"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"A Foriegn Affair" spam

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Please be advised that there have been a lot of new posters who have created their first post in this forum. It usually involves a woman that is traveling. They mention that they met her on a site called "A Foriegn Affair."

Please be advised that it is spam. Do not respond to them. Just hit the "report" button if you see it. We are currently working on a way to filter them out without hindering the rest of the site.

Thank you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sometimes the posts mention their site url instead, which is loveme.com
If it continues with that site url, please let me know. It should have been added to a filter already that should be keeping those posts from showing.
 
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