"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First you need to have whatever value she is looking for. If you live in LA, you need to have 6 pack abs and connections. If you live in NYC, you will probably need to be good looking and have a good career. Then when she sees you as a viable option, you need to sexually escalate on her. Some women require an emotional connection, some don't.

The game is really simple man. The guys who make it seem like an impossible deal are probably losers in real life who aren't in shape, have a decent career, social life, etc. If you had these things and surrounded yourself with women, it is almost impossible not to have women left and right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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From actual personal experiences, the girls that gave up the goods the quickest(within 1hr to 1 date) were all girls that were either horny, mad at their boyfriend, or lower than me on the looks scale. I still had to make some sort of verbal investment in the form of humor or flipping their emotional switches. You have to do something that increases their desire. For men, our desire is driven largely by visual presentation. For women, its mainly emotional. Looks, Money, Status, Value, Words all bring out feelings that ramp up emotions that make them want to drop their panties.

Ways to shorten/speed up the process:

1. Spend Money.
2. Become better with the words you use to seduce.
3. Be bold.
4. Increase the things that women value.


It kind of pisses me off that they think their body parts make them "special."
Their body parts are what makes them special because male society has assigned significant value to them. But in the grand scheme, men are really the special ones because men are the ones who get to make the decision on what type of relationship ensues and women assign huge value to relationships.

Think of it like this...any semi-attractive woman can walk into a bar and find 10 guys that will fuhk her right there on the spot. All she will have to do is ask them if they are interested. Because dihk is so easy to come by, they have little to no value in that context.

Now a dihk that can talk and knows how to trip her emotional triggers will captivate her mind because that is what she values. You have to be a dihk that sets himself apart from the crowd.

The more choices one has, the more selective one can be. Man or Woman, it doesn't matter. Strive to get to a stage where you can be selective. The women you and I are most attracted to can afford to be highly selective because they have so much choice.
 

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What makes them want to give you their vagina?

Semen deficiency creates a chemical imbalance, which then affects their reasoning skills.
 

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It's about how much your commitment is worth to her (LMS)
Then she judges how likely it would be to get your commitment by having sex with you (She might make you wait a long time as a sort of gesture of good faith on your part).

You need to have the ability to subtly convey your willingness to commit (through words or actions). This is why some smarter women are hesitant to sleep with obvious players. They know they'll never win them over.

You need to learn how to dangle commitment over women's heads. However, you must never show 100% commitment to her because that's when she'll get bored... Unless you have extremely high LMS. Full 100% commitment in her head = she's your best option. So all you have to do is look your best and not be clingy.

The other reasons for her giving up her vagina are financial transactions, drunkeness, and revenge.
 
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It's about how much your commitment is worth to her (LMS)
Then she judges how likely it would be to get your commitment by having sex with you (She might make you wait a long time as a sort of gesture of good faith on your part).

You need to have the ability to subtly convey your willingness to commit (through words or actions). This is why some smarter women are hesitant to sleep with obvious players. They know they'll never win them over.

You need to learn how to dangle commitment over women's heads. However, you must never show 100% commitment to her because that's when she'll get bored... Unless you have extremely high LMS. Full 100% commitment in her head = she's your best option. So all you have to do is look your best and not be clingy.

The other reasons for her giving up her vagina are financial transactions, drunkeness, and revenge.
But I don't want to commit.

In a domestic situation, I'm a complete psycho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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All that work...

Is it really worth it? I don't even consider them much of a prize, really.

Sex. Wow. Big deal. Been there, done that.

I wake up in the morning thinking about flipping houses, not females, unfortunately.

I bet if I stay quiet/silent and drive around in a Lambo, they would be curious haha.

I KNOW that I'm worth more than them. I'm smarter, stronger, everything -er than they are. But I don't expect the world to reverse and for them to start chasing me, although it has happened.
how can you be stronger with your tiny body n hands? (no offence).women like strong guys. its not that hard to do gym
 
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how can you be stronger with your tiny body n hands? (no offence).women like strong guys. its not that hard to do gym
You are weak as fvck compared to me.

"No offense" but you've never been through anything in your life, nor do you get with any girls that are attractive.

Btw, your advice sucks so go flip some fvcking Big Macs you fvcking loser.
 

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You are weak as fvck compared to me.

