"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You guys were right. Innocent girls ARE easier to talk to

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I was getting off work and I noticed that there was a customer still there who’s been waiting for an hour. I’m in a talkative mood so I go and sit down with her and start talking to her. She’s super shy and a little quiet, not really because of me, but because that’s just how she is. She goes to a catholic school and has been there her whole life which likely would explain why she seemed sweeter. But I felt like she was just happy to be talking to someone. Had I done that to these other group of girls who were dressed like hoes, then they probably would have shot me down. There were still lapses in conversation, not because I didn’t know what to say really, but because I just felt like thinking instead of talking. Plus, it would avoid situations that make it seem like I’m trying too hard now that I look back at it (although that wasn’t on purpose though). It seemed more natural that wa tbh.

Well anyway, after almost about 2 hours of talking, she said she had to go. I offered to walk her home or drive her, but she said walk just bc her dad would probably be weirded out (you know how dad’s are with their daughters). Eventually he found her/us just walking and he told her to get in and she left. He gave me the dirtiest glare you can give lol. But I don’t mean harm to his daughter, she actually was very sweet. She didn’t even have on makeup and was pretty just by herself.

Just felt like telling y’all. It seems like common sense that they’d be better, but I never really experienced it before till now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was getting off work and I noticed that there was a customer still there who’s been waiting for an hour. I’m in a talkative mood so I go and sit down with her and start talking to her. She’s super shy and a little quiet, not really because of me, but because that’s just how she is. She goes to a catholic school and has been there her whole life which likely would explain why she seemed sweeter. But I felt like she was just happy to be talking to someone. Had I done that to these other group of girls who were dressed like hoes, then they probably would have shot me down. There were still lapses in conversation, not because I didn’t know what to say really, but because I just felt like thinking instead of talking. Plus, it would avoid situations that make it seem like I’m trying too hard now that I look back at it (although that wasn’t on purpose though). It seemed more natural that wa tbh.

Well anyway, after almost about 2 hours of talking, she said she had to go. I offered to walk her home or drive her, but she said walk just bc her dad would probably be weirded out (you know how dad’s are with their daughters). Eventually he found her/us just walking and he told her to get in and she left. He gave me the dirtiest glare you can give lol. But I don’t mean harm to his daughter, she actually was very sweet. She didn’t even have on makeup and was pretty just by herself.

Just felt like telling y’all. It seems like common sense that they’d be better, but I never really experienced it before till now.
Wow. That kinda female could be a keeper. Interesting observation that she was happy to be talking. As you know hoez disqualify early.
 

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Wow. That kinda female could be a keeper. Interesting observation that she was happy to be talking. As you know hoez disqualify early.
Yeah I mean I was wondering if she was just trying to do the easy let down (which would be leading most guys on really lol) but I realized I would have given up WAAAAYY before 2 hours and she probably would have told me that she would walk home herself. Plus (and I honestly don’t think she realized this either), she kept fixing/straightening her hair and when she smiled or laughed, you could see the creases and dimples on her cheeks so it seemed real. I sound like creepy alien describing human interactions from a UFO while overlooking the Earth right now lol but I wasn’t consciously thinking about these things while it was happening. It’s just in hindsight that I’m recollecting haha
 

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Yeah I mean I was wondering if she was just trying to do the easy let down (which would be leading most guys on really lol) but I realized I would have given up WAAAAYY before 2 hours and she probably would have told me that she would walk home herself. Plus (and I honestly don’t think she realized this either), she kept fixing/straightening her hair and when she smiled or laughed, you could see the creases and dimples on her cheeks so it seemed real. I sound like creepy alien describing human interactions from a UFO while overlooking the Earth right now lol but I wasn’t consciously thinking about these things while it was happening. It’s just in hindsight that I’m recollecting haha
We're all used to talking to these fake ones when we get a real one with feelings and emotions it's odd. Game her lightly for attraction but don't treat her like **** or break her heart. If she likes you shell give all of herself to you.
 

