Women have more vigour for life?

[flowtheory]

Ive perceived this in my city. Women, as compared to men, seem to have more enthusiasm, desire to explore, and try new things, more often than their male counterparts.

I work in customer service so I see MANY people everyday. Ranging from young to old, both men and women. I generally see men following their women around the store and seemingly more tired. Generally more unhappy in a sense. The women seem more joyous in the little things (which eventually create the bigger things; the compound effect)
When I walk on the seawall women are more ardent in their expressions too. Men are kind of ‘zoned out’.

I hike every weekend also, and the trail is always single woman after single woman, yet no single men. If I see a man he’s with a woman. I’m literally the only man alone on the trail aside from when a guy is with another guy.
Even in other areas I see women doing activities by themselves, then again I don’t often hear of or see men doing these same things as an individual. The only thing men often do alone in their lives which I generally hear of, is go to the gym.
I then did toastmasters a bunch of times and it was again, generally women.
When I look around single women are everywhere doing things.

So it seems to me as though women are constantly bettering themselves as individuals on a daily basis; enjoying more
of the moments and falling in love with life around them, and men are not.

What is this all about; Is it correlated with men losing their drive and zest for life and then having women pass on them time and time because they had become bores as individuals in their own personal lives with not as much to offer as the women they are seeing?

This is all a generalization of course, and just things I perceive on a daily basis.
Even as I look out of my apartment window now, which faces to a busy steeet, women are better dressed, leading the interaction, stopping at shop windows, and the men kind of just sit there in tow.

Thoughts?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

women are better dressed, leading the interaction, stopping at shop windows, and the men kind of just sit there in tow.

Women are valued by appearance more so than men. They tend to have better social skills than men do, but those with the best social skills are still always men (due to testosterone, leadership, mindset, confidence, etc). Women get sidetracked more easily but also can multitask better while men don’t but have have the ability to tunnel vision and laser-guid their focus for a more specific end. Men are inherently better at math and geometry (spatial intelligence/awareness) due to white matter/grey matter ratio differences in the brain. You can no longer really find that info about white and grey matter anymore because of the whole trans bull**** but before all that was mainstream, I did hella reading on the brain and everything. Yes, men and women have different brains. It is dictated by your androgenic and estrogenic hormone levels and whether you are XX or XY, which coincidentally does also affect the former as well furthering the differences.

Men are different from women in society. The unwritten rules are different. Men have it harder to maintain themselves simply because it’s expected of them to already have a job and take care of themselves. Women on the other hand aren’t expected to like men. You know this first hand I assume... Many women don’t have to take care of themselves as much because they have others doing it for them. Statistics show that there are WAYYYYY more safety nets for women than men; more government incentives (basically free money for having a vagina at a certain job or institution), more government aid, lopsided court/marriage system, more easily to get help from friends and/or family as well. They don’t need to rely on themselves as much. Put a woman through the same stress as men, and she ages much faster, atrophies instead of strengthens, has a delayed menstrual cycle or even becomes infertile under worst case scenarios. That’s why society takes care of them more so than men. But you go ahead and starve a man and he’ll still be able to ejaculate lol.

Women also tend not to be as mentally mature as men in their later years. Throughout later years of elementary school, and then middle school through high school, females tend to be on average 3 years older than men in terms of their mental maturity. They also stop growing their mental maturity much sooner than males do, likely because they don’t feel a need to increase it further and just think ‘good enough’ for a long enough time to where they just sort of ‘forget’ how to increase their mental maturity. But while men are behind initially, they keep it up for years to come and eventually surpass the women. And because they’ve had to keep increasing their mental capacity for so long, it is pretty much habitual at that point so they don’t stop at ‘good enough’. Women are still children relative to their male counterparts after the mid to late twenties I would say. That’s why so many of the older guys on here say that all women are children lol. Because there’s still a lot of similarity. And as such, children tend to have more fluid intelligence, as in willing to try new things to meet a goal whereas crystallized intelligence is more like sticking with the same thing. Keep in mind women also tend to get sidetracked more easily and men tunnel-vision more like I said before. There’s a couple other things but that’s the basic gist of it.

Men are men, women are women. It’s that simple.

 

[Roober]

Men today conform to women so much they dont know how to operate independently. The demasculinization of American men has caused a massive shift in the power of relationships, where women are becoming the leaders of their love life. Couple this with all of the resources for men to be lazy (watch sports, video game, cheap services to avoid manual labor, etc.), and you end up androgynous men incapable of operating without the guidance of a woman. And whole these lazy fvck sit around watching TV, she is at a yoga class, hiking, or out with the kids.

How does it look when a woman is out and she says, "oh John, he's at home watching football"? Get enough people to question. Her husband and she will question it herself...