"No offense" but you've never been through anything in your life, nor do you get with any girls that are attractive.

Btw, your advice sucks so go flip some fvcking Big Macs you fvcking loser.
lol i get more girls than you when i live with mum. enjoy your lamborgini

btw you ask for advice, people give you advice, you offend them. whats wrong boyo?
 
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lol i get more girls than you when i live with mum. enjoy your lamborgini

btw you ask for advice, people give you advice, you offend them. whats wrong boyo?
No, I ignore YOUR advice because if it's fvcking stupid. You have no advice to give.

And you will ALWAYS live with your fvcking mom because you're retarded.

I would bet that I wouldn't even be interested in talking to the girls that you get with.
 

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Richard, I think you've knee-jerk accused every poster on here of being retarded at one point or another. Myself included, actually, for trying to offer you fair advice.

If you don't want people's help, quit the boards and stop asking for it? I can't remember the last time you helped someone else on here other than yourself, thinking about it.

The honest "I have no friends, women hate me and my life is a mess" followed by the bulls*** fake "I'm better than everyone and you're all plebeian losers compared to my mighty Godhood" act is incredibly alienating to other posters and it's remarkable so many of us are still trying to help you out.

I'm both amused by the tirades and saddened by them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No, I ignore YOUR advice because if it's fvcking stupid. You have no advice to give.

And you will ALWAYS live with your fvcking mom because you're retarded.

I would bet that I wouldn't even be interested in talking to the girls that you get with.
You are weak as fvck compared to me.

but you've never been through anything in your life, nor do you get with any girls that are attractive.

Btw, your advice sucks so go flip some fvcking Big Macs you fvcking loser.
lmfao i cried out of laugh when i read what you wrote in sequence.

of course, you are the strongest physically(well, not) and emotionally person on this board. The fact that you cant refrain from insulting others and losing your cool on some internet forum nearly each day even when no one provokes you is absolutely irrelevant.

also, thats not sign of alpha if you were jailed for some totally ridiculous and NOT needed thing. you cant even tell anyone why you got jailed in the first place because they won't stop laughing.

and also, my advice is not made up, gym helped MOST men to get attention from girls.
 
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lmfao i cried out of laugh when i read what you wrote in sequence.

of course, you are the strongest physically(well, not) and emotionally person on this board. The fact that you cant refrain from insulting others and losing your cool on some internet forum nearly each day even when no one provokes you is absolutely irrelevant.

also, thats not sign of alpha if you were jailed for some totally ridiculous and NOT needed thing. you cant even tell anyone why you got jailed in the first place because they won't stop laughing.

and also, my advice is not made up, gym helped MOST men to get attention from girls.
When I said STRONG, I didn't mean my bench press you fvcking retard.

I mean perseverance through life or death matters.

You have no advice to give.
 

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women are attracted to intellect, humor and cleverness.
Have one on the hook now, she just noticed my floppy arm from a talk I gave at a security conference that is on YouTube
"Of course for me it does not matter" was her response
 

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women are attracted to intellect, humor and cleverness.
Have one on the hook now, she just noticed my floppy arm from a talk I gave at a security conference that is on YouTube
"Of course for me it does not matter" was her response
"That's the only thing that's floppy baby, believe me." (Please tell me you've used this line before ;) )
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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haha! No, I usually just tell them they are a small kitten, and I am a tiger.
I would do it, but it just puts a focus to the arm, which could actually backfire if they think about it too much, esp early in knowing them.
After I fvck them tho, the arm is never mentioned again.
 

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But what if she doesn't give a fvck at all?
That's why I began my first comment with "It's about how much your commitment is worth to her (LMS)"

Nothing matters if she isn't attracted to you.

Edit: Also there are sometimes women who don't want your commitment. Those tend to be the same ones that only have sex with you one time.
 

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Girls have told me they like me because I'm nice and funny. Even though i try to be an azzhole (a funny azzhole) most of the time

Granted really hot girls aren't going to give a damn about you being nice, but more average or insecure girls will
 

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Girls have told me they like me because I'm nice and funny. Even though i try to be an azzhole (a funny azzhole) most of the time

Granted really hot girls aren't going to give a damn about you being nice, but more average or insecure girls will
insecure girls can get offended by funny n ****y line and call you insults
not insecure girls will laugh at it with you
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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