"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The issue I have with Boston is that it has two of the least attractive white heritage groups in it, the Irish are not known for producing good looking women and Italian women are regarded as being some of the ugliest in the world.

My issue with Boston is going to be the fact that there isn't much quality there at all compared to Minneapolis where you get blonde and pretty Nordic girls, in Boston you're stuck with tanned and dark curly haired guido trash women. No offense to Italians but their women are among the ugliest on the planet, it is rare to see a good looking Italian woman. Same goes for the Irish although I would argue Irish women are better looking.
NYC has a lot of Italian women. HOT ones.

Its not that Italian women are ugly.. its that Boston's Italian women are ugly. Similar to how LA has hotter Asian women than San Francisco and DC has hotter black women than Philly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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meh white women are overrated, Minneapolis has hot chicks but you can't compare Minneapolis to California or Miami
 

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Atlanta is ******* terrible. The girls there act like your typical stuck up princess because they make 50k a year and live in buckhead. Every time I go down there, I’m always asked what I do upon meeting. Plus, I see a lot of younger women with 40 year old pilots there lol
Tell me about it!

The white girls here are the most stuck up in the country and it isn't even like this in most southern cities. People here don't smile at you, the women are hostile, and extremely prudish. Yet at the same time you will find the same girl with a fat bubba which leaves me scratching my head as to how the ugly rat is getting the hot girls most well off guys are not. I do not get the game in this city at all and want to move out ASAP.

If you are not into black women, this city is pure garbage. It is impossible to get hot white girls here, their egos are way out of whack and much worse than the egos of white girls from California, NYC, or anywhere else in the world.

And it still puzzles me because white girls elsewhere in the south are chill AF. Anyone mind telling me WTF is going on with this city? Someone needs to write an article about how horrible this city is, it makes Toronto and DC look good!
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell me about it!

The white girls here are the most stuck up in the country and it isn't even like this in most southern cities. People here don't smile at you, the women are hostile, and extremely prudish. Yet at the same time you will find the same girl with a fat bubba which leaves me scratching my head as to how the ugly rat is getting the hot girls most well off guys are not. I do not get the game in this city at all and want to move out ASAP.

If you are not into black women, this city is pure garbage. It is impossible to get hot white girls here, their egos are way out of whack and much worse than the egos of white girls from California, NYC, or anywhere else in the world.

And it still puzzles me because white girls elsewhere in the south are chill AF. Anyone mind telling me WTF is going on with this city? Someone needs to write an article about how horrible this city is, it makes Toronto and DC look good!
Maybe your game isn't good enough bro
 

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The issue I have with Boston is that it has two of the least attractive white heritage groups in it, the Irish are not known for producing good looking women and Italian women are regarded as being some of the ugliest in the world.

My issue with Boston is going to be the fact that there isn't much quality there at all compared to Minneapolis where you get blonde and pretty Nordic girls, in Boston you're stuck with tanned and dark curly haired guido trash women. No offense to Italians but their women are among the ugliest on the planet, it is rare to see a good looking Italian woman. Same goes for the Irish although I would argue Irish women are better looking.
Brunettes are hotter then Blondes, you crazy if you think Irish women are hotter than Italian women. They are far from the ugliest, Irish women to me personally are the ugliest...and Chicago has a HUGE population of both so I can comment on it
 

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Brunettes are hotter then Blondes, you crazy if you think Irish women are hotter than Italian women. They are far from the ugliest, Irish women to me personally are the ugliest...and Chicago has a HUGE population of both so I can comment on it
Gonna chime in here.

Italian women are a mess and a large number of them are hideous. Hawk like noses, hairy, mustaches, and age like trash.

Blondes are considered hotter than brunettes, gentlemen prefer blondes!

But beside that, Irish women also have blue eyes and can usually be anything from a pasty redhead to a tanned brunette.

Italian women are by and large a mess, whether it is Italian American or just Italian.
 

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I find blondes pretty but brunettes beautiful.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I live in Denver actually Boulder, CO which is arguably the fittest city in the entire US. Olympic athletes live and train here and 90% of the people living here train in some way, so it is truly home to the beautiful people. So if you like the physical HB8+ crowd, there are more here per capita than probably anywhere else.

