"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Not being approached by woman because you're a higher value?
- Thread starter bario
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
guru1000
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Within every "advantage," lies a disadvantage. Though possessing "high value" rewards you in many other areas, thus women become expendable, ergo irrelevant, within the totality of your fabulous life.
This is true. The professional athletes out there get all the puss they want, but there are women trying to use them to get pregnant and sue them for child support. They have women sign contracts before they hook up. As a high value man you can really have a target on your back
guru1000
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Haha. Real story follows. This weekend a girl insisted on knowing my last name on the second date. Now I'm no celebrity (yet) but I do know the power of a scorned women, and the deleterious implications that a woman with an agenda could affect on my business. So I asked her to sign a non-disclosure agreement, and then I would release my last name.
The look on her face was priceless.
wifehunter
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But, in the end it sucks, because the girls are insecure and nothing will come of it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.