Do women get worse with age?

[djthiago1]

My ex is 20 years old and the girl is already nuts, and i mean it... possible BPD or Bipolarity (takes sodium valproate) adhd, 3year depression, lonely, low self-esteem, anxiety, paranoia, impulsiveness, feminist, kind of nuts. She even once said: "my brain is destroyed".

Do these things get better with age?

Also, even after knowing all of this about her, i'm still in a LOT of pain, and can't stop thinking about her.
When she was good to me i felt like Superman, but when we got into fights, oh boy... never phisically did anything thank god, but the verbal abuse and the lack of respect... man... i might even go as far as saying i'm a bit depressed here.
Any words of wisdom guys?

 

[Illan]

the answer is indeed, they get worse. especially the ones that have issues that go untreated.

 

[wifehunter]

My ex is 20 years old and the girl is already nuts, and i mean it... possible BPD or Bipolarity (takes sodium valproate) adhd, 3year depression, lonely, low self-esteem, anxiety, paranoia, impulsiveness, feminist, kind of nuts. She even once said: "my brain is destroyed".

Do these things get better with age?

Also, even after knowing all of this about her, i'm still in a LOT of pain, and can't stop thinking about her.
When she was good to me i felt like Superman, but when we got into fights, oh boy... never phisically did anything thank god, but the verbal abuse and the lack of respect... man... i might even go as far as saying i'm a bit depressed here.
Any words of wisdom guys?

good thing she's your ex....keep it that way, full NC indefinitely.

 

[skinnyguy]

Dating in your 30’s sucks. I wish I were 21 again.

When I was in college I was banging hot chicks who just wanted to party. Now women have this whole laundry list when they themselves are mentally ill.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Dating in your 30’s sucks. I wish I were 21 again.

When I was in college I was banging hot chicks who just wanted to party. Now women have this whole laundry list when they themselves are mentally ill.

Damn that sucks. I just turned 30.

 

[Billtx49]

Do these things get better with age?

Not without professional psych treatment.
Now if you stay with a crazy woman long enough, you will think she’s getting worse even if her disorder stays the same. It’s because of your own healthy mental and emotional framework being slowly demolished by her toxic behavior. Be glad she’s an Ex.

 

[Desdinova]

My ex is 20 years old and the girl is already nuts, and i mean it... possible BPD or Bipolarity (takes sodium valproate) adhd, 3year depression, lonely, low self-esteem, anxiety, paranoia, impulsiveness, feminist, kind of nuts. She even once said: "my brain is destroyed".

Do these things get better with age?

No, but the women get better at hiding it.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Women have a super high rate of depreciation. I wish I could claim it on my tax return.

 

[El Payaso]

Yes, they get worse with age.

 

[exhausted]

My ex is 20 years old and the girl is already nuts, and i mean it... possible BPD or Bipolarity (takes sodium valproate) adhd, 3year depression, lonely, low self-esteem, anxiety, paranoia, impulsiveness, feminist, kind of nuts. She even once said: "my brain is destroyed".

Do these things get better with age?

Also, even after knowing all of this about her, i'm still in a LOT of pain, and can't stop thinking about her.
When she was good to me i felt like Superman, but when we got into fights, oh boy... never phisically did anything thank god, but the verbal abuse and the lack of respect... man... i might even go as far as saying i'm a bit depressed here.
Any words of wisdom guys?

Sady they get worse. A lot is hidden and more comes out over time.
My ex very similar, hid things for a year to 18 months, tog 3 years and the last time i was around her her behavior was worse than ever. I wasnt even mad just shocked at how unhinged and disrespectful, and verbally ABUSIVE she was. I left like you as she was destroying my soul and peace. You are struggling with having to let go of someone you love because they are mentally ill it's tough because you have healthy empathy.
I feel your struggle but think about it. Do you want your house you come home to to be a daily battlefield of crazy and walking on eggshells around that unstable girl? No way.

 

[djthiago1]

Dont be fooled by this...ever. its all downhill from there. This is the true battle with this love drug.
Just stay true to what brings you joy without it. Called life

It trully is a drug. I know this now, not even all the common sense in the world is enough to get you out.

 

[Murk]

As a 28 year old man what age should I be going for? Previous 3 have been 28, 32, 36. Too told and messed up for me, younger girls seemed to immature.

 

[Murk]

No wonder you don't get cheated on

That was just the last 12 months with countless flings throughout. You should focus more on laying 30 women before you reach 40 rather than willing others to be cheated on like you.

 

[Trainwreck]

Well thru the lens of some angry red pill/mgtow basement keyboard jockey....yes. In reality, yes and no. Dating pool potential wise it will be filled with baggage older women that are divorced or were too bad to even get married. Whether they are good looking depends on genetics and the person.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Maybe they were always that bad, but now they lost the looks that made it tolerable to deal with them.

The mental handicap known as the female brain will come to the surface and they won't have tons of male attention to make them think they're the sh1t.

 

[exhausted]

Well thru the lens of some angry red pill/mgtow basement keyboard jockey....yes. In reality, yes and no. Dating pool potential wise it will be filled with baggage older women that are divorced or were too bad to even get married. Whether they are good looking depends on genetics and the person.

Yes even as damaged as they are tbey still have beta orbitors as options all damn day long.