"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any guys on here that think they're ugly that still get with hot girls?

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How do you do it?

I've been called ugly too many times to ignore it. Facial fillers will not fix this.

This is something I can't improve and is probably the whole reason I'm not having success and am stuck trying to make tons of money.

You can tell me to "work on my personality" all you want, but if I was good looking enough for girls to want to talk to me, my personality would probably fix itself!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In fact, I think I have a PERFECT personality for picking up women. I don't care about them at all, I'm a complete a$$hole, slightly psychotic, care only about myself and my money, and think they're all stupid and clueless.

Problem is... They don't find me good looking enough to care!

Which is probably why I'm focusing on money so much because it's the only thing I can work on.
 

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I know plenty of ugly guys who get women. Women care less about looks than we do. Somewhere, somehow, there are women who are into your type. Most ugly guys who slay cooz also have their sh!t together in other ways.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think we've all tired of your endless complaints about your appearance and the women you haven't approached, so I propose the following...

Click on this link and download The Don Juan Bootcamp

Don Juan Bootcamp

Read the articles and do the exercises. Then post your results on the forum.

If you can go through the entire bootcamp and still have the same opinions, I shall let you post all the complaints you want about yourself and society. Until then, I shall be closing any complaint threads you make.

I expect your next thread to be titled "Bootcamp: Week One"

Now go get started...
 
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