You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How the fvck do you know what I think? I judge everyone based on their personality. Not my fault if many females have bad personalities. If they have a good personality, then I have no reason not to like them. That being said, NOBODY has a good personality all of the time.
...exactly. You don't like women at all nor do you want them in terms of companionship
I have better social skills than you do.
I have 15-20 close friends that I regularly hang out with. You have zero friends
I've read most of your posts here. You are only looking to get better so you can get laid for free
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No, I never said that I was socially retarded. Stop putting words in my mouth. I never said I don't see any value in "women." Again, stop putting words in my mouth.
my 5 or 6 closest friends have been my friends already for 10 years
Sorry to hear about that dude. My ex-wife went after me with daggers and then I unleashed the hounds. She didn't know what hit her. She was legally forced to submit. Still to this day, they take my kindness as an act of weakness. I assure you and everyone else I am far from weak. I speak softly and carry a big stick. The ones who test me, well, no one has won yet. Not a religious person, so I cannot speak on Jesus. However, if that is what gets you through the hard times in life, go for it.
Never been with a prostitute, but I can say, very few women have any use aside from sex. I used to think differently. However, life and experienced has swayed my views. I am not in the minority in my thinking. A few bad women may have ruined it for the bunch, but one bitten, twice shy.
That's because DATES ARE BORING.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thank you!
bullsh*t they are
dude I know plenty of very cool women, that's a bunch of nonsense
Funny. Most of the girls I talk to online are from South and Central America.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well you live your life how you want to do it.
Nothing is free in life. However, for you, or any one else fvcking b!tches who rent out their pvssy by the hundreds I would be concerned about VICE and STDs. Also, the pimp or a gang of thugs beating the sh!t out of you. Yea, you can carry a concealed gun in FL, but still, why put yourself through this? Just go on Match, POF and find a b!tch there to fvck and setup a stable to have sex with. Much less demanding and stressful. What happens if a you find a b!tch you are ****ing who says she's 18, but you later find out she's 16 and now your on the sex offender list? Good luck with your flipping and real estate empire with not being able to get a mortgage at a competitive rate.
It is actually MUCH less stressful (x1000) to dial up an escort.
The ones with a STEM degree have value. However, many, at least in NYC have degrees in communications or are teachers. Half of them cannot even spell Mississippi. It's not their fault. It's technology and feminism. Again, a few spoiled a bunch. The bar will reset, but it will take decades. Things were much different 15 + years ago.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.