 

[Spaz]

Women are valued by appearance more so than men. They tend to have better social skills than men do, but those with the best social skills are still always men (due to testosterone, leadership, mindset, confidence, etc). Women get sidetracked more easily but also can multitask better while men don’t but have have the ability to tunnel vision and laser-guid their focus for a more specific end. Men are inherently better at math and geometry (spatial intelligence/awareness) due to white matter/grey matter ratio differences in the brain. You can no longer really find that info about white and grey matter anymore because of the whole trans bull**** but before all that was mainstream, I did hella reading on the brain and everything. Yes, men and women have different brains. It is dictated by your androgenic and estrogenic hormone levels and whether you are XX or XY, which coincidentally does also affect the former as well furthering the differences.

Men are different from women in society. The unwritten rules are different. Men have it harder to maintain themselves simply because it’s expected of them to already have a job and take care of themselves. Women on the other hand aren’t expected to like men. You know this first hand I assume... Many women don’t have to take care of themselves as much because they have others doing it for them. Statistics show that there are WAYYYYY more safety nets for women than men; more government incentives (basically free money for having a vagina at a certain job or institution), more government aid, lopsided court/marriage system, more easily to get help from friends and/or family as well. They don’t need to rely on themselves as much. Put a woman through the same stress as men, and she ages much faster, atrophies instead of strengthens, has a delayed menstrual cycle or even becomes infertile under worst case scenarios. That’s why society takes care of them more so than men. But you go ahead and starve a man and he’ll still be able to ejaculate lol.

Women also tend not to be as mentally mature as men in their later years. Throughout later years of elementary school, and then middle school through high school, females tend to be on average 3 years older than men in terms of their mental maturity. They also stop growing their mental maturity much sooner than males do, likely because they don’t feel a need to increase it further and just think ‘good enough’ for a long enough time to where they just sort of ‘forget’ how to increase their mental maturity. But while men are behind initially, they keep it up for years to come and eventually surpass the women. And because they’ve had to keep increasing their mental capacity for so long, it is pretty much habitual at that point so they don’t stop at ‘good enough’. Women are still children relative to their male counterparts after the mid to late twenties I would say. That’s why so many of the older guys on here say that all women are children lol. Because there’s still a lot of similarity. And as such, children tend to have more fluid intelligence, as in willing to try new things to meet a goal whereas crystallized intelligence is more like sticking with the same thing. Keep in mind women also tend to get sidetracked more easily and men tunnel-vision more like I said before. There’s a couple other things but that’s the basic gist of it.

Men are men, women are women. It’s that simple.

Brilliant reply and concise.

Women's natural ability at multitasking is clue enough to explain what OP is seeing on a daily basis.

 

[skinnyguy]

Oh, men better themselves.

But they do it to get puss. Women just do it for themselves.

 

[flowtheory]

Oh, men better themselves.

But they do it to get puss. Women just do it for themselves.

Then there’s something to be learned for men within this statement.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Oh, men better themselves.

But they do it to get puss. Women just do it for themselves.

Females cannot lead. If the world (or anything) was led by females, it would go nowhere fast.

They are worthless without a male telling them what to do. That is nature.

Unfortunately, their "brains" have been corrupted by 3 waves of feminism into thinking that they are actually independent and capable people.

 

[MrWood]

i used to think women were busy all the time, because that what "high value" people do.
then I got several woman to confess they fill up every minute, schedule every hour... so they have no time for relationship worries

 

[RichardTheFrog]

i used to think women were busy all the time, because that what "high value" people do.
then I got several woman to confess they fill up every minute, schedule every hour... so they have no time for relationship worries

Their entire existence is a defense mechanism to deny how useless and worthless they are. Especially all the nonsense they put into "looking good."

They really make the world an awful place to live in.

 

[MrWood]

Females cannot lead. If the world (or anything) was led by females, it would go nowhere fast.

take a look at what has happened to countries where women are president... they have tended to fvck it up beyond belief

 

[RichardTheFrog]

take a look at what has happened to countries where women are president... they have tended to fvck it up beyond belief

Can you imagine if men stopped doing things for females? They would turn into little babies in 2 seconds. That's what makes their pretentious attitudes so hard to deal with.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Their entire existence is a defense mechanism to deny how useless and worthless they are. Especially all the nonsense they put into "looking good."

They really make the world an awful place to live in.

Okay actually now I'm talking to this Hooters girl from SA and she's being pretty cool. So I like them again.

Plus, I was drunk when I said all that.

Plus, they're pretty and you can have sex with them if they like you. And their mouth feels good when they put it on your thingy.

 

[Spaz]

Oh, men better themselves.

But they do it to get puss. Women just do it for themselves.

