As I mentioned on my threads in the past, I was going to give it a chance and try to get laid in Tempe which is a college town located in the most racist state in the US which is Arizona. Now while black guys are welcomed with open arms in the area, all other men of minority groups are not (to put it lightly).
And it is one racist miserable place.
Outside of the terrible weather, the people are crazy and tough to deal with.
It was fairly segregated compared to other states I've been to and I was stared down when approaching white girls there, something that has not happened to me down south or in Canada. The worst part is how they will deny it like crazy but other than blacks, all other ethnic group of men run into a lot of racism there from open to hidden.
I remember @Young OG saying that it was impossible but I managed to pull off the impossible, that is getting hot white girls in Arizona. Have to agree with him though, not once did I see a latino with a hot white girl despite the area having plenty of both and plenty of hot latin girls with white guys.
After all that, I've learned a lot of lessons and I wanted to share.
1. Women, especially hot women, are BIG on following social trends, the biggest challenge is getting them to break it.
After a month in Arizona, I noticed a trend.
White guys got hot girls of all races, especially Latinas.
Black guys with hot white girls was a given, even if the guy was ugly and fat.
Guys who were not black or white only got hot girls of their own race, at best, and that is if the guy himself was appealing.
It was rare, if not unheard of, to see hot white girls with any race other than white guys or black guys. Everyone else struggled like no ones business. "Hispanics" were poor in the area so looking like one was automatic low status. Asians were mostly internationals so this meant a lot of AFCs with horrible game.
If you were anything other than a white or black guy, you were fighting an uphill battle no doubt.
2. Social pressure is STRONG in racist areas to prevent you from getting hot girls.
It isn't just racist white people, it is also racist people of your own race. I had Mexicans who didn't even know try to stop me from approaching hot white girls and say "stop going for them". Often times, it is crabs in a bucket.
Low self-esteem or low value guy of a certain race knows he cannot get hot white girls so he stops others who look like him from getting him. I got more hate and racism from Mexicans and Asians than I did white guys, although low value white guys tried their best to stop me too.
3. The negativity and crabs in a bucket is STRONG among guys who are undesirable to local women.
In the state of Arizona, nothing is more undesirable to local women than ethnic guys (anyone not white or black). An overweight black guy will do better than a Wilmer Valderamma lookalike all else being equal, it is a fairly xenophobic place.
What this atmosphere does is crush guys who are undesirable and in that situation, a lot of those guys will try to hold each other and others who look like them back. They will constantly tell you certain women are unattainable and actively ****block you when you try to game them. I approached girls at bars only to have a group of Mexicans and Asians sometimes watching me, it was weird.
Make the mistake of talking to these guys, they will break down and try to hold you back from succeeding with women they themselves see as unattainable. The saying is if I can't get her then why should you?
4. It is a test of character and who can withstand all of those rejections.
It truly is, most men (regardless of race) are weak in today's society. A lot of men are pushovers and spineless, you see it with whiners on here all the time. It takes a strong man with a strong character to withstand it all and get the kinds of women he wants.
I would say that black and white men are far more masculine than latinos and Asian men, that is why you see them succeed so much. Obviously social image is involved but the fact is, most ethnic guys (non-black minorities) are too weak and spineless to want to succeed and do anything about their situation.
5. But most importantly, exceptions to the rule exist, on BOTH sides.
Arizona is the most racist state in America but even in the most racist state and the most xenophobic college town out there, I ran into exceptions. I managed to get laid 5 different times by girls who were younger, white, and good looking (3 of them blondes). The reason I succeeded was because I kept on plowing and digging.
You just never know.
While the local Arizona girl is undoubtedly xenophobic and would pull a gun on a Hasan Minhaj lookalike for talking to her, you might run into a girl who is IN THE SAME SITUATION. I ran into a tall hot blonde from Wisconsin who was miserable in the state, we bonded over that and I smashed.
