"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Would you change your hairstyle/ type or the woman?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
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One could argue that hair style is unimportant enough to be worth less than pvssy. In that single case it might be true, but that's a narrow view of it. In the wider perspective you have forsaken a piece of your self-respect, a piece of your power over yourself. If you allow small things to pass it will add up and the sum is not worth the woman. Many pieces make up a considerable chunk, it would slowly eat away at who you are until you're in her possession. Then you'd get dumped for being spineless and since you have given away who you are you end up helpless in the face of reality.
Be extremely careful about pleasing others will about you. Every little thing seem harmless, but combined it can destroy you. I believe many guys here started giving in for small things that eventually developed into a very bitter experience.
No matter how small, stand your ground. If they try persuading you by minimizing the significance of the change, then flip the script and say "if it's so insignificant, you can surely accept that".
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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QuadDeuces
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Murk
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If I had straight hair I would get super low on the sides, long on top with a parting. Kind of like a pompadour but not so big on top.
So suave.
Obviously if you’re balding or receding take it all off clean ASAP and grow a beard. No two ways about it.
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I agree with you, most of girls prefer the crochet braids are more outgoing and young, at least most of my friends are these type. But when you focus on the girls with dark skin like with long hairstyles for black women it is hard to feel a girl is outgoing or not.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.