"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Our need to own and protect

The Accountant

The Accountant

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I've read that we as men tend to claim what we want as ours, and desire to protect it as an innate need. Saw that in myself today, some guy was trying to flirt with one of my plates and was just annoying her while she was trying to study. I didn't do anything because of the circumstance but I really wanted to go up to the guy and tell him to fvck off.

It got me thinking about how my plate would have seen that. The feminists would say she can handle herself, and maybe she'd see me indirectly taking ownership as being needy. I really don't know. Is this desire something I should repress or embrace?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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The Accountant said:
Is this desire something I should repress or embrace?
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It’s context-dependent, and it needs to be congruent with who you are as well. That’s the problem. You need to know when to display dominance and when not to give a ****. Only experience can truly teach you tonknow when to do what. And it needs to be in line with your character too. Otherwise people will think you’re just fronting and not respect you for it.
 
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Save it for the LTR.
 
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