"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Are you...?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Keep slayin', my brotha 
I borrowed a wing woman to approach the hottest 2-set blondes at a bar/club venue downtown last weekend.
No closes, yet I got a selfie with them and my wing woman.
I was digging the confidence boost I got from the approach.
I borrowed a wing woman to approach the hottest 2-set blondes at a bar/club venue downtown last weekend.
No closes, yet I got a selfie with them and my wing woman.
I was digging the confidence boost I got from the approach.
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wifehunter
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Sometimes I'm shocked and stunned at the results. I ruin girls, they have no other options...99.5% of guys, around here, are chodettes!Keep slayin', my brotha
I borrowed a wing woman to approach the hottest 2-set blondes at a bar/club venue downtown last weekend.
No closes, yet I got a selfie with them and my wing woman.
I was digging the confidence boost I got from the approach.
Rarely.. do I see any semi-quality guys out there. They're all probably locked down and off the market doing chores from the 'honey-do' list.
Is like shooting fish in barrel!
Way TOO easy!
If you've got frame, you've got no competition.