"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are the femynists going crazy on "sexual assault" these days?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It doesn't matter, when we live in a culture where women are 'always right'.

Satan should be proud.o_O
 

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The recent sexual assault/harassment hysteria has been a bit of a mixed bag. On the one hand, it is immensely satisfying to see hypocritical leftwing liberals like Harvey Weinstein (who constantly accuse conservatives of waging a "war on women") have their lives destroyed in such a spectacular fashion by the very monster they have created. On the other hand, pretty much EVERY man is guilty of sexual assault, or at minimum, sexual harassment by the standards of today's society. Ever hit on a girl who didn't think you were cute enough or didn't like you for some other reason? Congratulation, you are now a sexual harasser. Ever tried to kino a girl on a date or maybe on the dance floor at a nightclub? Smooth move if she enjoyed it. And if she did not ...SEXUAL ASSAULT. I mean, the fact that these women are accusing a clearly senile, wheelchair-bound, 94-year-old President George H.W. Bush of sexually assaulting them is just crazy beyond belief. The guy (who is a WWII hero and, by all accounts, an honourable man) has clearly lost his marbles.
 
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The recent sexual assault/harassment hysteria has been a bit of a mixed bag. On the one hand, it is immensely satisfying to see hypocritical leftwing liberals like Harvey Weinstein (who constantly accuse conservatives of waging a "war on women") have their lives destroyed in such a spectacular fashion by the very monster they have created. On the other hand, pretty much EVERY man is guilty of sexual assault, or at minimum, sexual harassment by the standards of today's society. Ever hit on a girl who didn't think you were cute enough or didn't like you for some other reason? Congratulation, you are now a sexual harasser. Ever tried to kino a girl on a date or maybe on the dance floor at a nightclub? Smooth move if she enjoyed it. And if she did not ...SEXUAL ASSAULT. I mean, the fact that these women are accusing a clearly senile, wheelchair-bound, 94-year-old President George H.W. Bush of sexually assaulting them is just crazy beyond belief. The guy (who is a WWII hero and, by all accounts, an honourable man) has clearly lost his marbles.
Not so lonely, being alone, after reading this.:confused::eek::D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It’s not exclusively about feminism.
A new false or now sense of entitlement is why they do it. I have seen some men act out of bounds based on that lately also.
Technology is changing rapidly, but what rides along with it are big changes in human behavior.
It’s the old ‘it’s a different world now’ story that came back to bite you on the ass if you don’t transition with the times as you age…
Bottom line, the things a man could do 10-30 years ago and get away with isn’t the same as now.
Cosby, Weinstein, Bush, same story.
 
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Not so lonely, being alone, after reading this.:confused::eek::D
Exactly. Not so lonely after reading this and generally coming to terms with just how downhill women have gone in even the past 10 years. I am at the point where I can't even honestly say that I like women as a whole anymore. Don't get me wrong I am attracted to them sexually. I tolerate them at work because I have to. I am courteous to women workers at places I do business like stores, restaurants, etc., so long as they are courteous to me. I have no desire to hurt them or see them get hurt in any way. Otherwise I really, generally speaking, can't honestly say I like them as human beings anymore. And I sure as hell don't trust them any more than I trust my local mafia gang leader. There are probably eight women on the entire planet who I really genuinely give a crap about and have genuine respect for. My mother and my daughter are two of those.
 
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"Sexual assault" includes a man she finds unattractive looking at her.
That would be sexual harassment if in the workplace. In a woman's perfect world, every man is a muscular millionaire.

It seems just saying hi to a woman is sexual harassment. So what are men to do to meet women? Wait for them to show interest? And what if a woman doesn't show interest at all?

Not every man graduated from the international academy of alpha males. That's what kind of society we live in.
 
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