men, all of the best of which have either been snatched up already and/or aren't stupid enough to be fooled by marriage again.
It's scary how accurate you are brother. I know several women between 39 - 43 that STILL believe they are going to find a hubby and have two or three kidos. Heaven help them.. They should had thought of that in their 20's. I.E. plan for the future.... Guess that is too hard for some people.
 

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It's scary how accurate you are brother. I know several women between 39 - 43 that STILL believe they are going to find a hubby and have two or three kidos. Heaven help them.. They should had thought of that in their 20's. I.E. plan for the future.... Guess that is too hard for some people.
I can remember on MySpace (remember that? :p) that a Friend of a Friend had looked at my profile (divorced early 40s), in which I said that being 40, I was interested in women aged 25. She called me a creep. :rolleyes:
 

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I can remember on MySpace (remember that? :p) that a Friend of a Friend had looked at my profile (divorced early 40s), in which I said that being 40, I was interested in women aged 25. She called me a creep. :rolleyes:
They're just pissed at themselves due to missed opportunities and regrets. Most women do not plan for the future and just live in the present. TBH, many millennial and gen-z men do as well. Crazy world we're now living in.
 
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