"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating fail

Murk

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So split with my ex and went on a date today.

I met this girl 3 weeks ago on Friday, went on a date after work the week after with a kiss close.

Met up a couple days after for a quick drink as I left my friends glasses in her bag. I helped this girl get a job, shes in architecure/city planning and was finding it hard landing her first role after a masters and me being a recruitment extraordinaire kind of mentored her and within a week of meeting she had an interview and subsequently has the perfect job with lots of hands on experience and exposure to progress her career light-years ahead.

We met up today for dinner (couldn't stop thinking about my ex), and had 2 large glasses of red each. The kino was minimal, and i felt like it was flowing into friend zone, not necessarily by her but due to the nature of the big role I played on getting her career on track so that was what we talked about a fair bit. Our first date was her stressing and telling me her issues which kind of led me to take action and tell her the proactive route to take to market to land herself the job she needed.

Second meet was last weekend, I went out with her and a friend of hers I'd met 3 weeks ago, entertained both, wing manned potential suitors for her friend and basically had an all round good time and demonstrated very high social value and savvy but we all got wasted and ubered home separately.

Now its her bday tomorrow and shes invited me out with her friends on Saturday and repeatedly asked me if i'm excited. she hasn't had a bf in about 4 years and shes quite hot (7.5/10) but smart and funny which I need so really probs a 8/10.

I need to estalish a sexual connection, we obviously fancy each other but im a bit out of touch with how to manipulate this into my control as I've usually had sex from the off with girls usually and not had to play this game with such a shy chick.

Any help is much appreciated, 3 dates (one with her friend) and only kissed on one occasion, advice for the saturday as i want to bang.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shes shy, date 2 with her friend I said to her "you don't really give much off do you?" and she replied no shes usually quite shy and reserved, i'm not used to that kind of girl, I'm usually loud and bold enough to draw it out but I kind of went more reserved (stupidly) this time. She didn't escalate but I noticed her get more playful towards the end, maybe she was getting frustrated. I need to plough her on Saturday.
 

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Shes shy, date 2 with her friend I said to her "you don't really give much off do you?" and she replied no shes usually quite shy and reserved, i'm not used to that kind of girl, I'm usually loud and bold enough to draw it out but I kind of went more reserved (stupidly) this time. She didn't escalate but I noticed her get more playful towards the end, maybe she was getting frustrated. I need to plough her on Saturday.
After the party Saturday ask her to your place for a drink. You need to isolate her and escalate the kino.
 
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