“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have a similar issue living on the outskirt of London / Essex - many people in central London don't drive, parking is a nightmare, traffic is worse, tube and uber is literally the only way people get around on nights out. I just get them to come to me or drive to a train station and venture in. Sounds like you're a lot further out to the action than me though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you live alone then go party in manhattan, make friends, invite everyone back to your place?
 

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If you live alone then go party in manhattan, make friends, invite everyone back to your place?
Nah, @ 40, not my scene. Plus, I do not need strangers in my house I cannot watch, steeling and damaging sh!t. Rather not have to shoot anyone. Never a good thing to do... Especially if you're trying to get some sex with a woman.
 

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Oh my 29 and that is very much my scene at least for the next 3-4 years. Just find some local chicks?
 

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Nah, @ 40, not my scene. Plus, I do not need strangers in my house I cannot watch, steeling and damaging sh!t. Rather not have to shoot anyone. Never a good thing to do... Especially if you're trying to get some sex with a woman.
I bet MILFs in westchester are hot
 

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I have matched with a few NYC women on Bumble. They do not want to travel outside NYC to meet up with you. Unfortunately, the majority of profiles that come up on Bumble to swipe in are from women in the city. I have been tempted but have yet to follow through. You are correct in saying that it can get very expensive, high priced tolls and drinks. Plus a long commute. Im 30min out. Eventually I will just bite the bullet because a lot of women from the city are Hb8's and up. Definately keep us updated.
 

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Would they pay for that? You need to get over bridge to come to my pad. That's why NYC women are so hard to date. Prob. is even for a drink, you have 10 for the toll, 30 for the parking and 40 for the drink. So the first meet is at min. for me 80 bucks. Even if I took the train in, it's still around 70 bucks.
Plenty of venues with street parking in the city. I have no idea why you would want to hang outside of the city where there are less attractive women and most venues suck.
 

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Plenty of venues with street parking in the city. I have no idea why you would want to hang outside of the city where there are less attractive women and most venues suck.
I hate traffic. Lived in Manhattan for 20 years. Just tired of it. I will not even do work in the city. I hate the city's laws, regs, fees, prices, tolls, parking, $$$ raping to go to an event. Aside from that, the city is okay.
 

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I have matched with a few NYC women on Bumble. They do not want to travel outside NYC to meet up with you. Unfortunately, the majority of profiles that come up on Bumble to swipe in are from women in the city. I have been tempted but have yet to follow through. You are correct in saying that it can get very expensive, high priced tolls and drinks. Plus a long commute. Im 30min out. Eventually I will just bite the bullet because a lot of women from the city are Hb8's and up. Definately keep us updated.
Yea, I get mad women liking me and such. I usually do not entertain them. Usually, it's my experience the OLD is short time. Thus, if I need to switch off to see a woman, and she will not reciprocate, I am wasting my time. Women are so lazy these days, I have a hard time getting a woman from Stamford (10 miles away) to come over.

There are these women in the gym who give me interest looks. However, a year ago I started talking to one and her ex came up and started something. I backed off and said I do not want to get into anything. He swung at me and I neutralized the situation. The cameras saved me from any legal liability, but the cops swarmed the place and said I used too much force. They should know martial arts is an instinct not to hurt, but to neutralize. It was just a block and an arm bar which caused a minor dislocation. Again, he swung at me more than once and I was backing up saying I want none of this and I did not want to hurt him. Well, that failed.

Not worth it.
 

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You're doing it wrong my friend.

I'm in North/Central Jersey. Over 50% of the chicks I banged were from NYC or Brooklyn.

You have to take public transit into the city for the first meetup, then take her somewhere there via public transportation or uber for the first date. Once she wants your ****, you direct her how to get to your place on the train or bus. Pick her up from the station, show her around, then take her to your place and smash. OR, if she isn't ready for the trip, you try for a place in NYC close to where she lives. There's a spot damn near every corner of Manhattan. Show her a good time, go to her place and smash.

If anything, city chicks are easy as hell to smash. Most of them are dying to get out of the city on the weekends. It only takes 2-3 dates to soften them up enough to come out. I've ****ed chicks in borough of NYC, and it I'm 40 miles away.
 

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I have matched with a few NYC women on Bumble. They do not want to travel outside NYC to meet up with you. Unfortunately, the majority of profiles that come up on Bumble to swipe in are from women in the city. I have been tempted but have yet to follow through. You are correct in saying that it can get very expensive, high priced tolls and drinks. Plus a long commute. Im 30min out. Eventually I will just bite the bullet because a lot of women from the city are Hb8's and up. Definately keep us updated.
That's not true at all. Far from it. You have show value before they are willing to travel. That means your first 2-3 dates will have to be in NYC.

I hate traffic. Lived in Manhattan for 20 years. Just tired of it. I will not even do work in the city. I hate the city's laws, regs, fees, prices, tolls, parking, $$$ raping to go to an event. Aside from that, the city is okay.
Why are you even driving into the city? It's a huge waste of money. The trains and buses are less than the toll alone, then you don't have to worry about parking.
 

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Is now around 50 bucks for a round trip ticket to Grand Central. That's worse than driving in. I'm in the process of selling one of my buildings. In about six months I will have some extra cash and I was going to pickup a small co-op in Manhattan. I was going to do Hoboken, but more avail. pvssy in Manhattan. Brooklyn is just too far from my home base.
 

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Can't be. How far up are you? I'm almost at the end of an NJ Transit line and its $32 round trip, free parking. It's the same cost as the tolls, save on parking, gas, wear and tear on the car, etc. Plus, you can drink on trains (NJ Transit lets you, don't know about Metro North) so that saves on NYC's overpriced liquor.
 

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Oh wow that's crazy. In Jersey we get destroyed by the tolls - we have the insane Turnpike + the Hudson bridges just to get in. It makes the trains and buses worth it.
 

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Now you know my issue with NYC. The women around here are incredibly hard to deal with. I've thought of moving more than once. The problem is, I happen to like my house. So, basically, I'm screwed.
 
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