"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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once again thanks to this forum my artillery was fully armed

derby1

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one of my plates was getting a little more serious this week we watched the boxing and i stopped over at hers as it was next to the pub etc

anyway general kissing and affection generally through the day on her part aswell...everything great

Ive been taking note of a few things shes been doing which i believe is to see if she can control the frame and i become the lil puppy, who responds to her beck and call (little does she know who she is dealing with)

anyway we go back to hers get in bed , she has some super duper kingsize bed and tucks herself into the opposite side of the bed with about 4 dressing gowns on........

I playfully said "what you doing?"

and yet again we have another chic with a total Personality change she starts lightly backhanding me on the shoulder, pointing at me like a school teachers saying shes tired, not in the mood and wants to go to bed!!!

so my DJ mindset kicks in walla, cool calm collective i got out the bed got my clothes on, wished her luck in the future explained im not prepared for that behaviour and left,

1.im obviously not being in that toxic **** that shes probably used to losers "biting"

2, imagine if id have lay there all night on the other side of this bed with my arms folded like some frustrated chump(old me would have not known about frame)....she would have awoke and the power would have been hers

I sadly have to see this chic every other day so upon her first message in the morning i replied and friendzoned her, this has blew her mind **** her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's not only you, I've had this "treatment" numerous times.

It's when said plate applies pressure for some form of commitment.

Only option left is to walk away. No discussion, no nothing and just leave.
 

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pointing at me like a school teachers saying shes tired, not in the mood and wants to go to bed!!!
You see this as an attempt to push frame?

You have bigger problems when a woman doesn't want your d1ck inside her...
 

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You see this as an attempt to push frame?
yes she will register "what a ****ing looser sat there all night and stayed POOR LITTLE PUPPY, i left in a cool manner" she unexpected this

a man with self respect and options doesnt tolerate that BS............

we also werent in a position to have sex, so it has nothing to do with not putting my d4ck in her, i was cool with this

HOWEVER Tucking herself 4 miles away on her kingsize bed with 6 layers of clothes on, when shes been all over me all day

NO TAR....yet again another bat****ing crazy one
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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