“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yo, Can we PLEASE STOP with the #'s rating system?

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Really tired of this whole shes a 5, hes a 7, blablabla. What is this the math forums? please get outta here with that BS. Its very tiring, very unnecessary and screams out keyboard jockey, aka no time in the field, aka zero social experience.

Are you literally in your head categorizing women on a number? So when you see a fat dumpy chick you say oh she is a 2.2. Do you put a numbers label on your friends saying "oh yeah my best friend shes an 8". Do you go to the gym and judge the chick on the treadmill as a 6.37 ? I mean seriously...either shes hot, or shes not. its that simple. If shes not hot she can still be bangable for other reasons but the whole rating chicks system, is a female type system..its nerdy and something lames are using to spit out bro science.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Really tired of this whole shes a 5, hes a 7, blablabla. What is this the math forums? please get outta here with that BS. Its very tiring, very unnecessary and screams out keyboard jockey, aka no time in the field, aka zero social experience.

Are you literally in your head categorizing women on a number? So when you see a fat dumpy chick you say oh she is a 2.2. Do you put a numbers label on your friends saying "oh yeah my best friend shes an 8". Do you go to the gym and judge the chick on the treadmill as a 6.37 ? I mean seriously...either shes hot, or shes not. its that simple. If shes not hot she can still be bangable for other reasons but the whole rating chicks system, is a female type system..its nerdy and something lames are using to spit out bro science.
You must be a 5.













Lol but really IMO when inquiring about situations with women on this forum, we rate (I rate) them to give others an idea of how hot she is because it matters.

Girls that are really hot (HB8.5-10) require a slightly different strategy because she likely KNOWS she's hot and will therefore give you more hoops to jump through generally.

Girls that are HB6-8 are slightly easier in that they don't give you AS MUCH shyt.

At least this is my subjective opinion based on my experiences.
 

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Math has its place. I recently installed a deli-style ticketing system in my bedroom. "Serving number 25!"...
 

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I think its good. i have no intention for chasing hot 10s so when i write something about girls i always say how shes 7s or something.

10s behavior and 5s behavior are like moon and earth. the more insecure are the easier to score. why would we call all women the same
 

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It's about context, how one converses with a 6 is different than how one converses with a 9. Two entirely different women. Though, it would be helpful to know the SMV of the poster in relation to see if he were "fighting" up or down.

And a little ego gratification can't hurt :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's about trying to limit the misunderstanding in terms of communication.

White someone's 5 can be someone's else 6, your 9 can hardly be a 5 to me.

That numbers basically makes it shorter and easier to communicate, would rather explain height, size, face shape, bodyfat level and so on?

Its not any different than AAA, A+, D rating given to bonds or stocks.
 

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Math has its place. I recently installed a deli-style ticketing system in my bedroom. "Serving number 25!"...
Off topic, I knew this electrician who accidentally wired a deli number sign wrong. The numbers went down instead of up. The customers got frustrated.

Now serving 27.
Now serving 26.
Now serving 25 lol.
 

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Really tired of this whole shes a 5, hes a 7, blablabla. What is this the math forums? please get outta here with that BS. Its very tiring, very unnecessary and screams out keyboard jockey, aka no time in the field, aka zero social experience.

Are you literally in your head categorizing women on a number? So when you see a fat dumpy chick you say oh she is a 2.2. Do you put a numbers label on your friends saying "oh yeah my best friend shes an 8". Do you go to the gym and judge the chick on the treadmill as a 6.37 ? I mean seriously...either shes hot, or shes not. its that simple. If shes not hot she can still be bangable for other reasons but the whole rating chicks system, is a female type system..its nerdy and something lames are using to spit out bro science.
I have said on here many times that my grading scale is fvckable and not fvckable.

I know some chicks that would pull a 9 rating easily but are so obnoxious that I cant stand to be around them long enough to attempt to fvck them......and I know some that would be 6.5s-7s that have a very sexual personality that I would bang.

Number ratings on appearance make no difference to me as there are more to it than looks alone once you have several plates and can start increasing the value of them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I believe most people don't take the number to heart, someones 9 could be a 5 in someone else's eyes. I have also noticed when somebody says she a solid 8 or 9, more then one member always says prove it by posting a picture, guess what that never happens.
This, that's why i use to post pics in my FR's

Honestly i said the same thing I remember one time a guy saying the girl was an HB12 when he showed the pic she was a 7 at best lol
 

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It's about trying to limit the misunderstanding in terms of communication.

White someone's 5 can be someone's else 6, your 9 can hardly be a 5 to me.

That numbers basically makes it shorter and easier to communicate, would rather explain height, size, face shape, bodyfat level and so on?

