"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys! I'm new to the forum, and kind of late to this party, as I'm a former 33 y/o serial monogamist that got red-pilled recently. I've been reading the ****e out of these forums, and appreciate all of the advice. I'm working on this girl I work with. I know, I know, don't mess around with girls you work with. But, I'm pretty sure she's about to get a new job, so she's outa here soon. She's kind of been my pet project, as I've been trying different stuff on here that I've read. I'm pretty sure she likes me, as she has bought me things, and has been starting to be more open about sexual conversation about past hook ups and the like. She's married, but that hasn't seemed to stop her before. She's mentioned hooking up randomly and stuff, but I'm afraid of not being so subtle, as we are in the workplace, which could have dire consequences. Any advice on sealing the deal? TIA
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She’s your co-worker, and she’s married. Why go out of your way to open a can of worms.

I’m not concerned about workplace ethics or the ethics about messing around with a married woman, but you’re risking a lot just for the sake of getting laid.

There are many other avenues you can pursue to bed as woman that don’t include putting your career and/or reputation at risk, lest a woman decides in hindsight she didn’t like you.

All it takes these days is one false accusation for a women to ruin your career and reputation, whether you’re guilty or not. In my opinion it’s not worth giving a woman (specifically one that you work with) evidence that can be used against you down the road.

But if you want to pursue regardless of that I’m sure some others guys on here will help you “seal the deal.”
 

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If you were as redpill as you think you are, you wouldn't even consider going after a married woman.......at work!!! o_O:eek:
 

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I was just thinking of the circumstances. If she gets this new job, she'll leave her current workplace. I was entertaining the idea of a going away bang.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was just thinking of the circumstances. If she gets this new job, she'll leave her current workplace. I was entertaining the idea of a going away bang.
Once she's no longer you co-worker there's significantly less risk to it impacting your job negatively. After that, it's just a personal decision according to your personal ethics and value system on whether you pursue and attempt to bed a married woman (which potentially opens another can of worms). I personally don't care whether you do or don't, I have no dog in the race.
 

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If you were as redpill as you think you are, you wouldn't even consider going after a married woman.......at work!!! o_O:eek:
I consider myself redpill and I say who cares. All it means is to handle the situation more intelligently and you’ll be fine.
 

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I banged my coworker that’s friends with all the HR girls. I don’t understand this fear mindset when it comes to the workplace.

Let me get this right. If a chic rejects you we’re supposed to be alpha get a new one don’t dwell

If an employer rejects you, be a totally scared basic beta b!tch? That’s clingy AF and isn’t a fvcking stud ?

Be congruent. Have value. Believe in yourself. If I ever get fired I’ll work my ass off for thier competition. Or I’ll move somewhere that pays me more IDGAF I’m gonna win.

Also stay away from married women. Not cool. Bj’s only.
 
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Hey guys! I'm new to the forum, and kind of late to this party, as I'm a former 33 y/o serial monogamist that got red-pilled recently. I've been reading the ****e out of these forums, and appreciate all of the advice. I'm working on this girl I work with. I know, I know, don't mess around with girls you work with. But, I'm pretty sure she's about to get a new job, so she's outa here soon. She's kind of been my pet project, as I've been trying different stuff on here that I've read. I'm pretty sure she likes me, as she has bought me things, and has been starting to be more open about sexual conversation about past hook ups and the like. She's married, but that hasn't seemed to stop her before. She's mentioned hooking up randomly and stuff, but I'm afraid of not being so subtle, as we are in the workplace, which could have dire consequences. Any advice on sealing the deal? TIA
Don't do married women.

Even women who are taken.

Make it part of your principles. There are too many hassles in those dynamics and not worth it.
 

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Its high risk behavior that provides the same reward(pu$$y) that you could get elsewhere without the risk. That is if you had other options! ;)

Let me share a recent story that happened to a friend of mine.............This friend of mine is a doctor. He recently purchased a very nice large home and has been in it for less than 2yrs. He got caught messing around with one of the nurses he works with. The nurses boyfriend saw the evidence on her phone. The boyfriend
gets mad and convinces his girl to notify her boss. She concocts a good story full of half truths. My buddy gets confronted by the boss of this practice. They tell him that she is pressing harassment charges unless he resigns. Next thing he had to tell his wife about what was happening. Now his wife is all upset. He resigns, packs up all his stuff, loses his azz on his house, and moves 1000miles away to start over.

All for a piece of pu$$y!

I've got about 3 other cheating gone bad stories if you still think its a good idea.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I consider myself redpill and I say who cares. All it means is to handle the situation more intelligently and you’ll be fine.
You might be able to handle the situation intelligently, but how do you control how she will handle the situation? You can't. And what do women do when they get caught in these situations? They blame everybody but themselves.
 

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You might be able to handle the situation intelligently, but how do you control how she will handle the situation? You can't. And what do women do when they get caught in these situations? They blame everybody but themselves.
Differences between boys and men is obvious.

Good post @Howiestern
 

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You might be able to handle the situation intelligently, but how do you control how she will handle the situation? You can't. And what do women do when they get caught in these situations? They blame everybody but themselves.
And then you can just shift it back to her again if you know how to play it right.
 

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I've said it before and I'll say it again - there are s***loads of women out there, going for someone who is married or has a BF is a silly move.

Not to mention it's the kind of behaviour you wouldn't want other males doing to you. If you cheat with a guy's wife, you've got no right to get upset in 15 years' time when your beloved wife you spent decades trying to find is off banging Chad the Younger.
 
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