"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guy who turned a hoe into a housewife

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not so sure that I would count on Doc being a guaranteed meal ticket. Take Tito Ortiz and Jenna Jamison or Jessie James and Janine for example.
 

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the problem is not dating a porn star, I'd absolute date or even marry a former porn star, the problem is if she doesn't plan to give you the benefits of dating a porn star but expects you to deal with the downsides

that is to say, if she expects you to deal with the fact that all her holes are permanently loose but won't let you do anal or deepthroat you or any of the other things a porn star could do that a normal girl can't

it doesn't matter if a girl has had sex with 100 guys for free on the first date, what matters is if you gotta wait 5 dates placing you at #101 on her personal rankings
 

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Hence the saying, you can't turn a wh0re into a housewife. They say that not because you cant get a wh0re to play the role, but because it never sticks when they do. It's the greatest show on Earth.
and also because the only way to find out if it actually worked is to marry her and wait 5 years, surely at least some of them never look back on their hoe ways but if at their core is a hoe it's gonna come back somehow

thusly it's probably a better idea to appeal to the hoe part of her brain in the first place, so that when her hoe tendencies come out it still works in your favor
 

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it doesn't matter if a girl has had sex with 100 guys for free on the first date, what matters is if you gotta wait 5 dates placing you at #101 on her personal rankings
This is just her wanting to "do things right this time". What society makes people think is "the right thing to do", "if you want it to last, take it show". Trying to base the relationship on something more than sex. Not about being 101 on her personal rankings.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just looked up who this guy was. He was one of my favorite characters in a video game I used to play all the time when I was like 7 years old. Crazy how little me would have been mortified that he was married to a pornstar
Haha. Yea, I used to watch him on West Coast Choppers. The guy is a really talented fabricator. He's branched out into making some sick looking firearms lately.
 

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This is just her wanting to "do things right this time". What society makes people think is "the right thing to do", "if you want it to last, take it show". Trying to base the relationship on something more than sex. Not about being 101 on her personal rankings.
that's just spin. if she can successfully keep you waiting she doesn't like you as much as the people she just had to fvck right now or worse she's trying to manipulate you into thinking that she's chaste and innocent, so you get prude sex from a hoe.

if she did like you just as much as the other 100 guys but still kept you waiting longer the most likely explanation would be that she has a lower sex drive now, rather than her suddenly learning mastery of self control and discipline overnight or something like that
 

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that's just spin. if she can successfully keep you waiting she doesn't like you as much as the people she just had to fvck right now or worse she's trying to manipulate you into thinking that she's chaste and innocent, so you get prude sex from a hoe.

if she did like you just as much as the other 100 guys but still kept you waiting longer the most likely explanation would be that she has a lower sex drive now, rather than her suddenly learning mastery of self control and discipline overnight or something like that
I'm assuming you haven't had many platonic female relationships or they didn't respect your opinion enough to ask. Not trying to be a ****, but women don't barter sex for respect. You're completely missing context as well. She's a pornstar. She gets paid to have sex in front of a camera. She doesn't have to respect the other co-stars. Hell, she doesn't even have to know their names or anything about them. She's paid to fulfill her contract obligations, not get chummy and screen her co-workers for possible boyfriend material. Whole different dynamic.
 

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I'm assuming you haven't had many platonic female relationships or they didn't respect your opinion enough to ask. Not trying to be a ****, but women don't barter sex for respect. You're completely missing context as well. She's a pornstar. She gets paid to have sex in front of a camera. She doesn't have to respect the other co-stars. Hell, she doesn't even have to know their names or anything about them. She's paid to fulfill her contract obligations, not get chummy and screen her co-workers for possible boyfriend material. Whole different dynamic.
I was talking in general I do obviously know that a porn star fvcking for work is not in her mind the same as banging on the first date, so it doesn't apply to that

although plenty of porn stars don't want to fvck like porn stars at home and that would be basically the same issue in another way
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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that's just spin. if she can successfully keep you waiting she doesn't like you as much as the people she just had to fvck right now or worse she's trying to manipulate you into thinking that she's chaste and innocent, so you get prude sex from a hoe.

if she did like you just as much as the other 100 guys but still kept you waiting longer the most likely explanation would be that she has a lower sex drive now, rather than her suddenly learning mastery of self control and discipline overnight or something like that
Some of them have no sexual desire as a result of over utilizing it earlier on and faxing consequences or losses that affect them emotionally.
 