Now after living here for 20 years a few observations of the women and men of the Denver/Boulder Colorado area:

1- Be in shape, serious shape, or be shunned. Seriously. No one will give you the time of day unless you are. Thankfully I am due to much hard work.
2- The guys here are mostly ripped too and it's a hub for high tech so some have decent jobs making good bank.
3- But, LOTS of AFC men. Boulder men seem very girly. Many bike, run, and do triathlons which is fine but many are of that 5'10, 160# stature and couldn't punch their way out a paper bag. Mannerisms are effeminate and they just don't seem very assertive.
4- The women as I said are very hot and plentiful, but they all know it. They all have many hot guy options to choose from because of the lifestyle here which make their overall behavior worse than most areas I would say.
5- 420 is HUGE. 50% chance your woman is a regular weed user.
6- Many move to Colorado for an "escape" so there's a large chuck of women who have no direction, real job, income, or anything of value. Some end up on SA.com or just bumming. Same for guys, so there's a good chunk of beta, directionless man-boys whose primary objective is to do weed and ski.
7- 90% of the people you meet here are from Cali, Texas, NE US, 5% are actually from CO, and 5% from other making CO a huge melting pot. Cali girls are trash as are most NE girls. If I can find an Upper Midwestern girl here I do try to see her for a while.
8- NSA's are VERY common. I meet very few LTR people. Some are married.
9- It's very pricey here especially housing. So a house with 2-4, 30-somethings living together, male or female, is not uncommon.

Ciao,

Dash
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why are you so triggered whenever minorities talk about white women?
Because he is a sad loser who has been on this site for a decade and has absolutely no good experience or growth to actually show for it. So he turns to the alt-right and picks a fight at every turn, making fake accusations every single step of the way.
 

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Then why does it upset you when I point out those who hate dating brown women but get angry at white women who won't date brown men?
Who says i'm upset? I noticed you get triggered about this topic like non other, at the end of the day guys like you are the type to stare when I'm out with a beautiful white women but wouldn't say stuff in real life, so it's easy to get on sosuave and rant about it

carry on
 

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Because he is a sad loser who has been on this site for a decade and has absolutely no good experience or growth to actually show for it. So he turns to the alt-right and picks a fight at every turn, making fake accusations every single step of the way.
Yeah I know, the guy was hating on me years ago, it is what it is. I seldom come on this site now because it's been ruined by alt-right guys and guys advocating for hookers

I see those guys in my comment section on youtube all the time, they get super triggered when i talk about white/Asian women dating black men
 

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I live in Denver actually Boulder, CO which is arguably the fittest city in the entire US. Olympic athletes live and train here and 90% of the people living here train in some way, so it is truly home to the beautiful people. So if you like the physical HB8+ crowd, there are more here per capita than probably anywhere else.

Now after living here for 20 years a few observations of the women and men of the Denver/Boulder Colorado area:

1- Be in shape, serious shape, or be shunned. Seriously. No one will give you the time of day unless you are. Thankfully I am due to much hard work.
2- The guys here are mostly ripped too and it's a hub for high tech so some have decent jobs making good bank.
3- But, LOTS of AFC men. Boulder men seem very girly. Many bike, run, and do triathlons which is fine but many are of that 5'10, 160# stature and couldn't punch their way out a paper bag. Mannerisms are effeminate and they just don't seem very assertive.
4- The women as I said are very hot and plentiful, but they all know it. They all have many hot guy options to choose from because of the lifestyle here which make their overall behavior worse than most areas I would say.
5- 420 is HUGE. 50% chance your woman is a regular weed user.
6- Many move to Colorado for an "escape" so there's a large chuck of women who have no direction, real job, income, or anything of value. Some end up on SA.com or just bumming. Same for guys, so there's a good chunk of beta, directionless man-boys whose primary objective is to do weed and ski.
7- 90% of the people you meet here are from Cali, Texas, NE US, 5% are actually from CO, and 5% from other making CO a huge melting pot. Cali girls are trash as are most NE girls. If I can find an Upper Midwestern girl here I do try to see her for a while.
8- NSA's are VERY common. I meet very few LTR people. Some are married.
9- It's very pricey here especially housing. So a house with 2-4, 30-somethings living together, male or female, is not uncommon.

Ciao,

Dash
Great info

I've been to Denver a few times, friendly people, chicks are high AF though when you go out. If you don't smoke I guess it can suck cause everyone does
 

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You mean those creepy photos you post of you with women in the club and they are just trying to be nice? I've seen the look on their faces, it isn't lust.

You can try to change the subject, but the hypocrisy is still there. Brown men who don't like brown women, are angry at white women who don't like brown men. LOLLLLLL!!!!!

Creepy? bro please post a pic that is "Creepy" there tons of them here (i recommend checking my old FR's first")

(noticed he uses the same shaming tactics feminist use, only time i hear someone use the word "Creepy" is feminist or liberal women.)

at the end of the day you shamming men for liking white women ain't gonna change a damn thing

carry on
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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