"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Signs of interest

Stone_Island_95

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I’m having trouble on hints/signs of interest from the way a chick will behave, look, flirt, etc. I feel like I’m taking some signs as friendliness instead of signs of interest.some chicks are showing signs from looking at me, walk way slow if I’m around them, staring at me to pretending they don’t see me up close or turns around and look down when i pass by them I don’t know how to take it even worse when I know few of them have a bf. I’m not fat or weird looking I dress somewhat decent. I consider to be a introvert but talk and keep a conversation going
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Post some specific examples, also include how good your relationship is with the said woman/women. Have you known them for a long time? Do you know them well/not so well?
 

Stone_Island_95

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Post some specific examples, also include how good your relationship is with the said woman/women. Have you known them for a long time? Do you know them well/not so well?


With some girls that I’m cool with we talk and laugh. they get all close to me at times rubbing their leg on mine, they flirt, teasing me to an extent and smile around me. Problem is I don’t talk to them out of class

This one girl I had class with we have not talk or know then I seen around campus giving me looks when I’m walking down campus I see this one girl looking at me from afar then up close she turns her head and looks down, or uses her long curly hair to cover her face then again she did give me signs what appears like interest but now has a man not sure if they are going out

This other girl we had class at times looks at me from time to time but when we are walking close she slows down walking I doubt that’s how she really walks
 
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