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Some of them have no sexual desire as a result of over utilizing it earlier on and faxing consequences or losses that affect them emotionally.
dating a girl like that would be like buying a dozen eggs at full price when half are missing 3 are broken and 3 are hatching lol
 

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Some of them have no sexual desire as a result of over utilizing it earlier on and faxing consequences or losses that affect them emotionally.
Yep. It’s quite similar to a woman that was sexually abused repeatedly when she was younger. I read somewhere that a lot of them were prior victims of such incidents prior to getting involved in that industry.
Question is, what makes an 18 year old girl want to be filmed naked while having sex ?
I think the ones that do enough of both straight and lesbian films must be totally confused about their own internal sexuality after a certain point…
Possibly turned totally Bi when they weren’t initially before having that experience…
That environment does have a psych effect on them that can Not be ignored. They’ve been dropping dead like swatted flies lately via drugs and alcohol because of their own inner emotional turmoil…
 
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https://www.reddit.com/r/confession...ore_i/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=comment_list

Basically, this dude started going out with a chick who USED TO be a pornstar. He said he expected sex on the first date but it was actually the 7th but he said it was mindblowing. Then he said that she began to do things for him like cook, clean, all the womanly things most women should be doing (but don’t).

Somewhere along the line, he started to really like her and he felt that she loved him, even more. So he asked her to marry him.

The woman didn’t know that he knew she used to be a pornstar. She started getting panic attacks before the wedding and eventually she confessed to him. He kinda played along with it but still decided to go for it, and he said that she loves him as much as anyone possibly could. In one of the comments, he said that he catches her staring at him as if he ‘hung the moon’ as he put it, and that he even woke up in the middle of the night a few times with her staring at him ‘like a Cheshire Cat’ (which he said was a little bit creepy). Now they have a kid and she absolutely adores him.

Thoughts?
maybe she was tired of feelingless sex
 

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dating a girl like that would be like buying a dozen eggs at full price when half are missing 3 are broken and 3 are hatching lol
maybe she was tired of feelingless sex
But she deadened herself emotionally by not having feelings during all her fun. Now it's all blocked up emotionally.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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But she deadened herself emotionally by not having feelings during all her fun. Now it's all blocked up emotionally.
Yes, that’s what fools most unknowing men when interacting sexually with a severly damaged woman. We think if we’re getting that much sex from her during her love bombing phase, she must be really emotionally into us, but in reality it’s only her physical act to hook us and for her to get off with not much of her emotional investment involved…
 
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I'm not even really talking about sex, cheating, etc.(although that is common).. I'm not saying this porn star will go back to doing bucocky scenes or play out a porn script with the pool boy....

What I'm talking about specifically is their reasoning. The way their logic works. Goals can change, but logic seldom does. So when a wh0re decides she wants to be a housewife, the goal has changed, but the same logic is still there working the same way. A woman like that might never go back to banging every guy in the neighborhood when the goal changes again, but that same logic that made her a wh0re will often lead the way to decisions that will create some other situation that is equally as fvcked up.

Now once in a blue moon a woman like this might actually change her logic and change her old ways and never go back.... but it's extremely rare. And that's what makes this so dangerous for guys. The biggest mistake guys make with women like this is to think that they found the girl who is going to be the exception. They believe they can make this one work in their favor.
do any examples or hypotheticals you can think of come to mind or just in general?
 
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