Telling me her job problems

[jnMissouri]

The way to deal with these situations is to tease them, tell her you charge $50 an hour to listen to her problems, though you accept non monetary payments as well...

DO NOT become her therapist. If in a relationship that's one thing, and yes, the other guy was right, they don't want you to solve their problems just listen to them. But when dating, early on, you don't want to become one of her guy friends or girl friends...

 

[Billtx49]

That's exactly what I did but then it just keeps going (insert rolling eyes). I just stopped texting her she will get it hopefully.

I like Coreys response to this type situation. ‘Do you want me to just listen, or do you need my advice’ ?

 

[Reykhel]

lots of bad advice here.

Yours is the worst. He knows the bitach many years, this is not donny and mandy dating show.

if she is someone who entertains you/ you have a good time with .. ask her out.

she's texting him at 4am. Can you read?

if you don't enjoy her company then ignore the texts ..

He's enjoyed her sex for a while, recently she's been a drag. Can you read?

i don't see the issue here.

Too many doc love articles

 

[Reykhel]

I like Coreys approach to this. ‘Do you want me to just listen, or do you need my advice’ ?

Your advice makes you a codependent.....

Corey went blue pill for the mass market.

You are not a biatches agony ant. Fvck that ****e

 

[Billtx49]

Your advice makes you a codependent

It’s not my advice. Read

 

[icantgetlaid]

i guess im still failing to see any issue here

you dont like her because she's a drag? don't respond .. move on with your life.

you still enjoy the sex? then suggest a time to get together

when a chick cold texts .. what she says in the texts means very little .. set up the get together if you want to hit .. ignore if she annoys you. it's that simple.

 

[Reykhel]

Not my advice. Read

Responding to Corey Wayne's line...

 

[Reykhel]

you still enjoy the sex? then suggest a time to get together

Give us an example there chief from your own life?

 

[icantgetlaid]

sarah: my life sucks (or some other worthless drama ridden drivel)
me (when i have a moment to respond): what are you up to thursday night? im going to be watching XYZ movie .. you should join me
sarah: ok
me: see you thursday at 8

convo ends .. if she responds with more drama just ignore the texts

 

[Reykhel]

sarah: my life sucks (or some other worthless drama ridden drivel)
me (when i have a moment to respond): what are you up to thursday night? im going to be watching XYZ movie .. you should join me
sarah: ok
me: see you thursday at 8

convo ends .. if she responds with more drama just ignore the texts

that's not from your own life you armchair pua

 

[icantgetlaid]

that's not from your own life you armchair pua

ignored

 

[Reykhel]

(or some other worthless drama ridden drivel)

imagined theory

(when i have a moment to respond

Fantasy

ignored

Of course, child.

 

[MrJack]

Haha I appreciate everyone's input, but no need to argue guys.

My gut is telling me (and always trust your gut right?) that this is one of those situations where the girl is emotionally into me and legitimately values my advice because she actually listens to it and does what I say. So I'm not too worried at this point now of becoming her emotional tampon.

She has since stopped with the "poor me" talk though so everything's good again. She's coming over tonight after work for some sexy time

 

[Building_and_Loan]

Haha I appreciate everyone's input, but no need to argue guys.

My gut is telling me (and always trust your gut right?) that this is one of those situations where the girl is emotionally into me and legitimately values my advice because she actually listens to it and does what I say. So I'm not too worried at this point now of becoming her emotional tampon.

She has since stopped with the "poor me" talk though so everything's good again. She's coming over tonight after work for some sexy time

Nice. Yeah I honestly don't know why a lot of advice is telling you to bail on this girl.

If you're getting good sex, and she's not a complete downer and emotionally draining you, and you also enjoy her company, I don't see any problem here.

She probably just doesn't have anyone in her life right now that will listen, so she needs that calming, strong influence on her that only a man can provide. So listen, rub her shoulders, and fvck her.

The minute she starts withholding sex though or starts dropping the "we just can't tonight" excuse, yeah I'd definitely bail. You're not her therapist.