"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is this "lifestyle" that money can provide?

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Some people on here have said that rather than simply handing a girl cash, you should try to provide them with a "lifestyle" as long as they're with you. Now, I know firsthand that cold, hard cash can do wonders, but what exactly is this lifestyle? Other than being seen with me in my super awesome Lambo (lol), what is it? Vacations?

I think in a real sense, all this stuff is fleeting unless you are talking about having babies and starting a family with a comfortable life.

What do you think about this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I believe the ultimate lifestyle women want is her not having to go to work and do a thing all day other than play on Facebook, go shopping for as many pairs of shoes and fancy cloths as she wants, and do whatever else she wants. Then be able to portray herself as "rich" to her friends and make them all jealous.
 
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logicallefty said:
I believe the ultimate lifestyle women want is her not having to go to work and do a thing all day other than play on Facebook, go shopping for as many pairs of shoes and fancy cloths as she wants, and do whatever else she wants. Then be able to portray herself as "rich" to her friends and make them all jealous.
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Good fvcking answer!!!

Now you see how much cheaper escorts are. Haha. I could have a threesome with 2 hot Brazilian escorts in 3 weeks for $320 once one of them comes back in town.
 
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logicallefty said:
I believe the ultimate lifestyle women want is her not having to go to work and do a thing all day other than play on Facebook, go shopping for as many pairs of shoes and fancy cloths as she wants, and do whatever else she wants. Then be able to portray herself as "rich" to her friends and make them all jealous.
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So true. Men work themselves to death. Women take selfies all day and live a fake fab life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RichardTheFrog said:
Nothing.
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Exactly. You are lost and feel empty inside. Money doesn't buy happiness, nor does empty sex. I have plenty of money. After a certain amount, it doesn't matter. Yea, I can splash it around, but then, people are around me for $$$ not me. If that is cool with you, fine, but you will regret it... Eventually. As myself and others have told you, FIND YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE. Everyone has one. Your purpose is not to use your family's money to rent pvssy. Obviously, you are not a stupid man, just lost. I hope you can turn back on the right path and do something with your life instead of just going to strip clubs, hiring hookers and trying to impress people with Lambos, Rolex watches and G-d only knows what else.
 
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Exactly. You are lost and feel empty inside. Money doesn't buy happiness, nor does empty sex. I have plenty of money. After a certain amount, it doesn't matter. Yea, I can splash it around, but then, people are around me for $$$ not me. If that is cool with you, fine, but you will regret it... Eventually. As myself and others have told you, FIND YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE. Everyone has one. Your purpose is not to use your family's money to rent pvssy. Obviously, you are not a stupid man, just lost. I hope you can turn back on the right path and do something with your life instead of just going to strip clubs, hiring hookers and trying to impress people with Lambos, Rolex watches and G-d only knows what else.
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Except that fvcking hookers is the most enjoyable thing that I do.

Strip clubs are generally a waste.
 
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logicallefty said:
I believe the ultimate lifestyle women want is her not having to go to work and do a thing all day other than play on Facebook, go shopping for as many pairs of shoes and fancy cloths as she wants, and do whatever else she wants. Then be able to portray herself as "rich" to her friends and make them all jealous.
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my best friend is dating a beautiful Lebanese dentist who makes 300K a year, she still does work around the house, is super nice, super loyal, smart, etc...

you guys need to stop being so ****ing cynical about women
 
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my best friend is dating a beautiful Lebanese dentist who makes 300K a year, she still does work around the house, is super nice, super loyal, smart, etc...

you guys need to stop being so ****ing cynical about women
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Ok sure lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigdave17 said:
my best friend is dating a beautiful Lebanese dentist who makes 300K a year, she still does work around the house, is super nice, super loyal, smart, etc...

you guys need to stop being so ****ing cynical about women
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No doubt. And Pres. Trump has Melania cleaning the floors and cleaning the windows in The White House. We can all live in dreamland and believe what other people tell us as fact, when it is purely fiction.
 
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bigdave17 said:
my best friend is dating a beautiful Lebanese dentist who makes 300K a year, she still does work around the house, is super nice, super loyal, smart, etc...

you guys need to stop being so ****ing cynical about women
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Does she have a man?
 
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