^^Yes I noticed that, poor fools, they should do it for themselves.

I do it so I can get money, and I use money to get influence from there I can bend people in my sphere of influence to my will.

It has always been about power.

Don't worry abt women, they'll come, attracted to the man that yields power and knows how to use it effectively.

 

[skinnyguy]

Women don’t need sex. They need likes on Instagram

 

[Who Dares Win]

When you spend the whole week to make things work and make sure everything is accomplished you would rather relax at weekend, surely not look for other challenges or shopping around.

Give men a job that has no responsibility and someone else to cleans their mess and trust me they will have much more energy and less paranoia...easy to wanna try new things as long as someone else take care of the problems.

 

[flowtheory]

When you spend the whole week to make things work and make sure everything is accomplished you would rather relax at weekend, surely not look for other challenges or shopping around.

Give men a job that has no responsibility and someone else to cleans their mess and trust me they will have much more energy and less paranoia...easy to wanna try new things as long as someone else take care of the problems.

But then women complain that their man doesn’t want to shop around or try new things on weekends..

 

[Von]

Society in it's complexity and accelerated speed favors women in general.

Women natural multitasking + natural fortitude (they healthier than man in general) favors that.

Men sure were betafied as a whole and in society.. Feminism etc.

However, Work world has been more and more demanding on the brain.

Doctors treat mental issues now. They barely treat physical wounds.

Women can keep up faster than man, and their nature allow them to take over the family/work space better than man.

However, man have easier time to rest since we all busy trying to keep up with work, house shores, our women . We also have more urge to go up in society

In a linear world. We male would dominate again

 

[Spidah]

Men today conform to women so much they dont know how to operate independently. The demasculinization of American men has caused a massive shift in the power of relationships, where women are becoming the leaders of their love life. Couple this with all of the resources for men to be lazy (watch sports, video game, cheap services to avoid manual labor, etc.), and you end up androgynous men incapable of operating without the guidance of a woman. And whole these lazy fvck sit around watching TV, she is at a yoga class, hiking, or out with the kids.

How does it look when a woman is out and she says, "oh John, he's at home watching football"? Get enough people to question. Her husband and she will question it herself...

You're damn right my man.

Western men are some of the most beta guys on earth. Afraid of rejection. Afraid to approach. Afraid to put a bytch in her place. Afraid to do anything that might make a woman uncomfortable or unhappy.

Western men are some of the most bitched pussie guys around. That's why these hoes today are on a rampage. When I talk about checking these bitches the betas come out to attack. That's how twisted things are here in the west.

 

[Reykhel]

Different interests. Different people.

You like to hike and you like to hike in groups. So you perceive who likes what based on what you see in your groups.

Me hiking? I'd do it alone. I like to drive and visit places and I live in a place that has extremely amazingly (historical, geographical) places to
visit (hike, trek then add the beaches)

I also live in a place where people seem to enjoy doing things en mass (in groups). Personally, I don't like to these things en mass. Anything to do with nature, I appreciate more alone (or with a selected person). I'm sure I'm not alone in that way of thinking.

Interesting you mentioned toastmasters. I was an active member for about two years, going back a while. Probably the women outnumbered the men and it had an awful feminist slant. I made no friends there. It was full of "go girl" women and gynocentric men. it served it's purpose and I often spoke about relationship issues and it was interesting to note the reaction from the women and the gynocentric men (how can you say something like that!!)

Would I recommend toastmasters? If you believe you may have some lingering approval seeking behaviors and want to rid yourself of them with a idgaf attitude, try it for a while. However, (and this is key to your post) I don't believe there are less men in the likes of toastmasters (for example) for the reasons you believe...

Also, I think a get up and go attitude is different than one that wants to self develop.

No matter what activity we do, it's important not to lose track of the reason.

 

[flowtheory]

Also, I think a get up and go attitude is different than one that wants to self develop.

No matter what activity we do, it's important not to lose track of the reason.

Totally. Doing more, doesn’t mean you're necessarily getting more done. There are lots of people who spin their wheels - busy bee syndrome - feeling as though they are accomplishing things, however they are actually draining their energy reserves. Have to work smart.

One of my exes would get very upset that I never just wanted to get out and go meander the city; to wander around shops, get coffee, hangout, etc. I truly just didn’t see the point in it, as it wasn’t really building me as a person, so I thought. And when the interest wasn’t truly there it made me tired.
I would have much rather slept in a bit more or read. So after much of the harping from her, and guilt tripping me, I would give in to her and idly wander the city with her. Then naturally spend money on our lunch, or things I didn’t really truly need.
However, at that time the alternative was her being mad at me. So I chose to be weak and sit in tow. Great example of me losing frame.

Which brings me to another good point when in relationship. Thoughts on compromising?