So this girl that I went to class with almost everyday started liking me. But before that, her interest level seemed low. We would hang only on campus and when I asked her to do things outside of school she declined. However she did drive me home a few times after studying with me all night.
Later on her interest level seemed to increase. I gave her post it notes of what she should be doing to study. She began contacting me more frequently. Then she sent an insulting picture to me and I did not contact her for a day. I explained to her that it was disrespectful and she rushed to apologize. After that her interest increased even more.
We began hanging out and actually get to know each other more. One night she hugged me really hard. It was tight and she squeezed me multiple times which spanned a few minutes. For some reason it did not feel right to me and I did not go any further with her. From there on her interest dropped gradually.
For one it did not feel genuine. It felt like she only liked me after I called her out on the disrespect and I only learned how to do that from this website. It felt like she only liked me bc I won a million dollars.
On the other hand, it also felt like I wanted to fvck a ton of girls before entering something serious with this girl. The way she hugged me seemed like it was emotional. I've never had a hug like that before though so I don't have any reference points to compare with. It felt like I didn't want to hurt her later on by breaking up or anything bc after reading the DJ bible, I am convinced that I have to gain at least some more experience before tying myself down.
So did I do the right thing? My intuition probably guided a lot of my decisions, but i still feel regret. It could've been a good time with this girl. But maybe I am saying that bc I haven't gone out there to play the field yet.
Later on her interest level seemed to increase. I gave her post it notes of what she should be doing to study. She began contacting me more frequently. Then she sent an insulting picture to me and I did not contact her for a day. I explained to her that it was disrespectful and she rushed to apologize. After that her interest increased even more.
We began hanging out and actually get to know each other more. One night she hugged me really hard. It was tight and she squeezed me multiple times which spanned a few minutes. For some reason it did not feel right to me and I did not go any further with her. From there on her interest dropped gradually.
For one it did not feel genuine. It felt like she only liked me after I called her out on the disrespect and I only learned how to do that from this website. It felt like she only liked me bc I won a million dollars.
On the other hand, it also felt like I wanted to fvck a ton of girls before entering something serious with this girl. The way she hugged me seemed like it was emotional. I've never had a hug like that before though so I don't have any reference points to compare with. It felt like I didn't want to hurt her later on by breaking up or anything bc after reading the DJ bible, I am convinced that I have to gain at least some more experience before tying myself down.
So did I do the right thing? My intuition probably guided a lot of my decisions, but i still feel regret. It could've been a good time with this girl. But maybe I am saying that bc I haven't gone out there to play the field yet.
