"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm In Love With A Sex Doll

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is going on over in Japan with these guys? I thought Asian women were very submissive and treated their men well. That's the stereotype anyway, but apparently a lot of these guys are having some serious problems.

That said, after Skyline's thread about him winning a sex doll, I did look some up on the internet (not shopping for, just looking lol). Most of them looked like fake dolls to me, but I have to admit there were a few (just a few, mind you) that had striking faces, very individualized, attractive, faces. I wonder if they model these after real people, it would make sense.
 

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What is going on over in Japan with these guys? I thought Asian women were very submissive and treated their men well. That's the stereotype anyway, but apparently a lot of these guys are having some serious problems.

That said, after Skyline's thread about him winning a sex doll, I did look some up on the internet (not shopping for, just looking lol). Most of them looked like fake dolls to me, but I have to admit there were a few (just a few, mind you) that had striking faces, very individualized, attractive, faces. I wonder if they model these after real people, it would make sense.
Sorry but I don't think that's true. It's true that many years ago Japanese women are kinda submissive like you said, but nowadays things change quite drastically. Asian women now have more power (and you will be surprised how much power they have in family). And so submissive? Yeah it's cultural but not so much nowadays. Of course some families still be able to keep the tradition but otherwise, it's not.
And in Japan, it's even more different. Lots of men in Japan choose to live a live a quiet life and they even said they don't want to have a girlfriend. Still i doubt this, it's probably due to the reservation nature of Japanese people, and also they have extremely intense working life. They generally don't want to get married since it will be extremely costly and time-consuming for them, and so choosing sex-doll is much better option?
 

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Maybe the women are becoming more westernized in Japan? I guess if Japanese men are more reserved, it might be more difficult them to go out and "sarge". If they don't want to get married because of the expense, I guess the sex doll thing is just another form of MGTOW. The picnic is a bit much, though :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe the women are becoming more westernized in Japan? I guess if Japanese men are more reserved, it might be more difficult them to go out and "sarge". If they don't want to get married because of the expense, I guess the sex doll thing is just another form of MGTOW. The picnic is a bit much, though :)
Yeah that's true to some extent. Like for example in Japan, there are a "new type" of men called "herbivore", just because they mostly choose to live a lonely life without having a wife or even girlfriend. They're even hesitate in sex, they even don't date. Quite bizarre from our points of view but yeah it happens in Japan.
The picnic thingy is indeed a higher level of "imaginary friend", or should I say "imaginary waifu".
 

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Like for example in Japan, there are a "new type" of men called "herbivore"
The dudes here are so hopeless, even when they pay for sex (at least enough of them make it economically feasible) they PAY to bang a DOLL rather than a real girl.

It's like how central banks have NEGATIVE interest rates. Dudes in Japan have NEGATIVE game.

 

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What's not to like? Doll's can't collect child support, collect alimony, take 1/2 your stuff, or make false rape and domestic violence allegations. At least not yet.
 

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What's not to like? Doll's can't collect child support, collect alimony, take 1/2 your stuff, or make false rape and domestic violence allegations.
Maybe that's what they want us to think. Maybe the whole angle is to trick us into thinking they are safe and controllable, and once there is a critical mass of ownership, that's when the silicon dolls will rise up and enslave us all.

It would be like in iRobot but with japanese sex dolls running everything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Search "jap man found dead under porn collection"

Hahaha

Tentacle porn come from japan, WTF?

SUPPRESSED MASCULINE ENERGY HAS TO GO SOMEWHERE.

Lololop
 

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The dudes here are so hopeless, even when they pay for sex (at least enough of them make it economically feasible) they PAY to bang a DOLL rather than a real girl.

It's like how central banks have NEGATIVE interest rates. Dudes in Japan have NEGATIVE game.

Do you know that quite a while ago they have a friend-hiring service? It's not related to love-relationship but let's look again... friend-hiring? I mean I really "WoW" when I heard of this news. It's like their loneliness level becoming much much more problematic. What's sad is that they hire friend... like literally, can't they make friend in real life or something? If that's true then I gotta say traveling and having fun in Japan is good, but living in Japan?... gotta think twice.
 

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Do you know that quite a while ago they have a friend-hiring service?
In Taiwan, after somebody dies, they have a "viewing" in the person's home. (or their relatives' home) it's considered a sign of social status to have plenty of grieving people after somebody dies.

So plenty of people hire a bunch of professional "grievers' to come and moan and wail and carry to.

This kind of stuff isn't really that new (hiring people to pretend to be friends).

There's even a movie about it. Wedding Ringers, Kevin Hart plays a guy who is a "professional best man."
 

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interesting but wired and creepy, man lives with plastic doll, omg.
 

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-5054103/Sex-robot-Samantha-set-mass-production.html
Sex robot Samantha could be mass produced in Wales as its designers admit they are 'struggling to meet demand'

  • Samantha is an eerily realistic sex robot with a fully functional vagina
  • It is currently sold in London, but the designers say they can't meet demand
  • They are looking to mass produce Samantha's head at a factory in Wales
  • The news comes just weeks after the designers claimed that Samantha will soon have a 'moral code' which could affect her sex drive
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Moral code"? Oh brother.. will she have pms and bleed?
 

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Maybe the women are becoming more westernized in Japan? I guess if Japanese men are more reserved, it might be more difficult them to go out and "sarge". If they don't want to get married because of the expense, I guess the sex doll thing is just another form of MGTOW. The picnic is a bit much, though :)
Women can't become more masculine and males aren't affected. Masculinity and feminity is a balance.
 

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The news comes just weeks after the designers claimed that Samantha will soon have a 'moral code' which could affect her sex drive
What?! Isn't the entire point of such a doll to avoid this? Because the reason they have a doll in the first place is due to their inability or unwillingness to deal with the humanity of a real woman.

Regarding Japan though, from my limited knowledge they seem to be working themselves to extinction. Excessive stress and performance pressure isn't exactly an aphrodisiac...
 

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Suppose an evil spirit possesses the dolls and their eyes start opening on their own and she smiles and says "got you" after the guy is finished with her. That would be freak-out of the year.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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