"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Gotta be THIS hardcore?

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That is a very, very important statement you made. You went from a 20's homeless drug addict and had girls offer you a place to stay for free and give you free sex and now that you have money and have made it, you are having issues getting natural attraction?

I don't know what to make of this. It sounds like you have a rags to riches story one one hand and nose-dive on the ladies department on the other.
Sounds like you have lots of experience in both worlds.

So, how did you go from being broke to flipping houses and making money? Do you now wish you were homeless again so you could attract (naturally) those types of girls? Which version of yourself do you like better? You must like the choices you have choosing whatever escort you want to deal with (i.e. you can choose white, blonde, asian, black, indian, etc...any any type of sex act), while when you were homeless, you could not afford that but have to settle with whatever women choose you? Now you are in a position you can compare? Which do you honestly prefer better? Does the choice of women you can see as prostitutes mean anything to you, or is a woman's attraction to you more important if that level of choice is not there?
Because my dad got rich while I was locked up and helped me when I got out. Although I did make the most of the opportunity and work very hard.

I think a lot of the difference has to do with age. I was 21/22 when I was homeless. Girls don't expect anything from someone that age.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So, the other guy this girl likes, he's in that age range?
I don't know. He was deported for selling drugs. Actually, I think he was older because she told me she's never been with anyone under 30.

So, apparently he's a big loser who still sells drugs in his 30's. And that's what gets the girls? Well, maybe this particular one... but keep in mind she has lots of issues.

And I don't care how "tough" he is (with his guns) or who will tell me "I bet you won't say that to his face" bla bla bla...

You sell drugs in your 30's (or at all), you're a fvcking loser.
 
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