“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I know about local speed dating events. They have them very often.

If I don't go, I give permission for everyone on this site to call me a pu$$y and say that I'm not even trying.

This is easy dates. And it will do wonders to increase my.... Whatever you call it. Just like @guru1000 said would happen if I went on 10 OLD dates.

I'm not doing this RIGHT NOW. Might even wait until after the New Year, but this is an easy way to gain some experience with sitting across tables from people and talking to them.

Hopefully, it will give me a good idea of what my strengths and weaknesses are.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If I don't go, I give permission for everyone on this site to call me a pu$$y and say that I'm not even trying.
Part of learning from this place is to learn not to be easily influenced by others, just the basic principle. We can call you whatever we want, but it's inconsequential to your life. What anonymous guys on a forum think of you and what you want to do should be irrelevant to you.
 

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Hopefully, it will give me a good idea of what my strengths and weaknesses are.
Your weakness is being social. You'll need that if you do speed dating because you're given very little time to interact with women. Also, attractive women don't do speed dating because they don't need to. In other words, you're going to complain that you didn't take any women home because they weren't hot enough.

Might even wait until after the New Year
I have to keep closing your 5hitty posts until then? <sigh>

this is an easy way to gain some experience with sitting across tables from people and talking to them.
So is chatting to strangers in a food court. You can go do that today instead of waiting until 2018.
 
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Your weakness is being social. You'll need that if you do speed dating because you're given very little time to interact with women. Also, attractive women don't do speed dating because they don't need to. In other words, you're going to complain that you didn't take any women home because they weren't hot enough.



I have to keep closing your 5hitty posts until then? <sigh>



So is chatting to strangers in a food court. You can go do that today instead of waiting until 2018.
I wouldn't plan on taking any girls home from speed dating on the day of the event.

Talk to strangers at the mall? Wtf kind of weirdo sh1t is that?

No, you don't have to keep abusing your power and talking like your tough if you don't want to.
 
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Part of learning from this place is to learn not to be easily influenced by others, just the basic principle. We can call you whatever we want, but it's inconsequential to your life. What anonymous guys on a forum think of you and what you want to do should be irrelevant to you.
Which is why I've ignored the 100,000 times I've been insulted on this website. But this is something easy that I can do.
 

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Talk to strangers at the mall? Wtf kind of weirdo sh1t is that?
The same kind of weirdo 5hit as getting off your computer and going outside the house.

No, you don't have to keep abusing your power and talking like your tough if you don't want to.
At least I can get laid without having to go to jail for stalking someone like clueless creep. ;)
 
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The same kind of weirdo 5hit as getting off your computer and going outside the house.



At least I can get laid without having to go to jail for stalking someone like clueless creep. ;)
Can you please leave me alone? I never invited you to be my coach and your advice sucks.

It's called a SMART PHONE. I rarely am at home other than to sleep, and barely ever use my laptop.

But are any of the girls you fvck hot? I don't really care.
 

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Can you please leave me alone? I never invited you to be my coach and your advice sucks.
My advice comes from the core teachings I learned on this forum. If you don't like the advice that I (and many other members here) give, then there is no point for you to continue being here.

This is a place for those who aren't afraid to do the work to make positive changes in their lives. All you do is complain and post silly theories that have no weight and no real life experience to back them up. The less inclined you are to actually make changes to the way you pick up women, the less likely anybody here is going to take you seriously. You already have multiple other members calling you a troll, and I can't say I blame them. You sit on your PHONE and type pointless nonsense that wastes time and bandwidth.

You'd fit in better with all the silly theorists on Loveshack than you do here. If you enjoy writing pointless nonsense, go post it over there where people will agree with you instead of challenging you to make changes.
 
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My advice comes from the core teachings I learned on this forum. If you don't like the advice that I (and many other members here) give, then there is no point for you to continue being here.

This is a place for those who aren't afraid to do the work to make positive changes in their lives. All you do is complain and post silly theories that have no weight and no real life experience to back them up. The less inclined you are to actually make changes to the way you pick up women, the less likely anybody here is going to take you seriously. You already have multiple other members calling you a troll, and I can't say I blame them. You sit on your PHONE and type pointless nonsense that wastes time and bandwidth.

You'd fit in better with all the silly theorists on Loveshack than you do here. If you enjoy writing pointless nonsense, go post it over there where people will agree with you instead of challenging you to make changes.
And these changes involve weirding out strangers at the mall?

You're asking me to become fake. I have already done everything I need to do to be "good enough" to impress the little Pokemon girls that populate the Earth.

Tell me again specifically what is this effort you're asking me to put in? Do what specifically?

My "theories" (which are mostly facts) are based on VERY REAL life experience. Perhaps I have much more of it than you do? If your knowledge of the world comes from SoSuave.net than you have serious issues.
 
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And these changes involve weirding out strangers at the mall?
It's only in YOUR mind that you're weirding out strangers. People talk to strangers every day. If talking to strangers never happened, life on this planet would cease to exist.

When you adopt the "I don't give a fvck" attitude, you will no longer care if you're weirding people out or not. It won't matter anymore. You need to quit caring what others think of you.

You're asking me to become fake.
No, I'm wanting you to work on your weaknesses. You'll feel fake in the beginning, but that's why they call it "fake it till you make it". I never used to be able to approach strangers. Now it's easy and natural.

Tell me again specifically what is this effort you're asking me to put in? Do what specifically?
I want you to get over your social anxiety. It involves practice, and lots of it. That's why I encourage you to do the bootcamp. You have to reach constant goals that force you to engage in simple social activities. If you get stuck on one of the goals, you'll know that's a weakness you need to work on.

If your knowledge of the world comes from SoSuave.net than you have serious issues.
If you think this site is that worthless, then there is no reason for this thread to remain open.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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