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We're all used to talking to these fake ones when we get a real one with feelings and emotions it's odd. Game her lightly for attraction but don't treat her like **** or break her heart. If she likes you shell give all of herself to you.
Yeah we will see. The peeps at work noticed that I was talking to her for a long time and I told them some of the details. Also mentioned that she seemed more sweet and innocent than most others, and one guy told me something that has me a bit wary about the whole thing. He said to be careful with girls like these because he’s ruined chicks like this before. I kinda want to ask on the specifics so I know what NOT to do, but tbh I think I already do, and I don’t want to weird him out either lol. But he does have a point. When it comes to people like her, I will always defend them and be more gentle towards them just because they deserve it for being the way they are in a world such like this one. I used to be that way once upon a time and got stomped on and crushed lol which is why I kinda already know what not to do. I don’t want to destroy something like this. Ruining something that was once good is a horrible feeling. It’s like when you find out a chick you kinda like has knowingly been with a criminal before. It’s like she’s just ruined. I don’t want that to happen in this case so if something develops from this, I will be sure to be a bit more careful. This is very rare.

The only thing that I would do that might have a negative affect on her is if say I HAVE to leave her even though we are doing great. This is because when I leave, the hole in her heart will be so great that I will forever remain at the top of her high score list and if somehow she changes and we meet again, she will revert back to who she once was when I see her. I know for certain that I would not ever willingly harm someone/something like this, including plants and animals btw which is why I would allow myself to do this to someone. The return would be super high should it follow through.

Anyway, I’m gonna stop typing now before I sound any more like a wishy-washy wimp. This sensitive talk is getting too soft and weird for me lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah we will see. The peeps at work noticed that I was talking to her for a long time and I told them some of the details. Also mentioned that she seemed more sweet and innocent than most others, and one guy told me something that has me a bit wary about the whole thing. He said to be careful with girls like these because he’s ruined chicks like this before. I kinda want to ask on the specifics so I know what NOT to do, but tbh I think I already do, and I don’t want to weird him out either lol. But he does have a point. When it comes to people like her, I will always defend them and be more gentle towards them just because they deserve it for being the way they are in a world such like this one. I used to be that way once upon a time and got stomped on and crushed lol which is why I kinda already know what not to do. I don’t want to destroy something like this. Ruining something that was once good is a horrible feeling. It’s like when you find out a chick you kinda like has knowingly been with a criminal before. It’s like she’s just ruined. I don’t want that to happen in this case so if something develops from this, I will be sure to be a bit more careful. This is very rare.

The only thing that I would do that might have a negative affect on her is if say I HAVE to leave her even though we are doing great. This is because when I leave, the hole in her heart will be so great that I will forever remain at the top of her high score list and if somehow she changes and we meet again, she will revert back to who she once was when I see her. I know for certain that I would not ever willingly harm someone/something like this, including plants and animals btw which is why I would allow myself to do this to someone. The return would be super high should it follow through.

Anyway, I’m gonna stop typing now before I sound any more like a wishy-washy wimp. This sensitive talk is getting too soft and weird for me lol.
Dude. If you got an angel who gives to you and fvcks you right what the heck would you want to mess with a demon for? Your going to have heaven on Earth with this one.
 

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men "ruin" women sexually
women "ruin" men emotionally
 

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Dude. If you got an angel who gives to you and fvcks you right what the heck would you want to mess with a demon for? Your going to have heaven on Earth with this one.
Bro but this isn’t a sealed deal yet, I made this thread based on what was repeatedly thrown around on here. I don’t know if I’ll even see her again. I’m just noting something that was true on here really. Let’s not get too ahead of ourselves here.
 

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Just because she was sweet and shy and went to a catholic school means she is a keeper. If that was the case.....some of the biggest sluts I banged were shy catholic school women
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just because she was sweet and shy and went to a catholic school means she is a keeper. If that was the case.....some of the biggest sluts I banged were shy catholic school women
I’m just saying how she’s more likely to actually be a good person. If she does get corrupted, then it’s worse than those who were exposed to it at the beginning. She’s either one extreme or the other basically. Chances are still higher that she is better than most though usually.
 
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