Definition of relationship which women crave

[sosousage]

I always thought they want you to have interesting life and they want to be part of it. Thats what Id say women call relationship. So they can benefit from it.



Now however I think its more marriage/money oriented. 90% of women in UK married someone richer than them.


Really? Why cant they be richer than us so men can benefit from it? or at least make it EQUAL?

On OLD i got recently messaged by a chick (I didnt start the convo as I dont need more dates than I have in my life alrdy).

She asked what I do in life in her 3th message. (previous messages were short)
I didnt answer.
She sent me one short message, then asked again.
I didnt answer.
Then I asked what does that kind of information exchange mean.
She implied I am there just for sex if I dont want to tell her what Job I have. Wtf.


Later she implied 5 times that I am just for sex on tinder even thought I never implied that.
I ignored these questions, however I am 100% sure if I said I am looking for relationship her next message would be question WHAT JOB I HAVE then disguised as "what you do in life" or "are you studying"?

Also, I had two dates with different chicks before. Both from OLD. Before the date, one I told my dad owns a big company, other one I told i study robotics (so big cash when I finish it).

They both asked me about it in first 3 minutes of our first date. Seriously? Its none of her business what I do in life. If they seek relationship just for profit then how they can blame men seeking just for sex?

 

[Von]

Most women want someone over them.

Money might be an expression of the "male power"

Eastern countries (eastern Europe to Asia) are much more "male-provider" oriented.

When I lived in Japan, all girls asked me "how much money you making" on the first date, if I made enough ... than she would ask "how long you staying here"

Also, you have to ask... How? The data is done.

Following that famous CH4 Jordan Peterson interview... the pay gab is due how? Is it cause of pregnancies (which lower the salary of the women), is it due to the work chosen? Is it the age/generation etc..

When 80% of Medical professions and lawyer professions are now dominated by "women"... you will likely see the gender gap shrink.

Or simply 60% of universities students are women in our current generations.

So all women crave protections.. Whatever give them protections is good. They all want to settle down one day.
So, if money is status... yeah they want a guy with status.

Working in finance, it's not rare to see women making more than their husband/boyfriend. However, the guy has qualities that fill the women need.

Also, consider this... Salaries go up with time... if your " boyfriend" is 40 and you the girl at 30... it's like he's making more.

If the survey was about 40-50 years old couple..a lot of them lived the "women don't go to school movement"

In Sweden, women are calling for a return to traditional roles.... They got feedup of the "equality" lol.

So if a girl is asking you "what's your job" .. She's looking for a LTR and a man with a good status to provide.

I am glad all the Japanese and Asian gold-diggers I meet (some cheating on their husband) were all taking care of the cooking/laundry/making the bed/preparing the clothes (suits)... all the house stuff.... Just in exchange of a guy with a good job

btw.. The article you posted mix "salary and wealth" .

Male tends to "invest" money more than Female.. So it's not hard to have 90% more "wealth".... If the girl put 1$ in saving, and the guy put 9$.

In my opinion... you want to have a bigger job than the girl you dating. (Or a business)... you want higher freedom too

 

[sosousage]

Most women want someone over them.

Money might be an expression of the "male power"

Eastern countries (eastern Europe to Asia) are much more "male-provider" oriented.

When I lived in Japan, all girls asked me "how much money you making" on the first date, if I made enough ... than she would ask "how long you staying here"

Also, you have to ask... How? The data is done.

Following that famous CH4 Jordan Peterson interview... the pay gab is due how? Is it cause of pregnancies (which lower the salary of the women), is it due to the work chosen? Is it the age/generation etc..

When 80% of Medical professions and lawyer professions are now dominated by "women"... you will likely see the gender gap shrink.

Or simply 60% of universities students are women in our current generations.

So all women crave protections.. Whatever give them protections is good. They all want to settle down one day.
So, if money is status... yeah they want a guy with status.

Working in finance, it's not rare to see women making more than their husband/boyfriend. However, the guy has qualities that fill the women need.

Also, consider this... Salaries go up with time... if your " boyfriend" is 40 and you the girl at 30... it's like he's making more.

If the survey was about 40-50 years old couple..a lot of them lived the "women don't go to school movement"

In Sweden, women are calling for a return to traditional roles.... They got feedup of the "equality" lol.

So if a girl is asking you "what's your job" .. She's looking for a LTR and a man with a good status to provide.

I am glad all the Japanese and Asian gold-diggers I meet (some cheating on their husband) were all taking care of the cooking/laundry/making the bed/preparing the clothes (suits)... all the house stuff.... Just in exchange of a guy with a good job

btw.. The article you posted mix "salary and wealth" .

Male tends to "invest" money more than Female.. So it's not hard to have 90% more "wealth".... If the girl put 1$ in saving, and the guy put 9$.

In my opinion... you want to have a bigger job than the girl you dating. (Or a business)... you want higher freedom too

But did you pay them for anything or you just showed them the money.

 

[Von]

But did you pay them for anything or you just showed them the money.

Lol none, they had to believe my words and what they saw through action.

I only paid the date expenses you know: the first date coffee etc...

