She's still on her ex's social media. Time to worry?

[vivek59234]

I was in similar situation few months ago. I have been dating a girl who had a break up 2.5 years ago and since then she was with me. She was in deep love with me but she still missed her ex and was liking his pics as well as talking to him rarely on insta. She then tried to go back to him twice but somehow I pulled her back. We had decided to marry and wanted to have kids blah blah... She was very hot in bed and was verg caring but in the end I never knew that everything was fake and even after 2.5 years she moved on with her ex and she wants to marry him. I was completely broken and trying to recover from this trauma even after 4 months.

My advise would be very simple... Keep on banging her... Dont be attached and no feelings. Look for another fresh women who will attach her emotions with you because this girl will flake for sure.

 

[Reykhel]

I don't like going through women's social media in an investigative manner.

When I have, I've generally been too invested, but it's also turned out to be correct in correlation between her online relations and inset behaviours.

Hence, my opinion is that you are too invested, and you should take into account that she goes out of her way to keep ex's in her orbit.

Life is so simple, why complicate it (hint: relationships are simple, @deesade has broken it down for you in simple sauce

Me I don't have social media.....I could give a fvck. you know what interests me more thank my girl's social media?

Laphroaig 10 year

 

[vanballmoos]

I was in similar situation few months ago. I have been dating a girl who had a break up 2.5 years ago and since then she was with me. She was in deep love with me but she still missed her ex and was liking his pics as well as talking to him rarely on insta. She then tried to go back to him twice but somehow I pulled her back. We had decided to marry and wanted to have kids blah blah... She was very hot in bed and was verg caring but in the end I never knew that everything was fake and even after 2.5 years she moved on with her ex and she wants to marry him. I was completely broken and trying to recover from this trauma even after 4 months.

My advise would be very simple... Keep on banging her... Dont be attached and no feelings. Look for another fresh women who will attach her emotions with you because this girl will flake for sure.

Dam sorry to hear things ended like that. So it sounds like you think this chick still wants to be with her ex/eventually will go back to him, especially if they just ended 2 months ago?

 

[Trump]

Let me preface this by saying I hate social media.

You hate social media because its not fulfilling your emotional needs. If it was, you would love it.

A good friend of mine set me up with his SO’s friend. We met about 1.5 months ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is, upon finding out, my friend told me she likes every other picture her ex has posted.

Why would such a good friend tell you that?

They broke up in early October. I do know he broke up with her and shortly tried to reconcile, she said no, but then later told him she was struggling with the breakup and he said he was too. Also, they had also discussed marriage and kids.

Why would the girl that loves you, cherishes you, and is having sex with you, go out of her way to tell you she specifically discussed:

- getting legally married to her ex boyfriend
- in front of 500 people, all family and friends
- bearing his children.

I’m trying to tell myself it’s just her liking the content. She’ll like her other ex’s pictures too, but he’s from years ago. She’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe she’s just weird?

Maybe.

It wasn’t until recently that my friend’s SO really gave me the details about their breakup- none of which my friend knew prior to setting me up.

Yeah I believe that.

Not quite sure showing off your date on social media means you're trying to make someone jealous though.

Absolutely it is.

Anyway, he told her he was hurt but loved her enough to be happy for her to be moving on.

What?

"I'm in pain. But I love you enough for you to be happy that you are having sex with a 6'1 hockey player."

Either way should I be worried?

No. But if she likes ONE more post, it is time to PANIC.

I’m fairly interested, but it’s more so I just don’t want to get burned again. I just don’t want to potentially invest in something down the line if there may be a red flag.

Tell her that.

"I've poured my heart, soul and sweat into my previous relationship. I was so so in love with her, I would have made mountains move for her. Then found out she was having sex with some other guy and was crushed. My soul was empty and I get burned like you wouldn't believe."

"If you are going to: outsmart me / trick me/ flirt with other guys / be on social media / tear my heart out / hurt me, I don't want to invest in you in anyway shape or form. Can you guarantee that you won't make me jealous in anyway that so I can be comfortable in our relationship?

 

[bizzym]

[QUOTE="Trump, post: 2499113, member: 110134

No. But if she likes ONE more post, it is time to PANIC.

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Why?

You don’t you think she’s just liking her ex’s posts because she’s genuinely happy for him? I know you said she’s doing it to keep a connection/attention, but isn’t she more than likely liking his m pictures because she’s happy for him. Happy/relieved to see that he’s okay.

 

[Roober]

I read it somewhere here and kind of love by it. If a woman still has regular contact with her ex, you do not grant her exclusive status. She can certainly be a good plate for you, but do not make her your girlfriend. Go get other women.

You can't get a woman off her ex if it hasn't been done naturally. She will be stuck on him till someone pushes the right buttons.

 

[QuadDeuces]

This why you spin plates, you have no time to Sherlock Holme your low interest girls facebook page if you have other chicas on call.

 

[vivek59234]

Dam sorry to hear things ended like that. So it sounds like you think this chick still wants to be with her ex/eventually will go back to him, especially if they just ended 2 months ago?

Yes for sure 90% chances are still there. Just go with the flow and keep on banging. Meanwhile look for other girls and find someone trustworthy.