Its not any different than AAA, A+, D rating given to bonds or stocks.
This! Just a simple way to define a woman. We all have to keep in mind that is highly subjective. And as you spend more time with someone, your attraction tends to increase.

But you can't really mix up a 8 or 9 and a 5. 8's and 9's are the types that most men are going to find hot. 5's are the types that most will not find attractive
 

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I think pretty much it distills down to 3 ratings. 8 or 9 means just about any man would find her extremely attractive.
5 to 7 is very decent looking though not without flaws.
1 to 4 means - wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole, except maybe a 4 in a moment of extreme weakness.
 

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All jokes aside, a fair amount of you are MAKING MY POINT to the fullest. I swear, the mental gymnastics done in here.

Like you guys said, one guys 9, might be another guys 5, so in actuality putting a "number rating" on a female, doesnt actually do chit. Its pointless, doesnt really provide any context at all.

What it comes down to is a chick is either hot, not hot, or shes bangable still regardless. Etc. The whole turning this chit into a math equation is ridiculous, its some stuck in your head geek chit.

@Atom Smasher like you said, a 1-4 you wouldnt touch with a ten foot pole, so do we really need to have FOUR ratings numbers to get that point across? Why would you need to say oh shes a 2. When in your mind its the same thing as saying she is a 1, or a 4. Its all the same, aka NOT HOT, NOT BANGABLE. So when guys are all on here comparing 6's to 7's like its a huge difference, all i can say is wow. really? weak chit mayne.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bottom feeding is a 6/7, not a 4.

I find big inner distinctions between 8s and 9s.
 

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You must be a 5

Lol but really IMO when inquiring about situations with women on this forum, we rate (I rate) them to give others an idea of how hot she is because it matters.

Girls that are really hot (HB8.5-10) require a slightly different strategy because she likely KNOWS she's hot and will therefore give you more hoops to jump through generally.

Girls that are HB6-8 are slightly easier in that they don't give you AS MUCH shyt.

At least this is my subjective opinion based on my experiences.
TRuTH
 

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It's about context, how one converses with a 6 is different than how one converses with a 9. Two entirely different women. Though, it would be helpful to know the SMV of the poster in relation to see if he were "fighting" up or down.

And a little ego gratification can't hurt :)

Completely false in my viewpoint. How one converses to a 6 is NO DIFFERENT then how one converses to a 9. What Im saying is people are people no matter how they look. Its called not judging a book by its cover. When you actually make people your business, and speak with them and not categorize them as a number your game will elevate and you might actually become a true guru in that sense.

Until that point your stuck in the lower leagues with that type of thinking. Im talking transcending this hyper logical left brain thinking. Theres a time an place for that. of course but the whole numbers thing is just annoying, like bro if you post "yeah i was at the bar talking to this 6 but then a 7.5 walked up so you know i had to go hit her up" blabla...like IDK i guess thats mental masturbation for alotta fellas but its corny in my view.

In my point of view alot of guys are looking at this game as a science, when its really an art. So I say, drop the numbers BS. Lets focus on the FEELING here.
 

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You are absolutely right that how one converses with a 5 or 6 should be no different from how one converses with a 9.

The numbering system will always be around because it is nothing more than a convenient shorthand to give a general indication of how one personally regards a women. It's not meant to be accurate or universal. It's sort of like a gas gauge on your car. It will never tell you exactly how much gas is in there. It's just a convenient ballpark that any dummy can work with.
 

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Completely false in my viewpoint. How one converses to a 6 is NO DIFFERENT then how one converses to a 9. What Im saying is people are people no matter how they look. Its called not judging a book by its cover. When you actually make people your business, and speak with them and not categorize them as a number your game will elevate and you might actually become a true guru in that sense.

Until that point your stuck in the lower leagues with that type of thinking. Im talking transcending this hyper logical left brain thinking. Theres a time an place for that. of course but the whole numbers thing is just annoying, like bro if you post "yeah i was at the bar talking to this 6 but then a 7.5 walked up so you know i had to go hit her up" blabla...like IDK i guess thats mental masturbation for alotta fellas but its corny in my view.

In my point of view alot of guys are looking at this game as a science, when its really an art. So I say, drop the numbers BS. Lets focus on the FEELING here.
You are confusing pedastal-ing with knowing your audience.

The way you speak to a plumber, for example, is different that how you would converse with an attorney. This does not mean you pedestal the attorney, but rather understand that the plumber and the attorney have different motivations. To be effective in life you tailor your approach to the situation, person, and context. The one-dimensional ones-size-fits all approach screams jejunity, as you have yet to master the variegated nuances in people. The rating system is one facet. You also have education, upbringing, profession, dating history, social conditioning. All of these facets shape a person and require different rhetoric.

As I always say: Be fluid, tend to needs of the audience, and you will have the world by its balls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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