It might be a gentleman/whiteknight part of me... but I believe unless a women tells you "she will pay her part" .... I believe it's alright for the guy to pay for both in the dating stage and take more responsibilities in the LTR.

It's confusing at first... where I live 70% of the women will refuse that you pay for both until they LTR with you.

Some women expect it.

More reasons to go on cheap / none costly date. And keep the $$$ stuff for the LTR.

The girl I am seeing paid for all her stuff even travelling expenses (and would rembourse me if I used my money for her part).

Until she LTR me... where now I pay everything... except some stuff

 

[Bible_Belt]

That stat says 90% of women married a richer guy. It has nothing to do with all the other guys those women had sex with before they got married.

The girls who asked me early on 'what do you do?' always ended up being the most boring, anyway.

I hardly ever have a relationship where I am the one with more money or a better job. I'm a lot better at being a project than being a provider.

 

[Von]

That stat says 90% of women married a richer guy. It has nothing to do with all the other guys those women had sex with before they got married.

The girls who asked me early on 'what do you do?' always ended up being the most boring, anyway.

I hardly ever have a relationship where I am the one with more money or a better job. I'm a lot better at being a project than being a provider.

Since you a project.

What happens when that project comes to a completion... hum....

 

[Glassguy]

I always thought they want you to have interesting life and they want to be part of it. Thats what Id say women call relationship. So they can benefit from it.



Now however I think its more marriage/money oriented. 90% of women in UK married someone richer than them.


Really? Why cant they be richer than us so men can benefit from it? or at least make it EQUAL?

On OLD i got recently messaged by a chick (I didnt start the convo as I dont need more dates than I have in my life alrdy).

She asked what I do in life in her 3th message. (previous messages were short)
I didnt answer.
She sent me one short message, then asked again.
I didnt answer.
Then I asked what does that kind of information exchange mean.
She implied I am there just for sex if I dont want to tell her what Job I have. Wtf.


Later she implied 5 times that I am just for sex on tinder even thought I never implied that.
I ignored these questions, however I am 100% sure if I said I am looking for relationship her next message would be question WHAT JOB I HAVE then disguised as "what you do in life" or "are you studying"?

Also, I had two dates with different chicks before. Both from OLD. Before the date, one I told my dad owns a big company, other one I told i study robotics (so big cash when I finish it).

They both asked me about it in first 3 minutes of our first date. Seriously? Its none of her business what I do in life. If they seek relationship just for profit then how they can blame men seeking just for sex?

So they dont want to end up banging a guy that works at the car wash and cant afford soap. Whats the problem? These are questions that come from her interest. If they arent asking you questions, that is worse than questions they could be asking.

By not answering these women, it looks as if you have something to hide and they will run from you as fast as possible, no matter what they are looking for relationship or hook up wise.

Common sense man. You are coming across as weird and completely jaded. You wouldnt appreciate asking a chick a question and her totally avoiding you.....big red flag.

 

[fanatic22]

It’s not that women are golddigging wh0res, it’s that they want 1. what money says about you 2. what money brings.

When you make a lot of money, its for some or all of these reasons: you’re intelligent, hard-working, ambitious, and oftentimes good with people. These are all characteristics of a high value male.

Yes, as a bonus, money leads to stability, leisure, and opportunity. But given that women must rear and raise the children, they know they must depend on you to provide those life necessities.

In my experience, women are strongly turned off by guys flaunting their money because of the low value traits those men often have: insecurity, shallowness/stupidity, and immaturity.

 

[sosousage]

So they dont want to end up banging a guy that works at the car wash and cant afford soap. Whats the problem? These are questions that come from her interest. If they arent asking you questions, that is worse than questions they could be asking.

By not answering these women, it looks as if you have something to hide and they will run from you as fast as possible, no matter what they are looking for relationship or hook up wise.

Common sense man. You are coming across as weird and completely jaded. You wouldnt appreciate asking a chick a question and her totally avoiding you.....big red flag.

men working at car wash cant afford a soap? what
well i dont need to answer all the questions she has. and if I ask about job, i dont base my intentions on it. why would she?

 

[zekko]

She asked what I do in life in her 3th message. (previous messages were short)
I didnt answer.
She sent me one short message, then asked again.
I didnt answer.
Then I asked what does that kind of information exchange mean.
She implied I am there just for sex if I dont want to tell her what Job I have. Wtf.

Are you ashamed of what you do for a living? I can see being a little evasive but why avoid the question so intently if she really wants to know?

I can understand her point of view about you being there just for sex if you won't tell what job you have. Because if you were actually trying to get to know each other, why would you withhold such a basic piece of information? You were basically implying that your life is none of her business - so that just leaves "there for sex". I don't think it's all about money either. Part of it may be, but can you imagine one day introducing your wife of 20 years "This is my wife Maggie. What does she do? I don't know, she won't tell me."?

 

[Murk]

It's standard procedure to ask where they live, where they work and what they do. I ask girls this as standard and them me.

It's for basic logistics IMO.

Sometimes I have targeted girls who work at firms like KPMG, Clifford Chance, Deloitte - anywhere I'm currently trying to break into for business. I've made money off OLD.