"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Market Trend Analysis - Women with Wide Hips

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So I've managed to hook up with more women this year than my entire life combined before this year. Particularly during this past summer.

Today after leaving my office I saw a very SEXY blond with glasses and I had to approach her. She has wide hips and is very feminine. Sexy voice, nice skin, beautiful face.

After I closed her a light bulb went off in my head and I realized an interesting pattern. I started thinking about all the women I f*cked his year and in years before. I noticed women with wide hips had more feminine personalities and were more willing to hook up with me easily. I thought HARD about it (no pun intended).

Looking back.. it seems women with narrow hips were generally more difficult and bitchy than other women. Women with wide hips are more horny, better in bed and easier to sleep with. And this seems to be the case regardless of how hot the woman is.

This probably sounds like an absurd stereotype, but it seems like a real pattern. I'm considering avoiding women with narrow hips. Any of you guys observed a similar trend?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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stringpuller said:
This is just a STRANGE thing to post to discuss my friend. You really care??
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You care enough to respond lol.


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This is what happens when your sample size is 2.
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LOL. As if.

The DIVORCED man who claims the market is "booming" for nice long-term relationship women.. yet this DIVORCED man cannot find a woman who is "wife material" to save his life. This DIVORCED man who doesn't know Urbanyst from a hole in the wall wants to tell Urbanyst what his sex life is like lol.

This is rich.

I'm telling you. Consider becoming a comedian.
 
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stringpuller said:
Nothing nevermind my friend. Your banging all those women you seem to be doing well and maybe you will figure out that hips thing. Maybe go to the mall and take a poll.
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Are you a woman with narrow hips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As far as the topic of the thread, maybe I'm weird, but I have never once looked at a girl and described her as having large or small hips.

I might have thought big or small butt. But not hips.
 
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Vote for the stupidest thread of the year.

Anyone?
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Ponzi your wit is as cutting as a lump of Play Doh.

So either you drool on your lunchables while day dreaming of life without your My Lil Pony soft spot protector helmet or you're just backwater swamp land dumb and lazy. I know where my vote is.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guru1000 said:
Vote for the stupidest thread of the year.

Anyone?
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@guru1000 believes one of hundreds of threads on SoSuave is "stupid". This DIVORCED man proceeds to take his highly valuable "wife hunting time" and spend it participating in "the stupidest thread of the year".

Note that SoSuave has hundreds if not thousands of threads for this DIVORCED man to post in lol.
 
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As far as the topic of the thread, maybe I'm weird, but I have never once looked at a girl and described her as having large or small hips.

I might have thought big or small butt. But not hips.
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Child bearing hips.
 
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@guru1000 believes one of hundreds of threads on SoSuave is "stupid". This DIVORCED man proceeds to take is highly valuable "wife hunting time" and spend it participating in "the stupidest thread of the year".

Note that SoSuave has hundreds if not thousands of threads for this DIVORCED man to post in lol.
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Goofy1000 lives a great "life" = Posting 24/7/365 live from his safe space while cultivating bed sores
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Urbanyst joined 9 months ago, wrote 1700+ posts, created 100+ threads, on how to find a fraudulent woman from Bumble with child bearing hips by passing out his business cards and to bear his child whom he can pair-bond with before she leaves him after one year, so in the meantime he could fertilize a baby rat, to inculcate it with the ways of today's fraudulent woman. LOL.

I couldn't make this up.
 
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^^^^

Well looky here. Goofy1000 scarfed down his pop tarts, did some stretches, felt like a champ and as usual...BAM!

We get this dud.
 
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guru1000 said:
Urbanyst joined 9 months ago, wrote 1700+ posts, created 100+ threads, on how to find a fraudulent woman from Bumble with child bearing hips by passing out his business cards and to bear his child whom he can pair-bond with before she leaves him after one year, so in the meantime he could fertilize a baby rat, to inculcate it with the ways of today's fraudulent woman. LOL.

I couldn't make this up.
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You are clearly a man in pain.

To quote @sazc (something I've never done) I hope you find happiness.
 
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You are clearly a man in pain.

To quote @sazc (something I've never done) I hope you find happiness.
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Aww. Got into your feeliez. And quoting Sazc, a fraudulent woman? LOL.

I'm finished for now :)
 
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Aww. Got into your feeliez. And quoting Sazc, a fraudulent woman? LOL.

I'm finished for now :)
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Yes. I give credit where credit is due.

I remember in one "back and forth" I was having with @sazc she said to me: "I hope you find happiness". To be honest, I was pretty impressed. She managed to combine the perfect amount of arrogance, pity and superiority in one passive-aggressive post. So I decided to remember that one for the next time someone trolls me. And who better to use it on than the most emotional person to ever post on SoSuave: @guru1000

LOL.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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