I've been living with my bf and his family for a few months now and I'm gonna move back to my country soon. Actually I've been also thinking of breaking up with him. We've been together for 1 yr and 2 months and I've had the thought several times, I've also told him about it for a few times but he just doesn't want to break up with me. Lately, I've felt that this had to stop. Just since a few days ago, 2 workers has been coming to fix something in the house and 2 days ago, me and one of them were alone in the house, it was close to his lunch break so he started to chat with me. I'd say that I felt very comfortable chatting with him. After all, it was my first time chatting with a single cute guy in the past 14 months, I felt attracted by him. After the chat, we hadn't had the chance to really talk again. Yesterday they got their work done outside, and he opened the front door to tell me that they're gonna leave. He was trying to ask me something about running or the gym (I told him that I went to the gym a lot.) I didn't understand what he said because he had that southern French people accent and he also seemed to be a little...nervous? Or just in a hurry, then he said "it's too complicated" and said goodbye. I stopped him and gave him a note with my numbers on it. He starred at me for a few seconds and asked me what it was, then he started to open the folds, even though I told him to not open cause I was very shy. He kept on and saw my numbers. He seemed nervous again and then said something like "I call you, you call me" (his English wasn't good), so I said "You call me." We said goodbye. He haven't called. P.S. I told him that things weren't going well between me and my bf and I was ready to move on. I was just wondering, if he didn't call, was it because that I lived with my bf and his family? Or he's just not interested?
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I live with my boyfriend and his family, and I gave a worker who came to fix something my number
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I know that I'm an unfaithful hoe and now you make me realize that that's why he didn't call.
ha I was actually appreciating your comment
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Troll you are, or a dungeon dragon, don't matter. Women break up when its time to move on. They are perfectly fine sticking in a relationship as long as it fits them, but when the time comes to move on, like with you, you are moving back to your country, break up is the best option. The guy is not to blame here at all, thing weren't going so great because the woman is wrong. Up to your next 'relationship' with the next opportunity, until the next one comes along. You'd make a bad mother, and by the time you settle your beauty will vanish, with every year you getting older. One day, you will realize that no man wants you anymore, because you don't turn men on anymore.
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