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I have Great luck with attractive women 30+ or women between 25-30 who are single moms

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None of what you said about single moms is true in my case though that is why you keep an arms length distance,in my case she is better off than me and like I was just discussing in another thread we are both game aware so it's not like I will be taken advantage of somehow that just won't happen.She is an excellent main actually.
yea a man in my situation would be insane to date a single mom

they will want me to take care of them financially no doubt.
 

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yea a man in my situation would be insane to date a single mom

they will want me to take care of them financially no doubt.
LOL a man in your situation would be fvckin insane to seriously date anyone...spin them plates dammit...
 

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LOL a man in your situation would be fvckin insane to seriously date anyone...spin them plates dammit...
I should be dating a classy professional woman making 60 to 100K - basically the female version of me
 

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I should be dating a classy professional woman making 60 to 100K - basically the female version of me
This thread is depressing. I'm working on myself to get where you are: fit and well off in your career. To hear that you're struggling when things are going well for you is disheartening.
 

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This thread is depressing. I'm working on myself to get where you are: fit and well off in your career. To hear that you're struggling when things are going well for you is disheartening.
oh dude. It's all a bunch of bull****. My last 3 months, I've made 20,000 each month. 20,000 a month at the age of 28 - just absurd numbers. I look like a professional football linebacker with big meaty shoulders and traps muscles but I'm also extremely well groomed with a semi pretty face and I dress like I'm out of a GQ magazine - very upscale fashion sense.


What it comes down to is quality women have a billion options so getting 1 to go out with you is insanely difficult nowadays. A cute woman in her 20s has more options than most male movie stars
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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oh dude. It's all a bunch of bull****. My last 3 months, I've made 20,000 each month. 20,000 a month at the age of 28 - just absurd numbers. I look like a professional football linebacker with big meaty shoulders and traps muscles but I'm also extremely well groomed with a semi pretty face and I dress like I'm out of a GQ magazine - very upscale fashion sense.


What it comes down to is quality women have a billion options so getting 1 to go out with you is insanely difficult nowadays. A cute woman in her 20s has more options than most male movie stars
Yes, your female equivalent has about 10-20 times your options I believe. Just have to suck it up. I'd still rather be a man.
 
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oh dude. It's all a bunch of bull****. My last 3 months, I've made 20,000 each month. 20,000 a month at the age of 28 - just absurd numbers. I look like a professional football linebacker with big meaty shoulders and traps muscles but I'm also extremely well groomed with a semi pretty face and I dress like I'm out of a GQ magazine - very upscale fashion sense.


What it comes down to is quality women have a billion options so getting 1 to go out with you is insanely difficult nowadays. A cute woman in her 20s has more options than most male movie stars
Why would you need a girl to have money? That's not important to me at all. Females can only gain money through easy air-conditioned office jobs, anyway. Not real work.

I would rather get money myself, then go for the hot girl at Hooters with the juicy a$$ and big tit$ that loves to suck d1ck all day.
 

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Yes, your female equivalent has about 10-20 times your options I believe. Just have to suck it up. I'd still rather be a man.

10-20 times my options? Are you smoking crack? try 10,000 times my options at Ieast. Any girl with a phenomenal fitness model body like me is basically treated like a movie star, forget all my other qualities.


but I don't even care about that. I don't care about quantity at all. I just want 1 quality girl who is somewhat similar to myself and I can't even get that
 
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...hate to say it, but I think the biggest issue here may be a bit of a disconnect with life itself and how you're interacting with it.

I'll put it this way...I'm a teacher making $50k at the moment who drives a Mustang and goes to Planet Fitness, lol. Hey man, I don't really have any trouble meeting or attracting women, and it's mostly due to modesty/comfort in myself and genuinely having fun with life and people. You can have all the money and success in the world, and all the expensive posessions in the universe, but if your persona doesn't click with all of that...well, then what you have is just a bunch of empty objects that don't really help to reflect your personality and who you are to those around you.

To prove a point...I've learned more about developing social skills and the ability to speak and interact with other people from teaching high school kids all day than I ever could have from anything on here, you know? You can flash money, "spin plates", and "game" all you want like the "experts" say to...or you can actually learn to be social, develop a persona, be a leader who's not afraid to put himself fully out there for others to see, learn how to match witts with any human being, and let the rest happen on its own while you happily coast on auto pilot just doing your thing from day to day without much going into it. You can't hide behind money and success and expect it to do the work that your personality and social skills need to. I think this might be some of your problem.
 

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And an idiot can catch more fish fishing out of a barrel than a lake. That said, from my own experience, I think I understand where you're coming from - that it seems that most decently attractive childless women are cloistered and that the attractive ones that are out "in the field" seem to always be single mommies. Really what it is is that the childless ones have full solar systems of beta orbiters, and therefore something that you cannot even get close to, leaving out the single mommies that don't have such orbiters, and therefore available for your pickup.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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