So i am in the middle of a career change. I essentially have to start over in my 30's because my first career feel through. It sucks but its all good. I started my own business and I am trying to get clients and I noticed something. Dating is exactly like sales.
When a client turns you down there is no point over analyzing what went wrong. Its never really personal. Some people make good decisions and some dont. Some recognize the value of your product and some wont. Like Ohrein said in a previous post, people are chaos. I have found that if you keep advertising and going from prospect to prospect, you eventually do get clients. I was shocked when I got my frist, and then my second client. Life is nothing but one big numbers game. The secret is do you have the balls and motivation to keep playing the numbers.
I have gone on dates with about 7 girls in the last 8 months. I slept with 3. All of 3 ghosted me when I did everything right. The explanations for them fizzling out were ridiculous. It was frustrating. I kept playing the numbers game and recently meet a girl that is totally compatible with me ( so far). Everything is going really well and we click like crazy. The point is that I used the same game on this girl as the other previous 6. I didnt give up and played the numbers game and I ended up coming across a cute girl that likes me.
My point is that most of our problems is that we dont wanna put ourselves out there to get what we want. Every sales man can be a millionaire if they had no dignitiy and approached millions of people. Same with dating. You could be a ***** millioinaire if you played the numbers hard. Its easier said than done though.
When a client turns you down there is no point over analyzing what went wrong. Its never really personal. Some people make good decisions and some dont. Some recognize the value of your product and some wont. Like Ohrein said in a previous post, people are chaos. I have found that if you keep advertising and going from prospect to prospect, you eventually do get clients. I was shocked when I got my frist, and then my second client. Life is nothing but one big numbers game. The secret is do you have the balls and motivation to keep playing the numbers.
I have gone on dates with about 7 girls in the last 8 months. I slept with 3. All of 3 ghosted me when I did everything right. The explanations for them fizzling out were ridiculous. It was frustrating. I kept playing the numbers game and recently meet a girl that is totally compatible with me ( so far). Everything is going really well and we click like crazy. The point is that I used the same game on this girl as the other previous 6. I didnt give up and played the numbers game and I ended up coming across a cute girl that likes me.
My point is that most of our problems is that we dont wanna put ourselves out there to get what we want. Every sales man can be a millionaire if they had no dignitiy and approached millions of people. Same with dating. You could be a ***** millioinaire if you played the numbers hard. Its easier said than done though.