"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The One Phrase That Stops Contrary Women in Their Tracks

Atom Smasher

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A few years ago I stumbled upon a phrase that completely shuts down an argumentative woman every time. I don't know yet why it works, but I think it somehow triggers the "daddy" response.

The phrase is this: "I absolutely do not accept that."

Whatever the point she is making when arguing, that phrase will silence her and she will listen to the next thing you have to say. Now, the main ingredient could be my personal style of delivery of this line, but I think the words somehow intrinsically resonate with women.

This works with women you don't really know, as well as girlfriends and I assume wives, although I've never been married. It works for me 100% of the time, for me at least. Somehow it snaps them back into reality.

I would like a royalty for each use of this phrase. I'll set up a PayPal account where those who use it can pay tribute to their Uncle Atom who just saved them untold misery. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Very good post, I said something similar to a female years ago at work that snatched a piece of paper out of my hand, and after that i never had a problem out of her. In fact we became good friends!

Basically when you say this you are just communicating that you are of a higher authority than her and will not accept derogatory behaviour which builds respect and sets the tone and baseline for future communication.
 

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Very good post, I said something similar to a female years ago at work that snatched a piece of paper out of my hand, and after that i never had a problem out of her. In fact we became good friends!

Basically when you say this you are just communicating that you are of a higher authority than her and will not accept derogatory behaviour which builds respect and sets the tone and baseline for future communication.
Well articulated.
 
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