I'm a 47 year old man looking young and very fit and handsome. A 25-year-old girl in my office has been smiling a lot for a few months at me and we exchanged numbers a month back, lots of chats, three times went out, she encouraged me to call her sweet names, even suggested a few, she's always the first to initiate text messages, and a couple times she even brought somethings for me to eat and drink. On our last dinner, I kissed her on her forehead, she did not tell anything, and then I kissed her on her cheek, she was calm, and again I asked her to come closer to me and she did and I grabbed her and kissed her on her lips. She displayed a little resistance in the ending. I also grabber her hand and kissed her on her hands. Five minutes later, she asked what's our relationship and why I kissed her. She is my vibrational match, same value system and we both understand each other very well. I said I got attracted and kissed her. She later told me she's not interested in this kind of relationship. We are still talking and chatting. She says she sees me as a friend. Why did she do all of that, asking to call her sweety and all that non-sense. Ever since we have not gone out. What could be the issue
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
47-year-old Man with 25-year-old Girl in India Grab & Kiss
- Thread starter ariffmd
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Welcome to the friend zone!
So...I offer you this chilling challenge....to find a way out!
There is another man, either present or past, who generated more tingles than you did. So she put you in the friend zone.
The correct answer is to spend your valuable time with people who appreciate you, not resource vampires.
The correct answer is to spend your valuable time with people who appreciate you, not resource vampires.