So while it is almost impossible to smash local women who carry a lot of hatred towards any race of men not black or white, the state has transplant women who are open minded and more than willing to give a well put together Asian/Hispanic/Indian/Arab dude a chance.
And it is one racist miserable place.
Outside of the terrible weather, the people are crazy and tough to deal with.
It was fairly segregated compared to other states I've been to and I was stared down when approaching white girls there, something that has not happened to me down south or in Canada. The worst part is how they will deny it like crazy but other than blacks, all other ethnic group of men run into a lot of racism there from open to hidden.
I remember @Young OG saying that it was impossible but I managed to pull off the impossible, that is getting hot white girls in Arizona. Have to agree with him though, not once did I see a latino with a hot white girl despite the area having plenty of both and plenty of hot latin girls with white guys.
After all that, I've learned a lot of lessons and I wanted to share.
1. Women, especially hot women, are BIG on following social trends, the biggest challenge is getting them to break it.
After a month in Arizona, I noticed a trend.
White guys got hot girls of all races, especially Latinas.
Black guys with hot white girls was a given, even if the guy was ugly and fat.
Guys who were not black or white only got hot girls of their own race, at best, and that is if the guy himself was appealing.
It was rare, if not unheard of, to see hot white girls with any race other than white guys or black guys. Everyone else struggled like no ones business. "Hispanics" were poor in the area so looking like one was automatic low status. Asians were mostly internationals so this meant a lot of AFCs with horrible game.
If you were anything other than a white or black guy, you were fighting an uphill battle no doubt.
2. Social pressure is STRONG in racist areas to prevent you from getting hot girls.
It isn't just racist white people, it is also racist people of your own race. I had Mexicans who didn't even know try to stop me from approaching hot white girls and say "stop going for them". Often times, it is crabs in a bucket.
Low self-esteem or low value guy of a certain race knows he cannot get hot white girls so he stops others who look like him from getting him. I got more hate and racism from Mexicans and Asians than I did white guys, although low value white guys tried their best to stop me too.
3. The negativity and crabs in a bucket is STRONG among guys who are undesirable to local women.
In the state of Arizona, nothing is more undesirable to local women than ethnic guys (anyone not white or black). An overweight black guy will do better than a Wilmer Valderamma lookalike all else being equal, it is a fairly xenophobic place.
What this atmosphere does is crush guys who are undesirable and in that situation, a lot of those guys will try to hold each other and others who look like them back. They will constantly tell you certain women are unattainable and actively ****block you when you try to game them. I approached girls at bars only to have a group of Mexicans and Asians sometimes watching me, it was weird.
Make the mistake of talking to these guys, they will break down and try to hold you back from succeeding with women they themselves see as unattainable. The saying is if I can't get her then why should you?
4. It is a test of character and who can withstand all of those rejections.
It truly is, most men (regardless of race) are weak in today's society. A lot of men are pushovers and spineless, you see it with whiners on here all the time. It takes a strong man with a strong character to withstand it all and get the kinds of women he wants.
I would say that black and white men are far more masculine than latinos and Asian men, that is why you see them succeed so much. Obviously social image is involved but the fact is, most ethnic guys (non-black minorities) are too weak and spineless to want to succeed and do anything about their situation.
5. But most importantly, exceptions to the rule exist, on BOTH sides.
Arizona is the most racist state in America but even in the most racist state and the most xenophobic college town out there, I ran into exceptions. I managed to get laid 5 different times by girls who were younger, white, and good looking (3 of them blondes). The reason I succeeded was because I kept on plowing and digging.
You just never know.
While the local Arizona girl is undoubtedly xenophobic and would pull a gun on a Hasan Minhaj lookalike for talking to her, you might run into a girl who is IN THE SAME SITUATION. I ran into a tall hot blonde from Wisconsin who was miserable in the state, we bonded over that and I smashed.
So while it is almost impossible to smash local women who carry a lot of hatred towards any race of men not black or white, the state has transplant women who are open minded and more than willing to give a well put together Asian/Hispanic/Indian/Arab dude a chance.
