"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Lmao triple header at wednesday

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
Im considering 3 options:

1. set all in same time and place and go with one
2. set all in near place but different time and go for all (aka short dates)
3. set all in same time and place and go on date with 3 girls in the same time

what would you do? they are 20-24 im 22
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

MrJack

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 1, 2017
Messages
496
Reaction score
226
Age
33
Lolol definitely don't do option 1. Why automatically lose two potential plates for no reason by blatantly disrespecting them in public?

Option 3 is probs worse than option 1 cuz then you'll lose all 3 potential plates unless you're motherfvcking James Bond style smooth and can somehow get them down with it. But it'll most likely just be awkward as fvck.

Option 2 I guess is the best option lol.
 

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
Lolol definitely don't do option 1. Why automatically lose two potential plates for no reason by blatantly disrespecting them in public?

Option 3 is probs worse than option 1 cuz then you'll lose all 3 potential plates unless you're motherfvcking James Bond style smooth and can somehow get them down with it. But it'll most likely just be awkward as fvck.

Option 2 I guess is the best option lol.
Ok i go for option 2 Lol i assumed option 3 is alright because @guru1000 claims he does it
 

Billtx49

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
5,989
Reaction score
5,410
Location
DFW
#1 and #3, you p|ss off all three women. #2 is chancey but your best shot if you’re feeling risky and can handle it.
 
Last edited:

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,548
Reaction score
4,103
Location
Inside her mind
lmfaoooo why not just set it a different than there is a chance 1 will flake anyway
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
Well funny thing i was struggling with tinder usually but recently miracle happened and I have 4 dates today and two phone numbers (didnt ask for more) and none is set on specific hour i have no idea how to make smooth transition between dates lol
 
Top