Why do people think dating for women is very easy??

[bigdave17]

yes any attractive woman has a million options but so does any attractive male with any semblance of social skills. Having a lot of options doesn't mean anything if none of them are what you want. **** I've had tons of women over last couple years who wanted me but they were all flawed in multiple significant ways (too old, too young, had kids, etc...)

Dating really isn't what you guys think it is for even attractive women in their 20s. Women 30-35+, forget about it. It's ****ing horrible. Women who are younger but not attractive, forget it, it's ****ing horrible.

Men are just as picky as women when it comes to relationships too (which is what women want, they don't care about casual sex nearly as much as we do). I don't know where this nonsense comes from that it's much easier for a woman to find a relationship. I'm way more picky than 99% of women.

 

[Urbanyst]

The market is trash for everyone. Its cultural. Women treat men like sh*t because they are too empowered and most men are afraid of women these days. F*cks up the whole natural mating dynamic in a big way. Even MONEY and STATUS doesn't fix that dynamic. The famous men are dropping like flies over sexual "accusations".

I have loads of options, but I get bored with women pretty fast. Their sh*t tests. Drama. Whining. Shaming. Hypergamy. Games. Just awful people.

Can't commit or have a lasting relationship with a sh*t person. But my penis won't suck itself, so I have to deal with this crap dating market. Which is why I only date HOT women. If I'm going to put up with all this horse sh*t women dish out, I might as well have good arm candy and a great sexual experience. Otherwise not worth it.

I'm sure it sucks for women too because a lot of guys are desperate BLUE PILL clowns. Women also have that WALL to deal with lol.

Lol.

 

[AJ84]

yes any attractive woman has a million options but so does any attractive male with any semblance of social skills. Having a lot of options doesn't mean anything if none of them are what you want. **** I've had tons of women over last couple years who wanted me but they were all flawed in multiple significant ways (too old, too young, had kids, etc...)

Dating really isn't what you guys think it is for even attractive women in their 20s. Women 30-35+, forget about it. It's ****ing horrible. Women who are younger but not attractive, forget it, it's ****ing horrible.

Men are just as picky as women when it comes to relationships too (which is what women want, they don't care about casual sex nearly as much as we do). I don't know where this nonsense comes from that it's much easier for a woman to find a relationship. I'm way more picky than 99% of women.

Women complain about dating all the time. Getting laid? Not so much because even for the below average looking girl finding a guy to have sex with is like shooting fish in a bucket.

But any woman with half a brain knows that a guy could be sleeping with them and still not necessarily care about them, so they may not get much out of those arrangements, which is why some guys have a few plates drop off when other guys come along who show more potential for a relationship.

Most women don't want to settle for casual sex for the rest of their lives, so the ones who complain about dating are likely looking for a long term relationship. I personally think it's a combination of location and unrealistic expectations in many cases that leads to the complaining because there are lots of decent guys out there.

The single men and women I know who complain the most also have the most unrealistic expectations. They get in their own way.

 

[Urbanyst]

Women complain about dating all the time. Getting laid? Not so much because even for the below average looking girl finding a guy to have sex with is like shooting fish in a bucket.

But any woman with half a brain knows that a guy could be sleeping with them and still not necessarily care about them, so they may not get much out of those arrangements, which is why some guys have a few plates drop off when other guys come along who show more potential for a relationship.

Most women don't want to settle for casual sex for the rest of their lives, so the ones who complain about dating are likely looking for a long term relationship. I personally think it's a combination of location and unrealistic expectations in many cases that leads to the complaining because there are lots of decent guys out there.

The single men and women I know who complain the most also have the most unrealistic expectations. They get in their own way.

Problem with women is they want more out of "relationships" with men then they are willing to put in.

For a man.. there is a high opportunity cost when dating a hypergamous woman who can drop you any time for any stupid reason. Leads men to want to withhold their MONEY and try to get laid ASAP to ensure the woman is really worth our time. To women, this comes off as men being "pigs" or ass holes. But men are just trying to protect themselves.

Women have a parasitic approach to relationships where they either want to TAKE more than they give or they want to control everything. A nice HOT woman who isn't a sh*t testing ass hole is hard to find.

There is a strong lack of TRUST between the genders in today's culture which sucks a lot of the fun out of romantic relationships for both sides. The market is trash.